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I think the first thing is that it's the right thing, and I think in your mind you definitely think it's not a problem, you definitely think it's not right. In fact, if you think about it from another perspective, you can understand that sometimes the right person has his own reason. I think if you have watched "The Family of Gold Powder", you can fully understand what I mean, people who love each other sometimes can't stay together.
Love is always pure, don't talk about background, don't talk about resume, just love when you love. But marriage, but together, you have to consider the environment, after thinking, consider the vegetables, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea that you both have an appetite for. You have to admit that if the growth environment, family background, and work and study environment of two people are different, sometimes it is different.
Actually, I don't think you're wrong, you're all insisting that you're on the right path, and your attachment is very right.
Let's talk about each other's parents. I think, if you are a parent, you can understand the mood of the other parent, you now calm down and think about it, if you have a daughter, you have been pampered and loved since childhood, if you are a great father, do you want to give her all the best things, the same thing, marriage is the most important thing in a person's life, parents don't understand any love? No, they know more than anyone else, but they know life better, they think that in the future, their daughter will be able to have no worries about food and clothing, and be happy for a lifetime, thinking that the current love is blind, suitable or not, and comes from life.
So there is nothing wrong with the parents, the fault is that they love their daughter very much.
Let's talk about your girlfriend again, she doesn't want to hurt anyone, but she accepts that person, doesn't she? In fact, she has already given you the answer, that is, she wants to make another choice, and I may not be able to say this well. But in fact, there is a distance between you, and there is a problem.
You have to admit that your girlfriend is pushing towards life, and she also wants a better life, so she goes to the exam and she goes to accept another relationship. So you should think about the future between you, everyone has their own ambitions. If you think that you are good enough now, that you have no problems, and that you are happy with the current state of life, I think you should think carefully about whether to give up or not.
Accept it or not, sometimes life will give you the answer, heartache, hesitation, sadness, it's all a part, I think you'll come through.
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If she loves you, she won't care what the right person is, and if she chooses to leave, it can only mean that she doesn't love you.
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Love someone who doesn't care about everything in his past! Maybe that's how fate is, it's the tempered lover who is the lover! Don't give up.
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You don't give up in the first place! Then continue to enrich yourself and let yourself have better development! Let your girlfriend's parents see the changes in you.
At the very least, you want them to see that you are self-motivated and capable of making their daughters happy and not suffering. Potential stocks, nothing to offer hospitality.
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There is a saying that "the mother-in-law looks at her son-in-law, the more she looks, the more satisfied she is", and most parents choose their son-in-law's criterion: if their daughter likes it, she will be good and rest assured.
Tell them about your decision and accept their blessings.
In addition, you talk about your girlfriend's family's attitude and performance is not good, maybe they are not good at expressing it with words and actions, according to habits, if they are not satisfied with you, they have long spoken ill of you, don't you feel sad? Then be brave enough to tell them about the old man.
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Discuss it with your parents first, and ask your girlfriend to explore the meaning of her father, and almost both parents are moved.
I feel that I can.,You can start.,Find an opportunity to go to the woman's house to sit as a guest.,Say that your parents want to invite the other party's parents to dinner.,Generally people also understand what you mean.,Then your parents will help you discuss the details with the other party's parents.,At this time, the bride price should be prepared.。。。 If your girlfriend is unhappy and disagrees with the results of the test, then you just have to work harder, just like the classmates upstairs said, move around more, have a sincere attitude, go to people's homes and be diligent, mouth dessert, and the most important thing is to make progress in your career, and it will be difficult to accept it...
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Hehe, buy what you buy, just say show your best side, just hehe, don't be nervous.
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Go more, give more gifts, be polite, and be sincere.
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Marriage is a matter for both of them, and they should make their own decisions.
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Just take your time and go a few more times.
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Discuss with your family first what kind of marriage you want to marry.
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Nowadays, there are people who pay attention to the right door, so work hard!
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In fact, there is no need to rush to get married, and now it is advocated to have children later after marriage.
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The two of you are in a hurry, and it is estimated that you may have already lived together
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Get on the bus first, pay the ticket later. Get.
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I feel cold for my parents, is it easy for your parents to support you and provide for you to go to school!!
Parents are the most proud wealth of our pride, whether parents are farmers, sanitation workers or picking up rags, they are not ashamed, they do not steal or rob, they make money with their own labor in a down-to-earth manner, do the most insignificant work, but they are also great.
The door is not the right one, and having true feelings is the last word.
I can't imagine that in the future, the young couple will move to live at their father-in-law's house, because they are afraid of losing their parents who are in their old age.
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I just want to tell you that sanitation workers are the most amazing and noble profession, you think about it, so many people litter, who works under the scorching sun, who is diligent in cleaning, so don't feel ashamed or ashamed, and if the mother-in-law looks down on you, you say goodbye to his daughter, after all, it's not you and your parents who are ashamed, but the kind of villains and money worshippers who look down on people, understand?
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Family is really important for two people to be together.
First of all, I think you should not look down on your parents, then the old man will be very sad, just imagine if you are a father, the child has such thoughts, how will you be, heart to heart.
And if your girlfriend and her family don't look down on your family, I advise you not to force it, because now is a money society, and the family is basically dominated by women, and the family with discrimination has no status for you at all.
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You think too much, your wife, your mother-in-law, they value your character and ability more, after all, you are the one who wants to live with your wife for the rest of your life.
Besides, there are high and low jobs, people are not distinguished from high and low, what is difficult to talk about, and it is not something unseemly, isn't it normal to make money by your own labor?
