Do you believe in love at first sight? Did you fall in love at first sight and get married?

Let me tell you my story, the student who has just started his junior year and can go to the classroom for self-study is still a boy, and he is definitely a hard-pressed young man.

While reading a book, a girl floated into my front row seat and turned to talk to me.

A wonderful reason (and in hindsight, it was) was to complete an assignment assigned by a Mandarin teacher.

The content of the assignment is to find a strange person of the opposite sex to prove that you have the ability to communicate.

At that time, I listened to it and thought that the teacher's homework was really meaningful, but my mind had already drifted to the sky, in reverie in reverie, the next day, still in the evening, we made an appointment to meet, when we came back from a walk, our hands were held together, and it has been three years now, and the relationship is still very good.

When love suddenly came, I didn't have the slightest doubt, nor did I flinch in the slightest.

Therefore, I believe that love has its own providence in the dark. I believe it. We got married.

How to understand it? Because the so-called love at first sight is not the kind of so-called appearance and clothing in my opinion. It's the tacit understanding of two people when they meet for the first time, and the attraction of a temperament between each other...

Some people think that love at first sight is just a pretext for appearance control, and there is no such thing as love at first sight.

But if love at first sight is that kind of mutual attraction, it may really exist...

It's a pity I didn't meet it.

Tell the story of a friend, there is a birthmark on the man's body that resembles the word "Wang", the family thought that the child would grow up to be an official or something, until later I met a girl who fell in love at first sight, and the two have been married for many years now, and the woman's name is Wang Lulu.

I'll just say that I believe in its existence, not in its reliability. The one I fell in love with at first sight didn't get married anyway.

Believe, and don't believe.

I believe that everyone has a definition of their future partner, and when I see someone for the first time one day, I will really exclaim in my heart, oh my God, isn't this the one who was tailor-made for me?

But I think it's more accurate to call it "Meaning at First Sight," because there's no love yet.

Then in the slow contact, in a longer period of time, maybe you will find that all kinds of things about him are acceptable to you, so you have love; Maybe you'll find that what you like is just your fantasy, and you don't even want to.

Therefore, love at first sight exists, but it is not necessarily really love.

According to Jungian psychology, every man's subconscious has an Anima, who is only hazy, like a veiled girl, who does not have a concrete form, but is a collection of certain temperaments (e.g., smart, graceful, passionate, quiet, etc.). When a man meets a girl he likes (the so-called love at first sight), the subconscious Anima has a specific form, which makes the man feel that she is the person he wants to find and can't help but want to get close to. For a man, the higher the fit of Anima, the more he cares about her, and the more he is excited.

For women, who have more than one Animus in their subconscious, it may be easy to fall in love with men with very different styles, all due to subconscious guidance.

For me, I still don't believe in love at first sight, upstairs said "love at first sight is love, love over time is a trade-off", I don't agree with him, love at first sight is not necessarily love, it may be more because of the above.

Love at first sight is common, but it rarely goes to the end. I believe that the so-called love at first sight is when both people are at the best moment of courtship. Add some environment and coincidence, and then sparks fly.

Believe. It was love at first sight, that is, the screws and nuts everyone got together and tried it, and it was roughly suitable.

Maybe it's a little unsmooth, but the threaded teeth are matched, and it's easier to run in.

The rotten pot has its own broken lid matching, you subconsciously have a standard image of inviting people, just match it, I believe the intuition is very good.

Love at first sight is basically an association of appearances, and it takes a long time to see people's hearts. For people you don't know, love at first sight is basically just impulsive.