How do you think you should deal with a relationship without feelings?

A marriage that seems to be loveless is actually salvageable.

Sometimes it's not the marriage that hurts us, it's the marriage that hurts us. When there seems to be no love in the marriage, not when the divorce is given, or the divorce is to solve the problem, love can be re-cultivated, and divorce is not an easy thing. The most important thing is, how can a family that has worked hard for many years give up so easily?

In marriage, everyone practices the ability to change themselves. When they can't change each other, they change their attitude towards him.

The same event A occurred, but different individuals had different perceptions of event B, leading to different outcomes C, so by changing perception B, outcome C would change. In psychology, it is often used to help a person stay away from psychological pain by changing his perception of events. I think this theory also applies to marriage.

In marriage, the same problem or event (a), then I face it with different perspectives, emotions and ways (b), and we get a different marital state (c). Since there are ways to get more love from a partner and marriage, why don't we give it a try?

Marriage is inseparable from love, women need the love of men, but the way of courtship needs to change, and the direction of looking at marriage and love needs to change. Maybe the marital happiness you want will come to you in a small boat. If the marriage feels loveless for many years, then analyze whether you have done these wrong ways to push away love and lovers, try to change yourself, change the way you treat marriage, and maybe the result will slowly present you with a happy and loving marriage.

In a relationship, we want to do it, but we can never control the behavior of others. Controlling actions leads to distance, resistance, and closure. Conversely, if you focus on something happy, easy-going, and fun, you are more likely to be emotionally invested and in love.

Often, when a man or woman confesses to me, they know they don't have feelings for their spouse, it's because they're under pressure, they're dealing with some loss, or they're worried about the relationship, or they're worried about the future. Instead of looking to your spouse for change, support them and inspire them with your own love, happiness, energy, and light. Focusing on their own well-being and self-care will give them the necessary space and will therefore be more attractive.

Feelings can be cultivated, as long as two people have this idea, the feelings that can be cultivated, they can communicate frequently, communicate frequently, and develop some common hobbies.

I think it's okay to get along with each other as friends or family, and marriages without feelings can get along better, not all marriages have feelings.

Take the initiative to chat with each other, two people should do some more romantic things in life, so that they can have a good face.

Two people should break up immediately, because two people have no feelings together, and they don't have any love foundation together, and it feels like they are wasting time.

You should try to maintain the marital status between the two people, build a foundation of trust, and get to know each other so as to cultivate affection.

I don't think it's necessary to maintain a relationship without feelings, because such a relationship is very tiring, and if you continue to persevere, it will only make two people very bad.

The first ending: two people "live alone" under the same roof

If two people in a marriage want to continue this state of marriage, they will also come to an agreement: they will not interfere with each other and will not interfere with the freedom of the other half. In this case, it will become a "solitary" life living under the same roof.

Ms. Jean once made an agreement with her husband that she could continue her marriage, but she could not interfere with each other. But their marriage in name only lasted for two years, and they couldn't help but divorce. Even if an agreement is reached, Ms. Qin can't see her husband dating other women.

Such a marriage has no meaning to exist. Because of this, Ms. Qin also decisively divorced.

The second ending: no feelings for a long time, can only divorce.

Loveless marriages end in divorce.

There is no emotion for a long time, there is nothing to talk about, and it is extremely embarrassing to live under the same roof, so you can only divorce. It is also a matter of time before you don't get a divorce for the time being.

The third ending: extramarital affairs.

Brother Yang and his wife got married through a blind date. Brother Yang said that he had nothing to say to his wife, and the two of them usually acted like strangers.

You might not believe it, but we both live in the same room like strange roommates, but don't want to say a word to each other. She probably didn't like me that much, and I tried a lot of ways to give up. ”

Brother Yang fell in love with another woman, and their marriage also existed in name only.

I think that a marriage without feelings will have to be separated sooner or later, because marriage is also based on feelings, and two people must have feelings together to go longer, so the marriage without feelings you said will not go far, and the ultimate goal is to separate and go your own.

Seeing that everyone said that a marriage without feelings will not get good results, it is not necessarily, two people's material conditions are good enough, and if they have no feelings, they play their own games, it is enough to be happy, and there is no need for two people to have feelings.

This kind of marriage will not be happy on the first side, and it will not last long on the second. The basis of marriage is to have feelings, if there is no affection for each other, then this kind of life is destined not to be happy, and it will not go far at all.

If you say you get married, you get married, and if you say you get divorced, you don't have a wonderful life, it's not interesting, and you can't grow old together.

An emotionless marriage is like a widowed marriage, and it can be tiring and annoying. It's good for everyone to end the relationship as soon as possible.

There may be no emotional marriage, most of them may be a kind of gratitude or touching, maybe two people will not go long, because you don't like this person very much in your heart, you may endure a lifetime to choose to live with this person, but you are not happy, it mainly depends on what you want, if you want a stability then you can also, if not, think about it.

It should be difficult to maintain a marriage without feelings, so it is said that a good relationship should be established on the basis of mutual trust.

A marriage without affection can't be maintained, what is a marriage without affection, what is the picture? Do you have a marriage license? Do you have a wife?

