Even ducks can act these days, what skills do you need to survive in society?

A friend shared a fun picture on the Internet, and the content of the fun picture is that the ducks are running and the hunting dogs are running.

In the chase; Then the duck immediately fell to the ground and pretended to be dead, and when he saw the hound go away, the duck immediately got up again and galloped away into the distance. This interesting picture can be said to be a very sand sculpture, which made everyone laugh. Of course, everyone thought about it the other way around, and they thought it was quite interesting.

The duck's act of "pretending to be dead" seems to be a necessary social survival skill for us. So, what skills do you think are necessary to survive in society? Let's take a look at it together.

One of the must-have skills: improvisation

If you want to mix well in society, the most basic skill is to adapt to changes, for example, in terms of conversation, we have to learn to say what kind of people we face, that is, as the saying goes, "see people and talk about people, and talk about ghosts". After all, when our words can win the approval of the other person and bring joy to the other person, it can often make things develop for the better. It's a huge boost to what we're doing.

Therefore, I personally think that in the matter of improvisation, we need to delve into it and strive to make ourselves deeper enough in this aspect.

Essential skill 2: independence

One should cultivate one's own independence, so that no matter how harsh the environment is, at least we can maintain our own survival. If we rely on others for everything we do, and if we have someone to feed us even for food, then we can only grow into a giant baby. It is important to know that giant babies are the most difficult to survive in this era, because the real society is very cruel, and it will eventually teach you how to rely on yourself to survive independently.

In this case, why don't we strive to improve our survival skills after death at the beginning, and become an independent free man?

The third essential skill: human affection training

We are in this society, if we want to get good popularity, we must know how to interact with people, and we must be able to achieve human feelings. Whether it is getting along with leaders, colleagues, or lovers and friends, we have our own set of mature rules for interpersonal interactions, and we all know how to maintain a friendly relationship with them, then we will feel much easier and happier to survive in this society. If the relationship between people is not handled well, it will not only affect our normal work, but also affect our family relationships.

Therefore, it is recommended that everyone can improve themselves more in terms of emotional intelligence and IQ, and strive to be virtuous and not let bad interpersonal relationships.

Drag down our lives.

What skills are necessary to survive in society: 1. Communication skills. In a fast-paced work environment, communication barriers can become a fatal problem in your career. So you need to must-have:

Writing clearly, listening carefully, reading carefully, speaking clearly, and accurately narrating will be of inestimable value.

2. Organizational skills. Organizing work is essential wherever you go. For example, the allocation of financial and material resources, equipment workflows, the development of marketing strategies, the search for profit opportunities, etc., all require a high level of organizational ability.

3. Persuasion. The people who are most productive will be those who know how to express ideas and information in order to be understood and supported by others. Excellent lobbying skills are essential in interpersonal communication.

4. Imagination. This ability is essential to gather and access a wide range of knowledge, and to draw on some of it, ways of thinking and perspectives to guide the future.

You must have the skills to observe words and feelings, and your work ability must be very good, and your emotional intelligence must be very high, so that you can survive well in society and will not be resisted.

To survive in society, you must learn how to behave, how to behave and deal with people, and learn the skills to settle down and make a living.

We need to have a lot of skills to survive in society, professionally, we need to have excellent professional skills, in the world, we also need super high emotional intelligence to face different things in life, no matter in any aspect we must be cautious in words and deeds, do not say more than what should not be said, to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings.

There are many skills needed to work hard in society, and there are two skills that we must master for ordinary people. The first is to understand other people's words, which includes both the understanding of language semantics and the understanding of other people's subtext. The second is to insist on our own principles, which requires us to strike a balance between our skills in dealing with the world and our own positions.