Does it make sense for a woman to determine the happiness of three generations of a family?

It is very reasonable for a woman to determine the happiness of three generations of a family, because a virtuous woman will make her family in order and will be very harmonious.

Reasonable. A good woman is able to balance the various relationships between the elderly, children and her husband, and achieve a harmonious family and a harmonious situation for three generations.

I feel that makes sense, because a good woman can make a family extra warm.

I think this sentence is quite reasonable, because if a woman is particularly virtuous and has a special happy life, her children will also be affected, and even the next generation of her children will be affected.

Some people say that if a woman finds the wrong husband, she will be ruined in her life, and if a man finds the wrong wife, then three generations of his family will be ruined.

This is not an exaggeration at all.

I once saw a mother insulting her 8-year-old child in public on the bus, "I have never seen such a stupid child as you" and "It's a burden to raise you", these insulting and offensive words seem to slip through my mother's mouth. It is not an exaggeration to describe that scene as "hot".

If this mother has been grumpy for a long time, then the child who grows up in such an environment will have two results:

First, children are insecure and lack love, and they will grow up to be more cowardly.

Second, under the influence of my mother, when I grow up, I will be like my mother, I will lose my temper because of a little thing, I don't know how to be calm, and I will have few friends.

Mr. Hu Shi once described his mother in "My Mother": "If I have learned the slightest bit of good temper, if I have learned a little bit of kindness towards others, if I can forgive and be considerate of others, I have to thank my mother." His unforgettable expression of his true feelings for his mother is impressive.

Zheng Yuanjie, the king of fairy tales, said: "The growth of children is also a mother, and the mother is also defeated." ”

A good mother should have such qualities.

Be strong and teach children not to be cowardly in the face of difficulties.

When children encounter difficulties, they observe the behavior of adults. Without a strong and brave mother, it will be more difficult for the child to get through difficult times. Being a strong and brave mother is also educating children to be strong and brave.

While shedding tears, he told his child: You have to be strong, that is just ......nonsense

Kindness, let children know how to be compassionate.

Bill Gates once said that what he got from his mother was "piety and kindness", and we can see the mark of his mother in Bill Gates's large donations to poor areas around the world.

Good cultivation casts the quality of children.

A child's cultivation is often "watered" bit by bit from the mother. Mothers respect the old and love the young, and the children will naturally go up and down; If the mother is thrifty, the child will naturally refuse luxury; If the mother is polite, the child will naturally be humble and not ......arrogant

Only by distinguishing between right and wrong can children be strict with themselves and lenient with others.

When children are young, they often do not have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, and their mothers are often the objects of their emulation. Therefore, a mother, first of all, should filter out those wrong practices and ideas from herself, and when she encounters a problem of right and wrong, she can distinguish and respond appropriately, or stop or educate.

Don't blame others, be yourself first! If you are good for yourself, the people around you will be good too; If you feel that the people around you are not good, it is because of your own problems. Don't be stubborn and don't change, or your older generation, your spouse, your children, will suffer!