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Who is the person who spends your life with you, who gave you life and everything, love is just a momentary impulse, and family affection is a lifetime.
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Surely it means the economic side of the house, right? Otherwise, there will be a lot of quarrels.
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The family should be of equal economic or cultural atmosphere or social status to both families. Children grow up in a similar family environment, have more in common, and are not prone to disagreements.
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Family background, economic situation, values, world view, outlook on life, education level, these all have to be seen, not only in terms of money.
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The most important thing is the family background and economic situation, otherwise it will be difficult to continue.
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When people go on a blind date, they pay attention to the "right match", which means that men and women should pay attention to all aspects of the conditions when they go on a blind date, and the family economic conditions of both men and women should be kept in a similar state. In ancient times, it was also important to pay attention to the social status of the man's and woman's families, so that the marriage could be matched and happy.
With the development of social economy, the current "door-to-door pair" has expanded more aspects. It refers to the fact that both men and women should be about the same level in terms of knowledge, three views, as well as the economic conditions and educational level of both families, otherwise there will be one or another problem after entering marriage in the futureThere may be no common discourse, which will lead to estrangement or disagreement between feelings, which will lead to more and more contradictions, which is not conducive to the stability of family and marital life!
"There is actually some truth to the door-to-door pair." Because two people as husband and wife must have common values in order to achieve the same goal and keep pace. When the conditions are relatively similar in various aspects, there will be no greater differences.
If all aspects of the two sides are not a good match, there are still many hidden problems. Due to different levels of education, it can also lead to the lack of a common discourse, and the perception of certain things cannot reach the same levelThis will also lead to a lack of conversation between two people. Differences in economic conditions may also lead to the living habits of two people, and the situation is different in all aspects.
We must be careful when choosing a partner, and we can consider all aspects. First of all, on the basis of love, two people should be in love, and then take into account the cultural level accepted by both parties, each other's values, and certain economic conditions to reach the same height, so that the marriage will have stability and happiness!
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Door-to-door pairing generally refers to: the family life of both parties is comparable; The parents of both sides are of comparable character; The men and women of the object are equal in character and appearance.
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First of all, it refers to two people who have a common education and a common direction of life, so that they can be the right person.
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The family background is about the same, the economic situation is about the same, and the education and occupation are the same.
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Of course, it refers to all aspects such as family finance, education and education, and this thing is not single.
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In fact, it refers to the financial situation of both families.
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Family background, economic conditions are comparable, in fact, what adults say, there is a certain truth, but not all right, the family feels the same as the three views on me.
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The main thing is that family conditions, economic conditions and educational qualifications are quite comparable in these aspects.
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Family background, economic status, level of education, ......
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Family background, economic level, education level, work level, these are the aspects.
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It's very important to be a good person.
Generally the door-to-door pair refers to:
Life experiences are similar.
Such two people's understanding of things.
There will be a lot of similarities.
That is, there will be a common language.
If one is an intellectual family.
One is a peasant family.
Then they both have different philosophies of life.
Words of living together.
Will fight over trivial things.
Marriage will not be happy.
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Yes, when I get older and become a parent, I will feel that the words of my ancestors are particularly reasonable.
The so-called family pair is definitely not only the amount of money everyone's money, but the life of a person will not escape the original family.
The lucky people have been in childhood all their lives, and the unfortunate people have been in **childhood all their lives. The values of children cultivated under different economic foundation conditions are fundamentally different.
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It's important to get the right door. But it's not absolute. After all, this society is not the same society that my parents used to be.
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Represents personal views only.
There is a certain truth in this statement, it is through practice, otherwise the word would not have been invented, and the family generally refers to the family background, upbringing, knowledge, and conduct of the two parties.
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If you get married, ......There will be no happiness.
Don't believe in those love stories, in reality Cinderella will not marry the prince ......There are too many differences in family status, which means that there are too many differences in experience and growth environment, and now you have love that you can ignore these, but don't forget that love cannot be all the ...... in your future lifeWhat happens when your love fades? All those inconsistencies, those frictions will all leak out, how do you deal with them?
If you are right, at least these are common, and there will not be too many contradictions.
Love and marriage are not the same.
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Important, because most habits of thought are influenced by family and the like, but that's the majority, and if you and your partner feel that you are in the minority, then you can be bold in your pursuit of happiness!
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There are two kinds of meanings, if your mother says that the door is the money status, then in fact, this is not very important, but in general, the status directly determines the three views and cognition of your two families, in the future married life, will continue to cause various controversies because of the different views, if the status disparity or pay attention to the difference in the portal.
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First of all, you have to understand the meaning of this one.
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It doesn't matter, the thoughts of the older generation.
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You just say out loud that my mom is a sweeper. Don't worry, your mother-in-law will definitely feel it"Well, this kid, what a filial pie! I was relieved that my daughter handed it over to him. However, if you squeak and whine in the face of this question, you can't help but doubt your personality!
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To be a man, you have to be neither humble nor arrogant, say it frankly, you just have to work hard.
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Hypocrisy, true hypocrisy, what is there to look down on, a son like you, I'd rather not.
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It's even more amazing because your mom sweeps the floor! Her income is meager, and it will be even harder to support you! Be filial to her!
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Go in a roundabout way, get on good terms with your father-in-law, and then your girlfriend and your father-in-law will help you take down your mother-in-law's.
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It's not that simple! A fire burns down your house, and the two of you are on the right door!!
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