I just want to make friends with the most human beings, because that doesn t talk nonsense

Everyone has a heart-to-heart connection with each other, which is simpler, and may be understood with a single action and eyes;

There is a tacit understanding.

Making friends requires common interests, common hobbies, and common language, and the relationship between friends will last longer.

Yes, for what you said, after all, everyone's values are different.

Your request reminds me of Andy from Ode to Joy.

Yours has her ability to have her "willfulness".

You just haven't seen him have a relationship, not that he's okay.

Because you are kinder in heart.

So together with each other.

Similar views. Naturally, they will get closer to each other.

Because you have a bold personality, uprightness, and do not beat around the bush, honest people have no heart, and only when you are friends with honest people can you have common topics to talk about. This kind of friend is worth making.

Because your heart likes this type of person like them, he can be honest and not treacherous, and I like this too

Because you are an upright, kind, and righteous person. It's the same with me. People who are scheming and have bad hearts are reluctant to come into contact. Because I can't get used to it.

No matter how honest people are, there are people who speak ill of others behind their backs.

Because you can't play with dishonest people.

Friends, true friends are accumulated from anything. It's not that just a few days together mean that you are really good friends. For the person in my picture, I think, well.

This person is good, you think you can be friends with him, just be bold, try first, if he is also willing to be friends with you, if you can, you can continue to have a deep friendship. For the kind of people who don't take you seriously, it's useless to make that kind of friend, but it will make you very tired, so it's better not to make friends. Hey.

Everyone has their own personality, and wouldn't it be scary if everyone had the same personality?

I'm pretty much the same, but I have to adapt to this society if I want to mix in. Try to talk to people as much as possible. Top you.

I also have this, you have to refuse hard, or you may be stalked.

Directly blocked. Talking to him is a waste of time and a waste of life.

The reason is simple, stingy people only want to get, but never give. If you are asked to be with a person, you will have to spend money on everything you do every day when you eat and go out, and let him spend some money is the same as asking him to die, are you willing to be friends with him? Apparently not.

To be a human being, it is good to be worthy of others' conscience.

Speak when you see someone saying something (when you see an adult who is going to speak, you talk as if you are an adult, and when you see a child, you talk as if you are a child, just for example, no one can teach you how to say it on a daily basis, only you can think about it).

Socializing, for example, friends, making friends, watering trees and roots, if a friend treats you sincerely, you also have to be sincere to others, how to see if a friend is sincere, when you have something and is in trouble, he will try his best to help you, give you the right answer, one or two true true friends are enough, for people who hate or don't like it, and for some reason you have to be together, then try to talk to him less, but you have to get by on face.

This is just my personal experience, I hope it can help you!

First of all, you have to be confident, so that others will see you and think that you are very capable, and at the same time, you yourself can speak and do things naturally and decently. Secondly, you must be sincere, and you can't be cautious and deceive. Third, you can't be too honest and stupid, you must keep up with other people's ideas, and you can't let others think that you are so foolish, otherwise, he will think you are stupid, have no value in making friends with you, and will not treat you as equals.

Finally, learn some communication skills, see people and talk about people, and talk nonsense, and it's basically OK.

As the saying goes, it's hard to be a man, it's hard to be a man, and it's hard to be a man. He must first be a good man, otherwise, he will be ridiculed in society! (To be a good person who is respected is the fervent desire of the vast majority of righteous people.) ）

In fact, it is not that difficult to be a person, talk, make friends, or even get along with ordinary people. All you have to do is try to do the following:

Sincerity (based on sincerity, others will be willing to associate with you).

Self-confidence (believing in yourself in order to approach others boldly).

Take the initiative (If you respect others and take the initiative to approach them, they will inevitably be willing to approach you.) Because people have feelings! ）

Passion (you just have to be people-oriented and kind to others, caring for others, and being helpful.) You're bound to have more and more friends. On the other hand, if you always look at people coldly and only care about yourself and ignore others, who wants to approach you? ）

Studious. Equip yourself with a certain level of knowledge and verbal communication skills (which is necessary for interpersonal communication. A man who is unlearned and not good at words. His relationships must have been terrible! ）

Be good at making friends (make friends with good conduct and helpful friends in your life.) As long as you treat your friends, you just need to always adhere to the principles of sincerity, selflessness, enthusiasm, generosity, and willingness to help each other. As the saying goes, there is no dealing, no gentleman, which means that in the process of making friends, the grace of dripping water must be reciprocated.

Don't just ask for something in return. If it's the latter, you'll have fewer and fewer friends! If the former is the case, you will have more and more close friends!

If you can do all of the above, you will be able to do it!

