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It's a lot of seriousness. What are you preparing?
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For most people's experience of getting married, they are busy and tired. Before getting married, there are indeed too many things to be busy with, and too many things to prepare. Faced with the question "What to prepare before getting married?"
This is a question that many people can talk about for a long time. But in fact, the most important thing to prepare before marriage is whether you have a heart suitable for marriage.
6 major psychological preparations before marriage.
1.Reasons for marriage.
Men should get married and women should get married, aren't everyone married when they're so old, this reason seems reasonable, but it's actually terrible, it shows that you are getting married for the sake of getting married, and it means that you are only getting married to be the same as everyone else, just to go with the flow.
2.Healthy and mature psyche.
To have a perfect and happy marriage, two people must be mature, positive and optimistic, and loyal to each other, focusing on self and dedicating themselves to their lovers and families.
3.Weddings are the biggest.
It is undeniable that every woman is obsessed with weddings, and every girl is eager to put on a wedding dress when she is a little girl, and the person she loves, in the envious eyes and blessings of everyone, to be a proud and beautiful bride, so that the romantic desire can be satisfied. But if you put all your mind on creating the infinite perfection of the wedding and ignore the marriage itself, you are unprepared.
4.Marriage means acceptance.
If you are still struggling with his ex-girlfriend, still haunting him for a certain lie, still misunderstanding some details, and still disliking his family poverty, then your relationship still needs to continue to brew, which means that you are not suitable for marriage.
5.Marriage is about giving.
Marriage, many times is dedication and tolerance, before getting married, we have to ask ourselves, am I willing to give to him? Am I willing to pay for him? If not, maybe you need to think a lot about this marriage.
6.The connotation of marriage.
A single love is not equal to all marriages, and marriage is by no means a success for two people with love. Accept each other's family and fulfill the corresponding responsibilities, accept his work, accept his wealth and poverty, many practical problems, if they cannot be unified, will often face a lot of contradictions in the daily relationship after marriage.
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