How to form a cold temperament?

1. There are few words, and the biggest practice in life is to shut up. A lot of times your self-righteous opinion is nothing more than an itch in the eyes of others, a bunch of nonsense. So, it's important to keep your mouth shut, both men and women.

2. Skinny, skinny enough, very skinny. Being thin makes people pity, while being fat will look greasy, appear desired, and even uncontrollable. But this is not the most important thing, the appearance is just a bonus, and the inside is the fundamental.

3. If there is no desire, there is no desire in the depths of the heart. Whether a person has desires or not, you can see at a glance that you want to be cold and lonely. It means that there is no desire.

4. Can tolerate loneliness. A person who can't get along with himself, a person who needs companionship anytime and anywhere, can't be cold, you must understand that loneliness is a condition of being human.

An image of no desire, lonely, quiet, little talk, and thin is the so-called cold temperament.

If you want a cold temperament, the first one must be thin! Thin! Thin! Say the important thing three times. Thin people will look much lighter, and it will be more conducive to cultivating various temperaments.

The second is a matter of manners, refusing to shrug one's shoulders and hunching one's neck forward, which will greatly reduce one's temperament.

The third should be not smiling, always maintaining an indifferent state, no matter what happens, speak and do things calmly, even if you accidentally break the merit and laugh, it is also the kind of indifferent smile.

If you want to be a little cooler, there are several ways:

1. Read more, think more, improve your views and attitudes towards people and things, don't joke in public easily, as the so-called well-informed, erudite and knowledgeable! When you see more, you will naturally have an attitude of awe for many people and things, and you will naturally be more cold.

2. Escape into the Buddha Gate and the Empty Gate.

No longer ask about Hongchen affairs, that is, to reach a state of no concern in your heart, if you don't believe it, you can go to see the monks and nuns, are they all very cold?

3. Learn to pretend, sometimes don't easily show your joys, sorrows and sorrows in front of others, so that others will be confused.

4. Learn more psychology-related knowledge and learn some knowledge of camouflage psychology, so that you can better understand the psychological activities and words and deeds of others, and better disguise your own psychological activities, words and deeds.

5. Experience more people and things, and if you experience more, you will naturally look down on many people and things, so your laughter will gradually increase, and you will not easily show your emotions.

Personally, I think that method 1 is the first choice, and if it really doesn't work, choose 2. As for 5, it takes experience, and the age is there, and there is no way.

I want to form a cold temperament. First of all, you must make yourself calm and calm, do not panic, and try to pick up key points when communicating with people. Don't say superfluous, which will give the impression of talking nonsense.

There is also the need to practice the tone of speech and the manners of movements. In addition, speaking is connotative, generous and subtle, so that you can slowly cultivate a cold temperament.

In my understanding, coldness is its own excellence, although it is gentle, but it has a sense of distance from people. He doesn't often take the initiative to talk to people, but he is not afraid to talk to people when necessary. Modest and courteous, temperament and connotation.

Because simply not talking to people is easy to be introverted, and simply having a sense of distance is cold, neither of which is likable.

Posture is one, always raise your head and chest and abdomen, and pull your shoulders back, which is very important and the primary condition of temperament. I have seen many people around me, they are good-looking and thin, but they are hunchbacked, and they seem to be very thin and have a weak temperament.

Always remind yourself to pay attention to your posture, and you should not relax at any time when you are in front of others, and you should insist on it when you are tired. Feel free to do whatever you want, just don't collapse completely. Also, if you stand and walk correctly and gracefully, your body will look good.

Mildness is one, conceit and arrogance are not advisable, although it is cold, but when someone finds it, it must also be treated gently. In fact, as long as it is gentle, there is a sense of distance, because the situation without a sense of distance will only appear when you are very aggressive and mingle with people.

The tone is gentle, the language is gentle, not stinging or snarky, do your best to help others, and at the same time see if you are willing to help. Refuse things that are not within your ability, but let the other party know that this is not feasible and not negotiable.

