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Have you ever heard the saying that it is better to have no book than to have a book?
Stating my position is what I like very much, but objectively speaking, everyone's growth experience is different from her own experience, concepts, and values, in fact, some of the stories she wrote are almost dark in reality, and some love and personal concepts are too beautiful, and the two are completely uncompromised.
There are many Yishu readers who say that they have read Yishu's books for many years, and when they read them back at the end, they don't know if they don't read Yishu for life? Or did you read it and miss it for life? Most of the people who read her ** are women, and more of them are career-oriented people.
Read her ** For women, the most important thing to know is that you must be self-reliant, self-reliant, no one will take care of you for a lifetime, love is not all life, it is only a part, and family affection, career equal, but the sad thing is that when you are too self-reliant, self-reliant, and completely independent in the spiritual world, so that you can face many problems on your own, the object of mate selection has since risen to three-dimensional, that person is not just the carrier of completing your love and marriage, This question also takes into account the question of the compatibility of spirit and soul, which is as difficult as heaven.
In some of the relevant comments and introductions of Yishu readers, the title page of Yishu ** introduced, Yishu himself used to be a press officer, and it seems that he had been a public relations manager of a hotel, (in short, he was a hotel manager, I don't remember the specifics), he was young and ambitious, and his love also failed, and then he went to study in the UK alone, her personal life experience is quite rich, she has seen too many people, and has experienced too many things, success, frustration, and then found her own balance. Hong Kong is also a famous city of stress, the law of the jungle, fierce competition, hardships of survival, coupled with the warmth and coldness of people, I think these are all very important to the things in her story, most of the people, have a very important connection.
As for the concept and value, whether it is wrong, distorted, or deformed, I think these should be half and half, depending on the opinion, maybe the reader's point of view has a considerable relationship with his own cognition, and I personally think that her works are still better in the early days.
The above is only an exchange, personal opinion, if there is any difference, please forgive me!
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It's not distorted, it's just that I'm more attached to some ideas.
In fact, what she writes is not very real, it just looks real but has some drama and bizarreness, so that the story can be fascinating. I've been reading her since junior high school, and I've always believed that many of the stories she tells are real, but just an example, not every man is so bad, and not every woman is so good.
She taught us to be self-reliant, self-reliant, emotional deterioration, betrayal, to be brave to turn around, not to think about revenge, so that it is best for ourselves; Be filial to your parents; Children are innocent and cute to protect; She also particularly admires the ancient Chinese culture, saying that the artistic conception contained in Chinese characters is incomparable to Western English; She does not like jewelry, and especially likes women who dress plainly or elegantly; She feels that life is very precious, and there is nothing else that can influence the heart of a person to save people. I don't think there's anything wrong with any of these points.
You can imagine that there are two people like this, one is a maverick and has her own ideas, some people like her, some people don't like her, and her words and deeds are easy to cause controversy; The other is mediocre and submissive, everyone likes her, but few people really pay attention to what she thinks.
Yishu's ** is a maverick, she just prefers unique women, whether they are white-collar workers or lovers, rich or poor; She also prefers honest and trustworthy men who love women, regardless of their profession or knowledge. Every ** talks about romance, and they are almost such characters, but the stories deduced are different, and the fields and personnel encountered are also different, which is also mixed with many exotic cultures and local customs.
Personally, I think it's very exciting, and I recommend it to some friends, some people can't put it down when they see it, but some people feel bored when they see it. So a thousand readers have a thousand Yishu in their hearts
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Everyone must only write their own opinions, and it is impossible to judge whether they are right or wrong. When we look at other people's works, the key is to enjoy the process of reading, if you don't like it, then don't read it, why bother with the right and wrong of her views
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Shu Shu's explanation.
1).The water flows slowly. Tang Hanyu "It's a pity that this day is a gift of Zhang Book" poem:
The water of Huai is soothing, and the Chu Mountains are straight and thick. "Song Su Shi's "New Canal Poems": The water of the new canal comes from comfort, overflows in the wilderness, and reaches the thoroughfare.
2).Sluggish appearance. Tang Hanyu "Fu Zhi Fu" :
Row the country and go east, and the rest of the line is comfortable. Song Wang Anshi's poem "Dezi Gu Shu Yin Send": "Zi Xing He Shushu, I hope to have learned."
3).Comfortable appearance. Tang Mengjiao "Jing'an Sojourn" poem:
The servants and students are all promoted, and the heart is comfortable. Ming Fang Xiaoru "Si Xiaotang Ji": People always care about the side of the fierce service, towards Yiyi, twilight and Shushu, how do you know that it is happy?
4).Fluttering in the wind. Song Suxun, "Portrait of Zhang Yizhou":
Gong is from the east, and the flag is Shushu. Song Luyou's poem "Jiangzhi Jingkou": "The bow of the socks is back to the sail drum, and the tail of the flag is comfortable and the wind is down."
Word decomposition Explanation of Shu Shu ū stretch: stretch . Comfortable.
Diastolic. Shu roll (僴). Comfortable.
Comfortable. Calm, slow: soothing.
Surname. radical : tongue; Shu's solution to the finch Zhi Ji Shi Shu ū stretch:
Unfold. Comfortable. Diastolic.
Shu roll (僴). Comfortable. Comfortable.
Calm, slow: soothing. Surname.
radical : tongue;
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1. I disappointed the people who hated me because I lived so well. --Yishu.
2. Any partnership, at the beginning is always your willingness, gossip, there is a discussion, there is no basis in the future, there is always one side will feel that it is a loss, and the grievances are suddenly born. And marriage, no matter how romantic or emotionally rich it is, is the most difficult kind of partnership to maintain perfectly for a long time. --Yishu.
3. A mature person often finds that there are fewer and fewer people to blame, and everyone has his difficulties. --Yishu.
4. No matter what you do, remember to do it for yourself, then there will be no complaints. --Yishu.
5. The weak will always have a belly of justice and inferiority, which is the most powerful way for them to deal with the strong. --Yishu.
6. "Children of poor families, who have long understood the world and are not contentious," the tone gradually became sad, "It is not only a mermaid, those who have strength sell their strength, and those who have color sell their hue, and they give away self-esteem for free." --Yishu.
7. When a man no longer loves his woman, it is wrong for her to cry, it is wrong to be silent, it is wrong to breathe alive, and it is wrong to die. --Yishu.
8. To understand people is to understand people, and they understand without explanation, and those who do not understand are unwilling to understand, and it is useless to say that they are open-mouthed. --Yishu.
9. Self-deprecation is one of the best ways to protect yourself - Yishu.
10. Loving someone is like this, everything is included, everything is forgiven, I always feel that the other party is cute, not big, childish, everything is pitiful, and I am always reluctant. --Yishu.
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