Such a girl, should I go with the flow, or give up?

Updated on educate 2024-04-14
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think you should know more about her, know more about her character, figure out more about her psychology, and resonate with her from your actions.

    But things like feelings still can't be forced, men, everything must be looked at.

    You have to be able to afford to put it down, but I think you shouldn't give up easily, you have to show that you can give her happiness in action.

    I think that since she is willing to accept your kindness to her, then at least she has a good impression of you, and you should work harder, but personally, you feel that you are good enough for her, just from the material aspect.

    Purely personal opinion.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    is still looking for a new love, it can be seen that she doesn't want feelings, accepts your things, but doesn't accept you, and those reasons are just excuses.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If my guess is right, what she needs is a strong man, and I think you should know if you are or not!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maybe she's really not for you, why hang yourself from a tree.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    She's not necessarily the kind of person who eats from the bowl and thinks about the pot.

    From your description, it can be seen that she also has a good impression of you, and she should be very touched by your kindness to her; The question is, have you ever wondered why she thinks you don't have the right personality?

    That's where you can start and listen to her thoughts.

    I'm a girl, I've met a guy like this before, he's been nice to me, but he always makes me feel like the two of us can't think of going together, he always makes me feel like he doesn't care about my thoughts at all.

    For example, if I say I like science fiction, he immediately says, "I'm not interested in science and technology"; When I said that the dish was delicious, he immediately said, "It's not delicious, I actually prefer chicken" and started talking about how delicious the chicken is.

    Such a person, how can I have feelings for boyfriend and girlfriend for him? I don't know if you're such a person.

    You've only been together for 2 or 3 months, which is very short and difficult to get to know in depth.

    If you really like her, I suggest you learn more about her personality and hobbies, and really try to like her as a person, not only on the surface, but also on her character and thoughts; Is she positive? Is she filial to her parents? Does she know how to manage money?

    What does she like and hate?

    After understanding, decide whether you want to continue between you or not.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What the landlord wants to ask is whether he can grow old with her?

    No one can say for sure, so I can only refer to it.

    First, you ask yourself if you really like her and how much is influenced by how well you know her.

    There is a run-in period before and after the combination, this is a process.

    I think it's going with the flow.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Remember, when a man does things, he never gives up easily.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Eat her and all the problems are solved.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think that the relationship that goes with the flow should be something wrong, maybe there is helplessness that we can't know, maybe there are other factors, but this natural relationship contains helplessness and sighs.

    Shunyan in love pretends to be a little indifferent to his nature, and the original meaning is to conform to the natural development of things, and not to interfere artificially. For example, Feng Zikai said in "Nature": "As long as you follow your natural nature, you are the owner of a beautiful posture and can praise it." The artistic conception mentioned here is very beautiful, but if it is applied to feelings, it will be counterproductive.

    When you start to decide to go with the flow, it means that you will no longer pay attention to this relationship, no longer pay attention, and no longer take the initiative to create opportunities, so how can the relationship last? The reason why a relationship is strong, deep, and unforgettable is because each other will pay attention to this emotion and bet on true feelings, but once they take back all of this, they will no longer create opportunities artificially and attentively, that is, they will no longer interfere artificially, then the final result must be divided into different things.

    Therefore, in love, there is no such thing as going with the flow; If there is, it's ready to break up.

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