Should young people go with the flow, or should they do their best?

Young people should do their best to do things, because young people are impulsive, can not be satisfied with the status quo, to try to find a breakthrough, to actively face various challenges, must not have that kind of pension mentality.

I think we should do our best, only in this way can we make young people better and not leave too many regrets.

I think young people should do their best, because you can only look comfortable if you try your best to live your life. It's not a bad thing to go with the flow, but constant compromises will only make life worse and worse.

Everyone has a beautiful yearning for life and has dreams, but if we put our minds on the distant dream of searching the bridge all day long, how can we have the energy to do a good job in the present, what we have to do is to live the present with all our hearts, and then wait for the future results naturally!

As the saying goes: what is yours is yours, you can't snatch it, and it's pointless to keep it if it's not yours!

You have to believe that the causal relationship is going on in an orderly manner from beginning to end, and if you give it some time, you will definitely be able to get the rewards you deserve!

But why is it that so many people's efforts are not reciprocated? It takes dedication and persistence!

For cause and effect, only 20% is obvious, and the remaining 80% will slowly return to you, and most people set their goals too high, don't see the return in a short period of time, and then give up, which is why many people always don't get the results they want!

But you also have to understand a truth, everything is a dynamic process and energy-consuming process, if you don't pay, 20% of what you get will be slowly depleted, therefore, this is why you will get worse and worse!

Recently, I have read classics such as "Lao Tzu's Interpretation" and "Wang Yangming's Biography", as well as personal learning and management books such as "Diligence" and "Leap", coupled with the previous knowledge system and personal perception, I always feel that there are two voices fighting in my head.

One voice says that people should go with the flow, have no quarrel with the world, and be kind to others, so that the years will be quiet, content, and happy, and finally reach the perfect state of the unity of nature and man, and even managers can "rule by doing nothing".

Another Qingshan voice said that people should work hard, strive for the goal when they see it, and never give up until the last moment. Wang Yangming also said, "During the day, when you feel troubled, you will meditate." If you are too lazy to read, then you should read a book", which means that if you feel irritable, you have to meditate, and if you don't want to read, you have to force yourself to read.

"Deliberate practice" also emphasizes the mastery of strong skills through long-term intensive training.

Which is right? Any theory, including philosophical theory, has a scope of application. After analyzing the objects and scope of the two statements, I finally smoothed out the relationship between the two and calmed down the inner quarrel.

1.To "Heaven and man."

1. The theory of "going with the flow" is applicable to dealing with the relationship between individuals and the external environment, trends, and basic laws and theories. When personal strength is relatively small, we should pay special attention to analyzing the objective environment, adapt to the environment, take advantage of the trend, and do not do things like praying mantis blocking cars, worrying about the sky, or even seeking fish from the wood.

In the process of social development, what we ordinary people can do is to analyze trends, seize opportunities, and avoid jumping into pits, instead of trying to escape or change society, because you are still very weak.

2.For the theory of "hard work and deliberate struggle", it is suitable for dealing with the goals that individuals can achieve by jumping a jump, or the logic is very clear, and there is a high probability of success through hard work, and after completing their own hard work plan, they must be at least half sure that they can get things done.

For example, learning to master a new skill can be done through hard work because it has been validated by others. For another example, if you strive for your ideals, you can divide your goals into stages and achieve your ideals step by step through hard work.

There is an intersection between the two in actual life and spring work, and at this time, it is mainly necessary to have an objective and accurate judgment of their own strength and growth.

To take an extreme example, someone especially hates winter, and before he has the ability to change reality, he needs to adapt to the environment, adapt to winter, and have fun in the bitterness. But one day he has the ability to choose, at least in the winter, he can run to Sanya or Australia to spend the winter, where it is summer.

Therefore, when judging whether you should go with the flow or rise up to change, you must first judge your own ability; Secondly, it is necessary to analyze whether this kind of effort is worth it, if it takes a lot of effort, and in the end, although it also changes the environment, but it does not gain much for yourself, then the gains outweigh the losses, and it is better to waste your efforts, it is better to go with the flow.

To sum up, I feel that we should go with the flow in the general environment and strive hard in our own areas of struggle.

Hello! People must go with the flow.

There are broad and narrow senses of going with nature, and the broad sense of going with nature means that people should live in harmony with nature, rationally develop and utilize nature, and pay attention to sustainable development.

In the narrow sense, going with the flow means that people should plan and achieve their own behaviors and goals according to their own abilities and strengths, of course, this also includes hard work or potential development, that is, the so-called "go with the flow and do what you should do". In particular, it is important to note that we must not "go with the flow and do whatever we want", because this is an extremely irresponsible behavior, which is not beneficial to others, oneself and society, and may even violate the law.

