Should I get married? Sincerely ask netizens for help?

If it were me, I would choose to get married. I'm 21 like you, but I'm still in college, so I don't have a chance, and I don't have a suitable partner. Marriage is the only way in a person's life, and when I was still a child, I felt that it was not good to get married, and I had to have children, how painful, so when I was young, I always said that I would live alone if I didn't get married.

My mother said that you don't want to get married in the future if you have the ability Hehe, now I suddenly feel that it is actually very good to get married, and starting family life earlier will reduce your burden. Besides, the two of you have a good relationship. You're also very happy with him.

If he says that, he will propose to you, and since he has agreed, don't go back. That will hurt a man's self-esteem, and he will think that you lied to him, which hurts his feelings. How can a lifetime be considered over, it has just begun.

As a woman, it's better to put your family first. Marriage doesn't bind you. It's fun to have children, just like I said upstairs, it's good to grab things with your own children.

I'm a big fan of children. Hope it works for you.

Is it acceptable that you have agreed to the marriage of their family, and then you have to have another child as soon as possible in the ardent expectations of the man's family?

Whether you get married, have children, it's all your own business.

Don't let yourself make decisions for the sake of others. Because to get married, you have to have children from your heart.

Anyway, think about it.

If you don't like it, just explain your attitude and stick to it.

22 years old is a little younger.

It's a little smaller. Getting married is something that is considered after 25. Let him give you another two years.

If you want to open a little, communicate more, and if you think you are a person worthy of trust, then tie it up, you have a lot of children in the past. Many of the current leftover women are dragged out like this, and it's very difficult to do.

If two people love each other, both parties think that it is appropriate for each other to be together, and they recognize each other, and it doesn't hurt to get married. If you think he still has something to think about and feel like you'd like to meet someone more suitable, wait a minute. At the age of 28, he is basically going to think about getting married, and it is normal for him to be in a hurry to get married.

Hehe, my classmate got married when he was 20, and the children were all brought by her mother-in-law, and she still worked part-time, and sometimes grabbed food with the children. So, it depends on how the individual treats it

Marriage has always been a grand and crazy thing in China. There are such people among my colleagues, the company organizes travel or something, and if you calculate it, although the company pays for the travel expenses, it is worth one or two thousand more out of thin air, which can be worth half a month's mortgage. From a cool brother to an otaku, how much helplessness is hidden in it.

I don't like to live like that.

For men, it is somewhat a way to hurt their self-esteem, and in the Mosuo explanation, I am still in a matriarchal society. The reality is so cruel, we just found a way that both of us can approve of and accept. If husband and wife live separately, it's all a happy side, and I don't think there are so many tangled marriages in this world.

We have also experienced some helpless and sad things.

Even though we have been freed and saved a lot of money by getting married, I hope to end this situation soon. After all, putting myself into a non-mainstream marriage model is not the ultimate goal, and I love Chenjie, and I am not willing to use this form to prove my love for her. Women, who doesn't want to have a happy home, and now our marriage seems to be a bit like a hermit crab, and when you think about it deeply, it's still a pain.

water, just tell me. I feel guilty about this, women are sick, and they always want their men to be by their side, which also makes me feel the pressure on my body, I can't give her nothing but love.

Even though we have been freed and saved a lot of money by getting married, I hope to end this situation soon. After all, putting myself into a non-mainstream marriage model is not the ultimate goal, and I love Chenjie, and I am not willing to use this form to prove my love for her. Women, who doesn't want to have a happy home, and now our marriage seems to be a bit like a hermit crab, and when you think about it deeply, it's still a pain.