How can I find out if the other person boyfriend is the right person?

True love or a good relationship will not humble you because of the other person, but because the other person will make you better. If you meet the right person, you won't have to suffer from gains and losses, you won't be afraid of losing them, and you won't have to please them. When you are with him, your heart will feel very steady.

I think to determine whether my boyfriend is the right person to get along for a while, because I am the kind of person who will annoy her after watching for a long time, and if he is the right person, I will definitely not bother him.

I think that to determine whether the other person or my boyfriend is the right person, you can test it through a series of tests, and you can learn the methods on the cicada girl to test him.

With him, you don't have to deliberately restrain yourself, you will always show your truest and most natural side, with him, your heart is very steady, and you will not be afraid of losing.

I think you can be separated from each other for a while, and see how you feel during this time of separation? Do you miss him? Wait, if you can't hold on, if you can't stand it, it means that he is the right person for you.

I think acquaintance is a kind of fate, and the first meeting is an accident. In order to make a good impression on each other, we will involuntarily hide some of our own shortcomings, the first impression can be the first point of whether we can socialize, dress, talk and behave with your taste.

To determine if it's the right person, it's time to test your boyfriend, and if you want your boyfriend to be what you want him to be, if he passes these tests, then he's the right person.

I think you don't have to be with him for now, you can talk a little more and try it, experience more, if you think that your current boyfriend is the best for you, the most worthy of your trust, then this is the right person for you.

There is such a saying in psychology:Mental processes are generally manifested through external behavior。Although love cannot be measured by a uniform standard, it is judged from your behavior and choices in getting along with each other who loves each other more.

1. How to judge?

- Whose efforts are more unrequited

If a person is good to youFor example, I gave you a bag or bought you a set of cosmetics, but in the end, I always tried to find a way to make up for it from other aspects, that's not really because I love you, so I want to be good to you. Maybe it's just to save face. People who truly love you generally don't ask for anything in return, and even if they have a plan, they only want you to love them the same

Men are more rational, and they know how to weigh the pros and cons. So compare you and your boyfriend who loves each other moreThen observe carefully, when you get along, who is more willing to give, who pays more, and pay attention to giving without asking for anything in return. This is not only about money, but also about time and energy, etc., whether he is willing to give you what he thinks is rare and precious.

- Who compromises first after a serious quarrel

Pay attention to observe, when the two of you quarrel and have conflicts, in general, who admits their mistakes first. Excluding that kind of little noise, that kind of boys generally don't pay attention to it, they think it's okay to take the initiative to bow their heads。But when you have a more serious quarrel, there may also be personal interests involved, and who compromises first is very crucialOnly when love is deep and afraid of losing can we be willing to accommodate and understand.

If there is a generally more serious quarrel, or even a breakup,It was he who came to you to apologize and took the initiative to bow his head and ask for peaceThat is, your boyfriend loves you more.

- Ways of dealing with contradictions

Whether it is a man or a woman, you can tell a person's personality and whether he really loves you from dealing with conflicts。The person who loves you will not yell unscrupulously or even fight because of a moment of anger or impulsiveness, even if he is angry again. See who really wants to solve the problem, discuss the solution calmly, and put yourself in the other person's shoes

It can also be seen from here whether he wants to have a future with you, and if he mentions breaking up with a little contradiction, there is a high probability that he does not love so much.

Second, it is not recommended to judge

There is no standard for measuring love, and many times love can be performedAnd everyone loves differently in a way that we can't but lead out and compare. The only people who truly love us unconditionally are our parents.

We don't have to care who loves whom, love is importantBut the way you get along is also more important.

andThere is no objective answer to this question, only your subjective judgmentThen your emotions and mentality will affect the outcome of your judgment, so why bother to find yourself unhappy?

<>1. See who is more tolerant of each other

When two people like each other, most of them see each other's charm and advantages, but everyone can't be perfect, and it's easy to see each other's various shortcomings and small shortcomings after being together for a long time. But true love is the ability to tolerate these little shortcomings and be able to accompany you to become a better version of yourself.

So if in the process of getting along with each other, you see that your boyfriend can always empathize, think about you, and take good care of your emotions and tolerate your needs when you lose your temper or expose small shortcomings, it means that he really loves you. On the other hand, if you are usually very accommodating to the other person and the other person can't stand your demands or shortcomings, then it is obvious that he does not love you as much.

2. See who cares more about the details of love

In fact, love is often accumulated in little by little details. There is a saying that "details determine success or failure", in fact, details are also very important in love. Imagine if you really like someone, you must care a lot about all kinds of things about him, and remember some small details that others can't remember.

For example, if your boyfriend loves you more deeply, he will care about the things you like and don't like in your daily life, he will mind your communication with the opposite sex, he will be jealous, and he will remember to give you gifts on anniversaries and birthdays. These details of love all represent that He loves you. On the contrary, if he doesn't care about the details at all, or always says that he can't remember, then it should be that your love is deeper.

