If a marriage is not emotionally sustained, is there still a need for it to exist?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-06
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Many people are very afraid of getting married, because they feel that after getting married, all their feelings may have changed, and they are also afraid that they will live like widows after marriage. If there is no affection to maintain in a marriage, it is not necessary to exist. In fact, you can find that if there is no emotion in a marriage, both people are very selfish.

    In a marriage, if both people don't like each other, then both people are very selfish and they just want to make their lives more enjoyable. Especially after you have a child, the child may be left to you to take care of. Therefore, if there is no emotion in a marriage, you must let go in time, and never have children, otherwise the child will be very painful after birth.

    People who have no feelings will not take care of their families, so there is no difference between us and ourselves when we are single, so what is the need to insist on such a marriage?

    First of all, we need to make some changes in ourselves, when we are facing the same thing all the time, we will also feel very bored, so some changes in our style and personality will also make them feel fresh. In this way, they will choose to renew their feelings. Another way is that everyone can also abandon the family appropriately.

    Many women devote themselves to the family after getting married, and when we learn to dress up and start to live for ourselves, it will make the other party have a sense of crisis.

    After getting married, we should not lose ourselves for the sake of marriage, and we should not let ourselves live worse and worse for marriage, even after getting married, we must live our own lives, so that the other party will know how to cherish you more. If we always sacrifice ourselves for the sake of our family, over time, it will make them feel that it is deserved.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    There is no need. I think this kind of marriage is in name only, and two people have no feelings, so there is no need to maintain this marriage, which will make both people unhappy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I don't think so. Because marriage is originally maintained by feelings, if there is no relationship left, there is no need for such a marriage to exist.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    There is no need to exist, such a relationship is a kind of harm to both parties, and maintaining it will only make both parties more and more impatient.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Sissy. You should look at this problem with a normal heart, the benevolent see the benevolent, the wise see the wise, in fact, it is a very happy thing to love someone! Since love, each other's sincerity is the most important, sincerity for sincerity, love has a home, a family is happy, a happy and perfect family is the most beautiful destination for a woman, is a safe harbor, men should take on the responsibility of the family, this, to give themselves a sense of security to the woman who attacked this, for men, the most important thing is responsibility, more important is responsibility, emotional marriage life is happy or not, but in the marriage of the two people The life of the servant should be based on mutual trust and understanding, after marriage.

    There are so many trivial things that out of sight are clean.

    When you see it, you can't help but nag a few words, between husband and wife.

    Be more considerate, be more humble.

    As the saying goes, "a hundred years of repair in the same boat, a thousand years of cultivation to sleep together", feelings need two people to tolerate and understand each other, marriage needs two people to take care of each other, this may be your "past life, this life continues"! Love what you love, no regrets, friends cherish the people around you who love you or you love!

    I wish you happiness; Sweet feelings, harmonious families, and happy marriages 0

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Marriage is based on the judgment of love, and no affection is equal to no love The premise of marriage is to love each other, and since there is no affection between husband and wife, there is no need to continue. Husband and wife are like enemies when they meet, they will only quarrel constantly, and there is certainly no need to continue this kind of marriage. Home is a warm harbor, this harbor is to give us shelter from the wind and rain, we will feel very warm when we return home, there is no affection between husband and wife, the warmth of home no longer exists, since there is no change of love, there is no need to continue such a marriage.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    1. How long can a marriage without love last 1. According to our ancient Chinese tradition, the first sentence must be persuaded and not persuaded to leave two people, even if there is no feeling, as long as both people are normal people and have not done something that violates public order and good morality, it is still recommended that you two argue and lead your personal serious cultivation of feelings, because two people have come together and become a person in a family, don't have different hearts all day long, both people are working hard for their families, and they can cultivate feelings. 2. But if two people have also tried to cultivate a relationship, and there is really no affection for each other, in this case, if the two people have the same idea, they can also choose to divorce. Let each other go, and at the same time give yourself a chance to find happiness that belongs to you, because even if two people are not divorced, even if they don't leave today, they may face divorce tomorrow, so it's better to let go early.

    To sum up, the above is the introduction of the relevant content about how long a marriage without love can last, I hope it will be helpful to everyone, if you have more good suggestions, please leave a message in the comment area below. Second, to what extent should the marriage be divorced 1, the first is a marriage in which two people do not love each other, we also said above, if there is no way to make two people closer by cultivating feelings, then this kind of marriage is in name only, and there is basically no need to maintain it anymore. 2. The second is sexless marriage, many people are difficult to talk about the sex life of couples, but if they are really facing sexless marriage, it is very torturous for both people, because a large part of the relationship between husband and wife is because of sex, so love will be warmed up.

    3. The third is the family that quarrels constantly, the personalities of two people are difficult to run into, and meeting is quarreling, such a family has a very big impact on the child, and if the child is older, even hope that the two of you will divorce, and do not want your family to be full of quarrels.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If everything makes Bi Yun emotional, and there are often contradictions and disputes between husband and wife, and they have not been able to mediate, and the family life is like a year, then it is better to let go of divorce, which is a relief for both husband and wife.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Does a marriage without affection still need to be maintained?

    Hello. A marriage without affection does not need to be maintained, and there is no need to maintain a marriage without feelings. If you don't have children, you may not be able to maintain the relationship between two people.

    If you can't live together, there is no need to force each other to live according to their own way of life, even if two people barely get by, it is very unsatisfactory. This shows that two people are really not suitable, and they should find someone who suits them.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I believe that each of us wants to have a good marriage, especially when we meet someone we like, then many people want to be able to marry someone they like, so they like you after they meet you. Then they will care more about each other and love each other, because they believe that through their own care and love, they will definitely be able to marry the person they like.

    We see that most people get married because two people like each other, and it is precisely because they have feelings that they can be better together, and in the end, it is precisely because two people have feelings that their marriages will be happier, but there are also some people who may not have feelings in their marriages, so I want to know now, marriages without feelings. Do we need to sustain it?

    Maybe for a small number of people, especially some girls now, they are very realistic. They think that as long as their material needs can be satisfied, even in marriage, there is no love affair, and they think that there is nothing. Even they feel that as long as their material conditions can be met, then he will definitely let such a marriage continue.

    But we see that for most people, they know that in order to have a marriage, two people must have a relationship, because only two people can have a relationship, so that they can have a better marriage. So it is precisely because of their mutual care and love that their feelings are deeper, and only so. It can also make their relationship better maintained.

    So we see a lot of people wanting to be able to have a marriage. Most people's marriages are very emotional. So I'm wondering now, do emotionless marriages still need to be maintained?

    Maybe for a small number of people, especially some girls now. They think that as long as they can meet their material conditions, then even if they have feelings in marriage, they will maintain it well.

    But we see that for most people, they know that if there is no affection in the marriage, it will be difficult to hold on. Because we see that in marriage, only two people can better care for each other and love each other, so that they can get along better together, and it is precisely because in marriage that two people can have feelings so that they can better cherish each other, and ultimately make their marriage more happy and beautiful.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It depends on your specific situation and requirements, if you are a couple with children, and you don't want your children to be hurt, then you can choose to maintain the marriage and be a couple who exist in name only.

    However, if you all feel that the world is so bad that you will be together again, it will be more uncomfortable than dying, and there will be no need to maintain it any longer. That's when it would be wise to separate, right?

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