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Because such a man is not worthy of his daughter to do anything for him, even if his daughter does it, he will not get any gratitude from this man.

Because since the man has the idea of getting out of the marriage, it means that there are certain problems between them, so it is best not to get married.

In fact, the main reason is that the man wants to withdraw from the marriage mainly because he can't afford the bride price.

Legal analysis: If the woman is unwilling to get married, she cannot be forced to marry. Marriage shall be of complete voluntary consent between the man and the woman, and it is forbidden for either party to coerce the other.

Legal basis: According to Article 1046 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China, marriage shall be completely voluntary between a man and a woman, and it is forbidden for either party to coerce the other party, and it is forbidden for any organization or individual to interfere with it.

Legal analysis: The woman is firmly opposed to divorce, and the court generally does not grant a divorce, and the divorce can only be obtained after confirming the feelings.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1076:Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the opinions reached through consultation on matters such as the maintenance of children, property, and the handling of debts.

Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that a divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates a divorce lawsuit again, the divorce shall be granted.

Summary. We are all adults, and we have the ability to bear the consequences of everything we do, and we can negotiate with each other in this regard, and we must not be able to fully retreat, because it has delayed us for so long, and it will also make others misunderstand that we are married.

We are women, engaged last year, and lived in the man's house after the New Year this year, and now the two have a bit of a conflict, and the man doesn't want to be willing now, and wants to withdraw from the marriage, so I want to consult how to solve the problem of bride price on both sides.

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Have you ever had a wedding between you?

Didn't go through the wedding, did you stay directly in the man's family?

Not yet. Yes.

How long you have stayed, whether there has been a de facto act between husband and wife.

I lived for more than half a year, and I became a husband and wife.

Two people already have the fact that they are husband and wife, and they are considered to be married, but they have not yet been allowed by the law. If you divorce at this time, both parties must need to negotiate, because you have been living in his house for nearly half a year, and the bride price must not be fully refunded, but you must also choose to return.

How much was the bride price paid at that time? Are there any other costs besides the bride price?

A bride price of 200,000 yuan.

If you have not obtained a marriage certificate, you do not have a legally recognized marriage fact. If you accept the bride price, the man has the right to ask you to return the bride price when you end the relationship. If you don't use the bride price to buy a dowry, or don't bring it to the man in disguise.

Then it is generally necessary to return it.

The rest is the money of the three golds.

The characterization of the bride price is to be for the purpose of marriage.

The main reason is that this relationship is not for the woman to retreat, but for the man to retreat, right.

This also shows that the qualitative nature of this bride price cannot be fully refunded, and the two of you need to negotiate with each other, not that we are unwilling, but that the man is unwilling.

It is the man who wants to retreat.

I understand that the man doesn't want to marry us, so the man wants to return the bride price.

We are all adults, and we have the ability to bear the consequences of everything we do, and we can negotiate with each other in this regard, and we must not be able to fully retreat, because it has delayed us for so long, and it will also make others misunderstand that we are married.

It may be that the woman is not satisfied with the man's bride price, or has an opinion about the preparations for the wedding, and feels that the man has cheated on her.

It is because on the eve of marriage that the woman found out that the man was not suitable for her, and it was not the type she liked, so it would lead the woman to make such a decision.

may find that her choice is wrong, she must be cautious in the matter of marriage, she may not want to marry him.

This is because the woman sees some of the man's problems clearly in the early stages of marriage. These problems are unacceptable to the woman, so she resolutely withdraws from the marriage.

It's because the woman suddenly found that the two people were very inappropriate, and suddenly felt that she didn't want to marry each other, and she didn't want to be with each other, so there was such a phenomenon.

Because she didn't want to spend the rest of her life with the person next to her, she began to regret it.

Because on the eve of marriage, the woman must have seen some of the man's problems clearly. And these problems are unacceptable to women, so she will resolutely withdraw from the marriage.

It is recommended to refer to the following provisions of the Interpretation of the Supreme People's Court on Several Issues Concerning the Application of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China (II) to make your own judgment:

Article 10: Where parties request the return of bride price paid in accordance with custom, the people's court shall support it if it is ascertained that it falls under the following circumstances:

1) The parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities;

2) The parties have gone through marriage registration formalities but do not live together;

3) Payments made before marriage that cause hardship to the payor.

The application of the provisions of items (2) and (3) of the preceding paragraph shall be conditional on the divorce of both parties.

The question is not clear, what are you asking?

2. Is it okay for you to continue to maintain this relationship and continue to let them get married? Will there be more estrangement in the future because of what happened before?

3. If the two of them can smooth out their personalities and live a stable life, it is fine; If the discord between the two people is coupled with some trivial matters in the past, and finally the marriage breaks down, this is even more serious; Now it's just an engagement, and it's the same as falling in love, just leave; After getting married, you have to worry a lot, which will affect your three families.

I hope to think about it a little more.