What should I do if I meet a superstitious mother in law, what should I do if I meet a superstitious

In fact, most of the old people now, a little feudal superstition, the so-called "easy to change, nature is difficult to change", this deep-rooted thinking, can not be changed for a while, as long as it is not excessive superstition, just burn incense and worship the Buddha, pray for peace, health, etc., does not affect the normal daily life, there is a sustenance in the heart is also understandable.

When we get along with such old people, there is no need to forcibly refute them, they have their inherent ideological cognition, and some things they say are not right, such as not having to go to the hospital when we are sick, just do some rituals, we don't have to do what they do, just follow our own ideas. You can also slowly instill in her in daily life the idea that superstition is not credible.

In addition, it is also recommended not to live with a superstitious mother-in-law for a long time, the ideology cannot be integrated, it is difficult to live together with each other, it will cause disagreements on many things, and cause unnecessary family conflicts. Once you encounter a disagreement, you don't have to quarrel with her, let your husband communicate with her and guide her slowly.

It is recommended that the mother-in-law do not interfere too much in the life of the young couple, and it is very necessary for the daughter-in-law and son to clearly communicate this matter with the mother-in-law, and talk about the issues of boundaries and respect. Feudal superstition is not advisable, but the two generations should respect each other and not interfere too much with each other. Therefore, when there are things related to herself in the future, the mother-in-law has the right to suggest, but whether it is absolutely up to the daughter-in-law herself.

Dear, some things can be superstitious, some things can't be believed, such as gods, ghosts, which things that God talks about do exist, but mortals can't see it with the naked eye, and they can't touch it.

The most annoying thing is that my mother-in-law will recite the scriptures at home every morning and evening, and then put the Buddhist scriptures to listen (like the radio) and the sound is very loud, and every time I have to wait for the incense to burn before turning it off, and the noise is dead, so I sleep at home, and I am closed The door is closed

It's really choking for an atheist like me, and I wouldn't want to marry into such a family. A little superstition, it's nothing like burning incense and worshipping on the fifteenth day of the new year, and your mother-in-law has done too much. In fact, I also know that there are many such people in Fuzhou, and this one really doesn't have any good ideas except for giving advice, and you can't change your mother-in-law's thinking for hundreds of years, right?

I can't change others, I have to change myself. I can't change it, I can only separate, you burn your incense and count it as your life, and I will live my godless life. View the original post

When I got married, too, I originally said to buy a new house as a wedding room, but the back was early, so only the hometown room, my mother-in-law originally wanted to use the uncle's room as a new house, because next door is my husband's uncle's house, he is abroad all the year round, the room at home just decorated, said that we are a new house, so that my mother-in-law will not go to decorate the 3rd floor, I will not be able to do it, and the mother-in-law will think that it is also, other people's rooms will be returned later, so I will go to decorate the 3rd floor for us, and now it is okay, There is no money to decorate the new house, and I have been living on the 3rd floor in the back, after all, it is also my own View the original post

It's quite infuriating. If you want to ask your husband to talk more, it's really troublesome to be too superstitious. View the original post

My bottom line is the same as yours: my attitude is, it doesn't matter if you believe it, you can do whatever you want, don't bother me. The damn thing is that even my husband is a little superstitious, and I despise him helplessly! View the original post

Superstition, my family is a little bit of it, right, but it's not so serious? View the original post

Personal belief This can't be helped, but I'm also a very superstitious person

I sympathize with you very much, stay away, and don't live together. Ignoring her behavior is naturally not so annoying. This old man is really superstitious enough to say View the original post

Mother-in-law's generation is very superstitious. If there is nothing to lose, just listen to them, and if it is related, it is still necessary to stick to the scientific View the original post

This family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and my mother-in-law is also a little superstitious, but she will not force me to cooperate View the original post