We are not born saints, and when we are angry, we naturally complain, criticize, blame, sarcastic, ridicule others, and sometimes even use this as a label for bravery, but you will find that if you do, you will mess up your life.

But everyone if they are able to memorize this formula "I observe......I feel ......It's because of ......I beg for ......Consciously take a deep breath at every critical moment, and then apply this formula, listen sincerely, feedback, I believe you will find that your life realm suddenly opens up, this does not seem to be a lofty tool, if you can adhere to the "learn and learn", you can achieve Mencius said: "everyone can be Yao Shun"!

To parents, sometimes you can talk back and tell them that you have grown up and have your own ideas, but don't scold people, and be filial and respectful from the heart.

Say something to your friends, tell them your opinion, but don't be overpowering and stressful.

Be polite to classmates and colleagues, have your own bottom line, don't deliberately form small groups to ridicule and exclude others, and be positive.

But don't be a good person, now you are simply good to others, and others will only think you are stupid.

Don't hide too much from your true confidant, even if it's not heart-to-heart, you have to keep dating from the heart.

Don't chase after the people you like, don't be stubborn, be gentle, be kind.

Get it Don't let yourself lose your personality Use your charisma to attract others instead of being infamous.

To the lover who is together, gentleness, thoughtfulness, kindness, patience is basic, not too strong, and not weak and incompetent.

Walking right, walking right, naturally having your own aura, erudite, serious and studious, naturally appreciated.

Don't be too mean to yourself, be at peace with what you encounter, life is too short, learn to enjoy life, be uneasy with the status quo, but don't work hard for fame and fortune.

Have a calm mind, do what you should do, be a person who protects yourself, loves the people around you, is upright, harmless, but difficult to knock down a strong heart.

Be a man: Strive to have a clear conscience! Strive to please him when pleasing yourself, and please others when you please him, otherwise, first be good to yourself, and then help the world.

Speak: It is better to speak well than to speak badly. The Buddha's mouth is compassionate and everything is peaceful! Look at everything on the positive side.

Socializing: Try to make friends with the kind of people you want to be. Including people with good fortune, people who can talk, people with humor, and so on.

Being a man is a difficult problem, uniting and respecting the old and loving the young are the principles of being a man, just like eating and toasting with the elders to stand up and operate with both hands. Show respect for your elders, and be diligent in handing out cigarettes or pouring tea. Do things with quick eyes and quick hands.

To the children to squat down and talk and so on are all skills of life, the landlord said to talk or something, not the more you say, the better. The key is to the point. If there is no hit, it will be good to have a blockbuster effect.

Be a down-to-earth person, do things seriously, and make friends requires a sincere heart.

It is necessary to make friends with your own heart, especially to be anxious about what others are anxious about and what others think at critical times. If you actually do this, you still feel that you have very few friends around. Hehe, that's offending people by not being able to speak like me.

I can't speak because I am straightforward, and my words are not brainy. I think I'll just talk less and do more. Hehe.

Friend, guess you're a very strong young man with a lot of self-esteem.

Remember, as long as you are a law-abiding person, as long as you are a positive young person, you must stick to your own views and do your own thing.

Take a look at books that interact with people and constantly improve your quality and personality. I believe that in the end you are a very good person!

I sincerely hope that you are a person who likes to read!

I think as long as you do your best, endure when you need it, bow your head when you need it, and be a man is to be able to bend and stretch. Say what you think in your heart, of course, you have to be measured when you speak, you have to say the right things at the right time, make friends, be good at talking, don't put on a stinky face all day long, as long as you really want to be friends with each other, then it's not a problem, get along with people, it's not simple to say, first of all, we must talk about integrity, everyone will have shortcomings, the key is whether you see your shortcomings and then learn from other aspects. (Of course, this is my own opinion, but I hope it can help you.)

Do unto others as you would have them do to you... Whenever you want to do something, you have to think clearly about what you are doing if others treat you like this, if you think there is no problem, there may be no problem, but also think clearly about the things that the other party does not like, in short, if it is related to other people, it is best to think clearly from the direction of other people, so that you will at least not be hated when you are a person and talk, so that your social interaction will slowly develop, and then when communicating with people who are not the same as yourself, you must explore the preferences of the other party, especially people who are older than themselves, for people around 40 years old, they want us young people to have a sense of worship for him, because they want others to look like they are successful, for people around 50 years old, if they have a higher position, congratulations, this kind of people are not as difficult to get along with as you think, because they all understand a truth, do things and leave a line, and see each other in the future... Unless the person is very high-ranking or not very mean, so as long as you have the right attitude, you won't have a problem, and if you want to win favor, then you have to talk to them and give them a sense that you respect them, so that basically you have no problem.