There are two time limits for this problem, one is that there is no result of assuming a marriage without feelings after marriage, then there is no need to think about getting married, there is no emotion when you get along, and you can get along after marriage, which makes no sense. The other is that you are married and feel that you have no feelings, what will happen after thinking about it? Then there will be many possibilities, the obvious one is to continue to have no feelings but each has their own peace, one is that one party is still looking forward to getting feelings from others, then divorce (maybe not too optimistic), and then there is a turnaround, you can still be friends after divorce, or it is possible that this turnaround will rekindle the relationship, and there is also a possibility that it is more extreme ......

So marriage is not child's play. Be kind to yourself and be kind to your feelings.

It's very bad, but it's not bad to be able to get along with feelings, I met a friend who helped a couple of people who didn't have feelings to get along with feelings, and it's good

A marriage without feelings will definitely end in divorce in the end.

Break up, it's good for each other.

Personally, I think that if there is no emotional marriage, you should choose to give up, because in such a love life, you can't experience any happiness, only two people keep arguing, such a relationship has no meaning, you should choose to give up.

Abandon. My ex-boyfriend didn't have the slightest love for me, so he treated me very badly, disliked me at every turn, treated me coldly and violently, and he didn't want to throw away his ex-girlfriend's things even when he beat me to death. He was really ruthless to me, and when I was with him, I was really angry and sick.

I think we should give up, because the days are long, don't grieve yourself, everyone has the right to pursue happiness.

For me, if I live in a state of marriage without feelings, I will not tolerate it for a moment, let alone maintain it, I will immediately break off and divorce immediately, it is already an emotionless marriage, I don't feel any point in maintaining it, there is a relationship between two people, and many tribulations in life can join hands with each other. Those bitter past can become sweet memories. A marriage without feelings, it is impossible to last for a long time, it must be short-lived, it is redundant to talk to a person who does not understand you, marriage has no emotional foundation, just talk to a person who does not understand you, everything is superfluous, some people think that when they get along in love, two people are already cultivating feelings, this statement is not wrong, but the feelings at that time must withstand the firewood, rice, oil and salt after marriage, trivial, it can be regarded as having an emotional foundation, otherwise it can only be a good impression of each other.

<> two people go from acquaintance, acquaintance, and love to entering the palace of marriage, and their feelings are slowly sublimated. It is also accumulated step by step through familiarity, understanding, love, care, and love, and it is not achieved overnight. Your marriage without feelings, the marriage relationship is indeed a headache, and it is painful to have no feelings, but two people who originally loved each other will enter the marriage and become a state of "maintenance" due to various circumstances.

Why should a marriage without affection be maintained? Is it for money? For fame?

For networking? For resources? For the sake of children?

For what to maintain, think clearly, and you will know the answer. In today's society, there will be very little to live. If you don't want this kind of partner to live, then it's better to leave early!

In my opinion, a marriage without feelings is no different from a plate of loose sand, it will not last forever, so in such a situation, how should we choose? I don't know why you don't have feelings, after all, there are many kinds of them, such as a few months after a flash marriage without feelings, or you are tired of being married for a long time or other reasons, etc., first ask yourself if this relationship can be saved?

I think we should communicate well with each other. Because marriage is very important in life, if two people are together without feelings, it is very painful, and if they really can't get along, they can break up and be happy.

Since you have chosen to get married, you must face it positively, two people work hard to cultivate feelings in marriage, and it is also good to love after marriage.

I'm going to let it go, I don't think it's interesting at all, it's a complete waste of the other person's time, and I'm going to get a divorce.

For such an emotionless marriage, in fact, it exists in name only, I will choose to leave the other party decisively and stop the loss in time, because a marriage without emotion is very unnecessary.

People pursue a lot of things in their lives, and love is one of them, one more understanding, a little more tolerance, after all, that is the person you have died and loved to make a decision, and then calm and calm, there is a saying that if you don't have the ability to turn the tide, wait for a thing to be reversed. Each of us lives in the social environment, each of us is a living individual, a person with his own mind and experience life circle and life goals, in this era of rapid change, each of us will be accompanied by social changes and changes, these are very normal things. When two people in a marriage do not change in the same direction, it is normal to have disagreements, until there is what people call an emotional breakdown.

To correctly judge the emotional reality between two people, is it a short-term unprincipled disagreement? Again, there is a fundamental disagreement of principle. This is crucial to the decision that follows, and a decision made without an accurate judgment will inevitably have serious consequences.

Judging whether the dilution or even disappearance of emotions is likely to be accompanied by the passage of time and the change of the environment, these are also the key points that affect the final decision. I'd rather choose marriage because of love than get married for the sake of getting married, marriage is supposed to be two people knowing each other, accompanying each other, and experiencing life together, how has it become a shackle.

Men and women in marriage are like walkers walking side by side, and love is like the distance between each other's hearts. The gravitational pull of love, the two parties maintain the balance between each other, and marriage is the embodiment of balance in all aspects. Once the love is lost, it means that the distance between the hearts of the two people begins to widen, but at this time the marriage can still be maintained, and the marriage may break down only when they exceed the range that the heart can bear.

Lost love of the marriage of both men and women also lost the opportunity to communicate with the heart, you go your own way, my mutual spiritual distance is getting bigger and bigger, and when it really can't be improved, the marriage is over, fate has gone all the way to find new fellow travelers.

If there is no emotional marriage, I feel normal, so don't be disgusted with persisting anymore, because insisting on it can only make my married life more tiring, so it is still decisive to give up.

If you feel that it will be very uncomfortable to live in a marriage where there is no emotional friction at all, I think that when you raise your children and tell you, you should not need to support it anymore, after all, people should live for themselves.