My boyfriend is from a first tier city and has a strong sense of superiority, how should I get along

In love, there is not only sweetness, but also a lot of troubles, and the superiority of the boyfriend from a city.

It is one of the troubles, because this sense of superiority is always condescending to come from non-first-tier cities.

's girlfriend is making all kinds of criticism, so how should you get along with him?

People in first-tier cities have a strong sense of superiority, one of which is that they feel well-informed, after all, in first-tier cities, sometimes walking around the street is not much different from traveling abroad, so they always feel that they are well-informed and look down on people in non-first-tier cities. But how much do people who grew up in big cities know about wild plants and agricultural civilization?

If you have the opportunity, you can take him to the mountains and wilderness for a walk, let him feel the characteristics of the mountains and the far-reaching agricultural civilization of our country, and let him understand that he does not know everything, but everything, and there are different scenery in the vast fields.

Usually two people have to communicate with each other, and you also have to tell him that the reason why he is willing to be with him is not because he is from a first-tier city, but because there are some things about him that attract you very much, and these places are his own unique characteristics and have nothing to do with the city he lives in.

Let him know what you really think in your heart, and clearly tell him that you and him are equal in this relationship in this world, no one is higher than anyone, no one is lower than anyone, his sense of superiority is a very naïve thought and behavior, and it is also a dangerous behavior that hurts the feelings of two people. Competitors from some non-first-tier cities are rising faster, and at the same time, through the example of his friends or colleagues, he can understand that a person can not choose his own background, but he can choose whether his career can be successful, a person born in ** and his performance in the workplace is sometimes not proportional, but young people from small cities are more hard-working and motivated, <>

If all kinds of methods still don't play any role, then there is no need to endure and no longer communicate, you can only consider breaking up, after all, two people together, not to let people condescend to your daily life to point fingers at you to lose yourself, but to rely on each other to walk the long road of life together, and face the ups and downs on the road together. Although it is painful to break up, it is a long-term pain if you are pointing fingers at you for decades, so it is not a difficult thing to break up after thinking about it.

You must work hard to improve yourself to become a better person, let yourself have more shining points, and you can also communicate with your boyfriend, the two people are equal, although you are from some cities, but I am not bad, two people can get along equally.

To improve self-ability, you must know that this is the most conducive to improving self-confidence, don't compete with him, and when you get along with this kind of person, don't care too much about him.

You must improve your abilities, find an excellent job, and you can also improve your academic qualifications, learn more knowledge, and impress your boyfriend.

Improve your knowledge, make yourself better, don't rely too much on the other party's economic conditions, don't rely too much on the other party, give the other party a certain amount of personal space, and don't make trouble with the other party.