To go with the flow is to go with the flow, without making any changes and efforts, and to leave it to fend for itself. You ask whether you want to go with the flow, it depends on what is going on, and what you think, such as feelings, if you feel that a relationship is not necessarily too reluctant, and reluctantly working hard will make you feel very tired and meaningless, then you can go with the flow. If it is learning, since you have chosen to learn, you should study hard, and if you go with the flow, you can't learn well, and this thing is not suitable for going with the flow, otherwise why study? Right.

Some things really have to go with the flow, don't deliberately change it, distinguish the situation, and some still have to rely on yourself to fight for it.

Analyze the situation to see how to do it well, have your own opinions, dare to take responsibility, pay attention to learning, summarize, and then decide whether to go with the flow, let things develop freely, or take measures, in fact, going with the flow is not going with the flow, going with the flow is conditional, based on certain conditions, simply going with the flow is harmful, not conducive to having a good life, life has to follow the development of things and take measures to change, so that there will be a good life, along the development of things and take measures to change is dialectical unity.

People live a lifetime, sometimes they have to go with the flow, and sometimes they have to swim against the current. Don't blindly go with the flow, so people won't get in! Which of the many successful people in the world goes with the flow!

Just go with the flow and just settle for that! I don't know what enterprising people say! Just like the chance!

You can't do anything if you don't know it!

People have to go with the flow. The so-called going with the flow means that human development should follow objective laws, follow the trend, be people-oriented, and not grow abnormally and not go against the world. However, following the trend is not inaction, we must work hard at the right time, train to become useful talents, and write high-quality life answers.

Isn't it all about going with the flow? It's not a Buddhist life, many times you have to fight for things that belong to you, otherwise others will grab them as a matter of course, and it's the kind of thing that you don't grasp at all, so let it be.

It is not a generalization, it is different on the facts, and the methods of handling it are different, some need to be actively strived for, and some need to go with the flow.

In the past of life, there will be a lot of things, it can be said that the truth of seeking things is in people, and success is in heaven, that is to say, the things experienced are different, we do not have to compete for everything and win or lose, it can also be said that there are some things that can not be encountered, which cannot be won for, and it is not self-defeating. So you have to wait for the time to be ripe and make a decision, and waiting for the time to be ripe here is just to go with the flow.

Therefore, going with the flow and striving for it are different ways and means of dealing with things, and they do not contradict each other.

This depends on what the problem is, some things really have to go with the flow, but some things can't go with the flow, to be precise, it is necessary to talk about things, think carefully, analyze well, in order to make a good decision.

I think it's impossible for a girl to give you an answer as soon as you confess, even if she likes you, she is also confused at this time, it's not just that you are anxious and nervous when you confess, isn't it??? What's more, you've only known her for a short time, haven't you?? If she agrees to you right away, don't you think this girl is too casual, behave well, come on!!

I'm waiting for your good news.

Personally, I think:

It depends on the specific situation, you can't blindly obey, you can't blindly resist, just try to do your best, you are only responsible for the wonderful, God has his own arrangements.

There is no way to go with the flow of some things, and when you encounter something that cannot be solved and cannot be reversed, say it and give yourself relief, and it's good to go with the flow, because some things are just destined, relax.

Do your best, listen to the destiny of God, do your best what you want to do first, can you make a deal to fate. It's not about doing nothing and going with the flow.

People must live according to nature, according to different abilities and interests, to achieve different successes and achievements. In life, people who can go with the flow must be open-minded and cheerful, and we should and must make ourselves more open-minded, because open-mindedness will not get into the tip of the horns, so as to be optimistic and enterprising. We also need to be cheerful, because cheerfulness is likely to bring happiness to others and make the atmosphere of life more pleasant.

Depending on the situation, what should be fought for is still to be fought for, do not blindly go with the flow, and seize the opportunity when appropriate.

People must go with the flow, and people must be harmonious and beautiful, so that they can get along well. Thumbs up.

Going with the flow is to follow the development and not add other management methods. O man! Why go with the flow?

I used to think that it was a good thing to go with the flow, but I didn't think it was such a pit! People must not go with the flow.

Yes, although things are man-made, but we still have to go with the flow.

Go with the flow, it's all passive, it's selective forgetting.

Yes, for example, as people grow older, their physical strength and digestive function decline, they should go with the flow and eat food that suits them as much as they can.

That's when there's nothing you can do about reality, and there's a downplay.

What can you do if you don't go with the flow.

Because this way you can better adjust your mentality.

Because a lot of things can't be forced.