Self-confidence is one, but it is easy to achieve on the basis of one's own excellence. Extremely assertive, unwavering in ideas. I don't care what others think, I stick to what I want to do, I don't care if I win or lose, I will try my best to fight for it, and I can be sad if I lose after going all out, but I can't be embarrassed.

Will take the initiative to fight for opportunities for themselves, even if they fail in front of everyone, they don't feel embarrassed at all, anyway, I have worked hard, I don't feel sorry in my heart, I am already hundreds of times stronger than those who do nothing and only eat melons and laugh at them, what if they succeed?

Another point is that the closest friends around you are all equally good or better people, otherwise you will be pulled down.

Of course, if you just want to be superficially cold, it's easy to achieve.

Leaning on the cold part, but it is gentler than the cold one, more temperamental, not an ice cube face, can laugh, but not laugh, plus the posture problem in the first point, it can almost pretend to be very cold.

I understand that the real coldness is very difficult to achieve, and the coldness people I know are also the top people in the circle around me, and although this kind of person does not have many real friends, he is very popular, because although there is a sense of distance, he can talk to anyone.

To form this kind of temperament, I think the first thing is to be internal. Accept more reading and **, chase less Internet celebrities and brush Douyin, have their own powerful spiritual world, and it is difficult to be disturbed by the outside world. The character is tenacious, independent, thoughtful, connotative, educated, and has its own unique aesthetic ability, which gives people a delicate and elegant feeling.

That's the key.

In terms of appearance, the main thing is the eyes. It's the feeling of seeing through everything and not taking things seriously.

What you wear is especially important. People depend on their clothes. The cool style of wearing is very demanding in terms of color, generally cold colors, of course, sometimes it will neutralize warm colors.

If you want to wear a high-end cold atmosphere, then you should pay more attention to the choice of color in the choice of clothing, a set of color matching can often lay the tone of the whole outfit, only the color seems to have a texture, in order to wear a unique high-end atmosphere.

The white blazer can be said to be a representative of the cool style, very classic, the white blazer with black wrap chest and black trousers, the neat and capable way of wearing can not only show a unique high-end atmosphere, but also reflect a casual and casual atmosphere, which is very attractive.

As a person who sits quietly and is also said to be cold, I really want to tell you, is it not good to be a sunny and lively sand sculpture, isn't it fragrant, people with a sense of coldness are really very few people who are willing to have in-depth relationships, usually I take the initiative to greet people, people are all eyes dodging, seeing that I want to speak and stop, I just evaluate a thing from an objective point of view, others inexplicably feel that I have an opinion, anyway, I am inexplicably angry, people who like you only dare to secretly like, anyway, I often feel abandoned by the world, Then the vicious circle becomes even colder.

If you want to form a cold temperament, you can choose natural and comfortable soft materials, but it is best to wear a little "muscle" to avoid being too soft and collapsed, and dissipate your own cold temperament: the top should not be too soft, and the thin and flat body will lose its characteristics. In winter, opt for a soft double-sided wool or cashmere coat and avoid styles that are too short or too stiff for a commuting feel

In other seasons, it is suitable to start with linen, silk, cotton and other materials, and the quality is higher to support this simple and natural beauty:

The collocation doesn't need to be too tight, and it has a little more literary sense.

Increase the feeling of freedom in literature and art with a sense of relaxation.

The collocation can be more relaxed, showing the temperament of literature and art. For example, dresses and jumpsuits can be a combination of tight and loose tops, the tightness of the tops highlights the neck and arm lines, and the looseness of the lower body increases the sense of comfort

However, it's best to avoid having too much embellishment on it, which can make the style go off track.

If the top is more close-fitting, the best bottom is a loose and flowing long line. Avoid being tight up and down, the sense of delicacy is too strong:

Of course, you can also wear loose clothes on top and bottom, but loose at the same time means that it will be wider horizontally, so it is best to increase the sense of vertical extension.

Increase the visual sense of longitudinal extension.

On the one hand, this can avoid being short due to looseness, and on the other hand, it has a sense of visual extension and a cooler temperament.

