Some like love at first sight and some like to fall in love over time, what do you think?

Hello, let me take a look at this question.

As the saying goes, "turnip greens have their own love", just like some people like immediate results, and some people like to flow a long stream, which is normal.

There is a reason for any relationship.

Let me briefly address these two cases.

Love is an idiom for a long time, and the explanation of the encyclopedia is:

It means that after being together for a long time, feelings will arise. On the contrary, love at first sight, the difference is the speed at which you like the other person; It is usually used between people, or between people and other things.

For example, many of our fathers are married arranged by the family, and some people have never even met before they get married, almost all of them slowly run in after marriage, and then fall in love over time, stumbling and walking hand in hand to complete their lives. I don't know if it was due to the lack of development of the Internet at that time or for some reason, I heard very little news of their divorce.

Let's talk about love at first sight, or quote the explanation of the encyclopedia:

Love at first sight means that a boy or girl has feelings for each other as soon as they meet, and they like him (her) as soon as they meet. On the contrary, the difference is the speed of liking each other.

Or for example, I have a colleague who has not been in love for more than 30 years, and the old man in the family is urging him to hold his grandson, and suddenly one day he sent him candy, it turned out that he and a girl introduced by someone dated for a week and got married.

In life, it is actually difficult to distinguish between love at first sight and long-term love, and there is not much boundary, for example, the combination of fathers I cited before is long-term love, but it is not excluded that it will be love at first sight when you meet; Another example is the flash marriage of a colleague I caught, not necessarily they fell in love at first sight, or it may be to complete the tasks at home, get married first and then slowly fall in love over time.

I think that love at first sight and love for a long time is not an absolute positive and negative meaning, life needs two people to tolerate and understand each other, to create a harmonious living atmosphere, otherwise whether you are love at first sight, or love for a long time, will be kind to break off.

The above is mine, thank you**!

I prefer long-term love, I think the long-term love is more stable, and the love at first sight relationship is not very reliable.

I think it's more reliable to have a relationship over time, and I think this kind of relationship will be more stable.

Everyone's thoughts and concepts about feelings are different, so some people like to fall in love at first sight, and some people like to fall in love over time, which is also very normal.

I think it's normal to have this kind of situation because everyone's personality is different.

The premise of love at first sight is that the boy is handsome and the girl is beautiful. The premise of long-term love is that boys and girls are rich and have been licking dogs.

Everyone wants to be able to get a happy and sweet love and strives for it. ......Among them, the love at first sight love that touches the heart at first sight is the most romantic and what we look forward to. But that doesn't mean that we will give up when we meet a boy or girl who doesn't have a crush at first sight.

The reason why I say this is because love at first sight is hard to find, people can only really understand each other through long-term interactions, and love should be rational and not emotional.

1. Love at first sight is unattainable, so it cannot be forced.

At first sight, this kind of love at first sight is the most romantic, and it is also the most enviable and expected. ......But this kind of love is hard to come by, and only a very small number of people can get such love, and it is undesirable for most people. ......Therefore, we can't force this kind of love, even if we can't meet it, we should choose it rationally.

2. People can only really understand each other through long-term interactions.

Fundamentally, for two people to fully understand each other, they must be able to achieve it through a long relationship. ......Therefore, the kind of love at first sight, although it is romantic, is not necessarily the best state of love. ......In fact, for love with the goal of lifelong companionship, two people who love each other should still get a full understanding through long-term dating, in order to achieve true happiness.

3. We should be rational about love, not emotional.

Although love is a kind of feeling, the process of pursuing love cannot only focus on feelings. ......The emotional wheel of love is destined to fail to achieve a satisfactory result, so the kind of love at first sight that is heart-warming at first sight may not necessarily be able to achieve happiness, only through rational analysis and judgment, choose the most suitable person for yourself as a partner, in order to find a true suitable lover for yourself. ......Therefore, even if we meet a boy or girl who is not attracted at first sight, we should continue to choose and give each other enough time to get to know each other, so that we can leave no regrets.

Sometimes it's very strange, there is no reason to like someone, maybe it's because you feel very pleasing to the eye, or you think this person is very comfortable, and you want to be with him, these may be because of everyone's different feelings, maybe this is the arrangement of fate.

When we were students, we might like a person because he could study well, or we might like him inexplicably because he could smile at himself. When we were young, we all knew from books that this was the role of teenagers' hormones, and it was just a good feeling, but it was exaggerated by us into a like, but this kind of like was pure, without any purpose, anyway, I think this kind of like is very good.

But I think that if you feel that you like someone at a glance, you should seriously distinguish between silver and silver nuclei, is it love at first sight or a momentary favor? Because we often like this way, inexplicably like a person, maybe there is more than one person in this situation, you may like several people at the same time, this kind of liking may be short-term, you may like it for a few days, and then you don't like it, and even become a hate. So we have to face up to this problem.

In fact, the biggest reason for this phenomenon is actually from our inner fantasies, maybe we just met for the first time, and we imagined everything about him, as if you like a good student, you will fantasize in your heart that a person who studies well is a good student, and must be the kind of child who is good to his parents and sleeps on time, but in fact, it is not the case, people who study well are not necessarily good in all aspects, this is all imagined by themselves.

It is normal to like a person, but it is necessary to distinguish whether it is really like or a momentary hot-headedness, because two hot-headed people together will end up with a bad ending, so we must be cautious to see our hearts clearly, and I hope we can all find the person we like and like ourselves.

I like love at first sight, because falling in love with the other person at a glance shows that he is very much in line with his heart's requirements, and sometimes he may not be able to fall in love over time.

I like love at first sight even more, I think such two people may have a lot of fate, and the relationship between the two people will be better.