3. Look at your attitude towards the relationship

True love does not dissipate as the novelty wears off, but becomes deeper and deeper over time. If you love each other very much, you will definitely want to have a future and a future with each other, but at the same time, sometimes you are worried that you are not good enough and afraid that you will not be able to stay together in the future. In fact, these small signals can be seen from ordinary times.

For example, did he ask you where you plan to be in a few years? Did they introduce you to a friend? Have you met with the parents? If these future-related things come up, it means that he really loves you, and if you do the same, it means that you love him too.

I think love should be evenly matched, and only by understanding and tolerating each other can love go further. If the love between you is much different, then the balance of love can easily be unbalanced. Therefore, you must take good care of your feelings in order to make love last for a long time.

<>When you quarrel with your boyfriend, who bows his head first; In the process of dating, some small details and so on are all manifestations of love

First, who takes the initiative to find whom after a quarrel is a manifestation of love

Now many couples start to be cold and violent after a quarrel, one party thinks that he is justified, and the other party thinks that he has been wronged, and no one looks for anyoneAt this time, the one who looks for the other party first will show that he loves the other party more, and when he looks for you, it means that he gave up his face for you, hoping to solve the conflict between the two of youTake the initiative to find the other party, you can make concessions, but it does not mean that you have to stop the responsibility on yourself and bow your head and admit your mistakes; If it's your problem, you can admit your mistake, if it's your boyfriend's problem, discuss it calmly, blindly give in, your low-profile appearance will only make him worse, make him have a sense of superiority, and finally he will feel that you are not worthy of him, and he will abandon you. If you want to have a good love, it doesn't mean you have to give up your all, in the process of getting along with two people, the most important thing is to learn to express your needs, When the two of you quarrel, it may be his reason, but he really may not know that he provoked you, you don't say, he doesn't know, you are angry, he is also angry,The best solution is to express your dissatisfaction, which will not only solve the problem, but also let the other party understand you better and enhance the relationship between two people.

Second, small details in a relationship can also be a sign of love

In your relationship with your boyfriend, there are small details that can also show who loves whom more. When going out together, whoever takes the initiative to lead whom, the more active the person, the more they love each other, he takes the initiative to hold you, which means that he likes you more and wants to be with you. When eating together, he gives you vegetables and lets you eat first is also a sign of love, he wants you to eat enough, and take care of you like a child next to him, which shows that he has you in his heart and cares about you very much.

When walking on the road, walking on your side and crossing the road to lead you along, it also shows that he is protecting you well and that he has you in his heartAnd so on, some small details in life are manifestations of love, not to say anything about giving gifts during the New Year's holidays, and creating romance from time to time is a manifestation of loveSome outpouring of love often lies in some inadvertent small details, and when these small details add up, it is a manifestation that he loves you more.

Who loves whom more, too much concern about this kind of thing will make you have "does he not love me anymore", etc., which will only make you more anxious, want to get a response from the other party's love, not only to treat each other sincerely, but also to observe whether the other party is suitable for you, and finding the talent who is really suitable for you is the most important.

It can be judged from daily interactions or from the details of getting along.

Generally speaking, the one who loves more between couples will be more clingy, and daily WeChat chats and making ** porridge are essential. You can see which party takes the initiative to chat a little more, or who takes the initiative to find more topics.

If your boyfriend loves you more, maybe you think that some inconsequential little things, he will "report" to you in detail and share his life with you. On the contrary, if you love your boyfriend a little more, it will be like this, you will be more clingy than him, and you want to contact him all the time and see him.

Judging in dating

If your boyfriend loves you more, he will definitely pay attention to your subtle emotions on a date and will try his best to make you happy and not let you fall into this depressed state.

Judging by the aspect of pay

Giving here refers to material giving. If he loves you more and won't let you spend money when he goes out on a date, he will worry that you won't have enough money to spend, not enough clothes to wear, and not enough good food. In short, more will be paid in material terms.

Judging by the planning for the future

Just like my boyfriend, I always felt like he loved me a little more. He would want to fit in with my circle of friends, he wanted to take me into his social circle, and he also offered to take me to meet his parents (although I rejected them hahahaha).

But he would always say, "Sooner or later, I'm going to see my parents." "I can feel that he has always had me in his future planning.

There will always be some strange thoughts and problems in love, these are normal, and they are all mutual understanding in the process of loving and being loved.

Judging between your boyfriend and you who tells each other can be seen from the following aspects:

It is impossible for two people to be together all the time, so at this timeIt takes a person to take the initiative to share to maintain the relationship, for example, when he is eating, see if he will send you a **, in himWhen I encounter something interesting, will I share it with you?

Long-distance relationships rely on theseDaily sharing to maintainIf you've been sharing with him while heBut I seldom share it with you, then it can only be said that you love him more than he loves you.