For example, when you match the upper and lower clothes, you can choose the same color, and the effect will be very amazing on the cold wind of literature and art. If you are worried about monotony, you can use different materials to add layering:

Girls who are not literary and cold can also refer to this color matching method to get a sense of calmness. Ding Ding also tried the same color of the whole body in this look before, and I feel that I have dug out another side of myself:

In winter, you can also use layering to layer over the same color and pair it with a long coat to make the vertical line more visible

Accessories are not suitable for overexertion.

The literary and cold style is not suitable for having a feeling of "too much force" in the style, such as heavy makeup and stiletto heels.

1.Height: 163 or more for girls and 178 more for boys.

2.Slender neck Of course, tall people generally don't have too short necks . So what if it really doesn't look too long?

3.Posture Don't lean your neck forward, don't bend over and hunch. Stand up straight and sit upright You see that soldier walks with temperament Girls can go and practice yoga.

4.Clean**. Well, to be honest, acne on the face is really cold If there is a problem, do more skin care homework, if the problem is serious, you may need medical aesthetic intervention, it's okay You have to work hard for what you want.

5.Not a big face. If you have a big face, it will indeed look a little...Rustic? Of course, the face is too small, it's fine, it's normal ( °u° )

6.Nose A big nose can really look untemperamental....Of course, it doesn't mean that a high nose bridge is better than a flat nose bridge, but a small nose must be much better than a big nose!

I think there are many ways to form a cool temperament.

First of all, from the aspect of character: you need to develop a cold and high character.

Secondly, from the aspect of self-cultivation: you need to constantly improve your inner self-cultivation.

In addition, from the aspect of dressing: it needs to be dressed maturely and rich in literary atmosphere, and look delicate and literary.

To sum up, if you want to cultivate a cold temperament, it is nothing more than to make yourself excellent and better, so as to stand on a higher plane, so that when you are facing people who are a little lower than yourself, you will naturally have a sense of distance.

And the "excellent" mentioned here also requires politeness, calmness, and self-confidence as the premise.

Because politeness + composure + confidence = gentleness.

1.Control the frequency of business smiles.

Business smile is what Japanese and Korean stars are best at, as long as they appear in front of the camera, they can immediately show a perfect smile with only eight teeth, like Satomi Ishihara is a typical representative of business smile.

Whether she attends events, shoots for magazines, or shoots movie posters, she always smiles at the corners of her mouth and smiles naturally, so she does not give people the impression that she is forced to open her business and flatter like crazy, but she is calm and comfortable in life and work.

2.Laugh when you want to laugh as much as possible.

To do it 100%, of course, it will be a little difficult, after all, how can social animals not have a time to laugh. But in life, you have to learn to laugh when you want to laugh, you can't laugh at that smirk, laughing all over the place, it will look particularly scary! Women who like to laugh awkwardly to relieve embarrassment, if you want to get rid of the obvious flattering feeling in your temperament, you must change it!

As a person who sits quietly and is also said to be cold, I really want to tell you, is it not good to be a sunny and lively sand sculpture, isn't it fragrant, people with a sense of coldness are really very few people who are willing to have in-depth relationships, usually I take the initiative to greet people, people are all eyes dodging, seeing that I want to speak and stop, I just evaluate a thing from an objective point of view, others inexplicably feel that I have an opinion, anyway, I am inexplicably angry, people who like you only dare to secretly like, anyway, I often feel abandoned by the world, Then the vicious circle becomes even colder.

A unique, cold temperament requires long-term practice. The way to practice is to remain silent and not speak freely.

Cold, as the name suggests, clear (light) and cold, first of all, thin, preferably tall and thin, and the skeleton should be larger, otherwise it will become thin and cute if you are not careful. Secondly, cold. The secret of coldness lies in not talking, talking less, not caring for people, and being in a state of eternal melancholy, with tears in your eyes, and a look full of stories.

Again, don't laugh, don't laugh, don't laugh. When you can't help it, you also smile faintly, and you must not lean forward and lose your demeanor. In summary, don't deliberately change your temperament, because you can't change it!

Coldness is also a kind of ordinary people's view of excellent people, they think that excellent people are cold, looking comfortable but not approaching, can only be seen from a distance and can not be blasphemed! It's a lotus-like feeling of being out of the ordinary!