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In fact, the key to this problem is not love at first sight, but the two people who are together. Because love and marriage all need to be managed, it is impossible to say that two people play their own games, or they are very self-conscious, and will not consider others, or that one of them is very willful and often unreasonable, etc., these cannot last long, because anyone has a bottom line, and it is impossible to endure one person or one thing all the time.
The essence of love at first sight is probably "seeing color", that is, mutual affection is born from "phase". Any form of love can last or die. The long-term premise is that both of them know that there is no perfection in the world and are willing to accept each other's imperfections; Understand and respect each other's bottom line, and be willing to do what the other person likes without violating their principles.
Whether the first two people are together because of love at first sight, or because of the long-term love together, this is just the beginning, after the beginning is a long process, although in daily life people often only look at the result of a thing, rarely see what the process is, but without the process, where the result comes.
It can be seen that the process is important. The process is the bits and pieces of daily life, two people need to continue to run in, understand each other, either change or accept, in short, it is a business philosophy about life, is a process of continuous learning and growth, both parties are indispensable. Only when the two sides understand each other in the continuous running-in, accept each other's shortcomings, and constantly communicate, progress and change, can they be long-lasting.
People's hearts are fickle, even if they were once vigorous and have been in love for 20 years, they may suddenly change their minds! Not to mention love at first sight? Love at first sight is actually love at first sight, and they come together because of the attraction of their appearance.
If you happen to have a good personality, knowledge, and opinions, maybe you can also fall in love for a long time. On the contrary, if it is simply an external attraction, then with the passage of time and the aging of the face, this love at first sight will slowly fade, after all, there is no emotional foundation, and it is difficult to stand the test. Therefore, you can only slowly understand on the basis of love, and if you are lucky, you will like it for a long, long time!
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will definitely persevere, because this person is the person I liked very much at first sight, and the relationship between the two people will get better and better in the end.
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It is difficult for people who fall in love at first sight to go on, although at the beginning two people love each other very much, but two people do not know each other, there will be a lot of conflicts, and both people will choose to break up.
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I don't think so. This needs to look at the feelings of two people, and at the same time, it also needs to see whether these two people are suitable and whether they have the same three views.
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I don't think it's possible to go on forever, because this kind of love at first sight is very short-lived, and there will be some contradictions if you get along for a long time.
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Yes, because this is an emotional exchange, it is possible that two people will indeed have wonderful feelings in an instant.
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I won't go on forever, because there is a good feeling on the first side, but there will be contradictions in the process of getting along. will be separated.
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It all depends on the individual's thoughts. If a person doesn't feel like they're excited when they meet for the first time, they may choose to continue to get to know each other and see what the future holds. The depth of understanding can increase mutual understanding through activities such as hobbies, hobbies, watching movies, going out to eat together, etc., and maybe one day they can experience each other's heartbeat.
However, some people will stick to their original intentions, do not think that the relationship is worth continuing to develop, and use the heartbeat as an important criterion for judging whether two people are suitable for being together, in which case, the person may not choose to continue. In conclusion, this question depends on personal considerations, as well as the question of how the long-term relationship between the two parties develops.
Each of us hopes that we can get a happy and sweet love, and we strive for it. Among them, the love at first sight love that touches the heart at first sight is the most romantic and what we look forward to. But that doesn't mean that we will give up when we meet a boy or girl who doesn't have a crush at first sight.
The reason why I say this is because love at first sight is hard to find, people can only really understand each other through long-term interactions, and love should be rational and not emotional.
1, the love at first sight is unattainable, so it cannot be forced. At first sight, this kind of love at first sight is the most romantic, and it is also the most enviable and expected. But this kind of love is hard to come by, and only a very small number of people can get such love, and it is undesirable for most people.
Therefore, we can't force this kind of love, even if we can't meet it, we should choose it rationally.
2. People can only really understand each other through long-term interactions. Fundamentally, for two people to fully understand each other, they must be able to achieve it through a long relationship. Therefore, the kind of love at first sight, although it is romantic, is not necessarily the best state of love.
In fact, for love with the goal of lifelong companionship, two people who love each other should still get a full understanding through long-term dating, in order to achieve true happiness.
3. For love, we should be rational, not emotional. Although love is a kind of luck to enhance feelings, the process of pursuing love cannot only focus on feelings. Emotional love is destined to fail to achieve a satisfactory result, so the kind of love at first sight that is heart-warming at first sight may not necessarily be able to achieve happiness, only through rational analysis and judgment, choose the most suitable person for yourself as a partner, in order to find a lover who is truly suitable for you.
Therefore, even if we meet a boy or girl who is not attracted at first sight, we should continue to choose and give each other enough time to get to know each other, so that we can leave no regrets.
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I believe that people who fall in love at first sight can go to the end, but no one knows whether they will be happy in the end. In real life, we always look forward to two people falling in love at first sight in the vast sea of people, two people getting married hand in hand, and spending their lives side by side. But fantasy is not a substitute for life, and people who fall in love at first sight may be able to go to the end, but there may be a sad ending.
<> love always comes to an end, only some ends are happy and some are sad. The relationships I've experienced so far have hardly been love at first sight, but from the outside, the probability of falling in love is very low. But a relationship will eventually have an explanation, some explanations are marriages, and some explanations are the lack of things in each round of dates.
Two people who fall in love at first sight in the vast sea of people, if they can create happiness that belongs to two people together, then marriage may be what you call the last; However, if this relationship is not valued, the breakup is also the last confession of feelings. I believe that people who fall in love at first sight can make it to the end. This is perhaps my last fantasy of love.
I have experienced the pain and pain of falling out of love, and I have also experienced the sweetness and beauty of love, although my love has dissipated in time, but I still want to give love some of the best expectations.
Love at first sight has never been experienced once in my life, and I never had that opportunity again. I didn't get married because of love, but because the two of us got along. I'm already a little desperate for love, but I still hope to see beautiful feelings and look forward to more happiness in life.
Making people who fall in love at first sight happy may be the last struggle of this expectation. You can't be sure of a happy love at once, whether it's love at first sight or love for a long time, whether two people can go to the final happiness is really too many factors. Until the last day, no one had a definite answer.
Be careful to manage your feelings, and your feelings will have more hope of growing old from love at first sight. Everyone has their own opportunities. I hope everyone can find their other half in the new year.
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When a person has been empty for a long time, it is actually easy to fall in love at first sight, and at an ordinary time and place, he meets a person with light all over his body.
The lover's eyes are out of Xi Shi", his smile and every move exude a unique charm, you try everything to get closer, and soon establish a relationship, at this time, the emotional road begins to diverge to both ends.
At one end of the spectrum, the freshness is not there, and the hormones come and go quickly. At one end is the emotion of "indescribable", and finally it turns into the attachment between family members.
Is it too quick to determine that the relationship is not long-lasting? Can the relationship that has experienced the long-distance love run be long-lasting? None of this is absolute.
But it cannot be denied that there is a period of love in a relationship, and after the period of love, there is no "unreserved love and love after being attracted by the other party's temperament and appearance".
If you meet the right person, it's a kind of luck, and if you don't, it's also a kind of growth! Feelings are only good or bad, right or wrong!
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