Does the happiness of a family begin with pampering his wife?

The happiness of a family does begin with pampering his wife, because only in this way will the relationship between two people get better and better, and then family life will become more and more harmonious.

Yes, wives are used to spoil, but wives can't be pampered and arrogant, otherwise the family will not be happy.

A happy family, of course, starts with a wife who pampers himself, as the saying goes: the husband is the key to whether the wife can build happiness, and the wife is the key to determining the happiness of a family.

You must know that many people will feel that it is easy to fall in love and difficult to get married, it is true that before two people fall in love, they are from two different families, your previous living environment, growth situation is also completely different, and there will be many differences in personality and temper. You will find that the maintenance of the family is not as simple as falling in love, and then the shortcomings of the other party will gradually become the fuse of the breakdown of the marriage.

You must know that marriage needs two people to maintain together, of course, it is necessary for two people to tolerate each other and understand each other in order to make your marriage go further, especially gay men should learn to accommodate their lovers, in fact, girls need a sense of security in family life, only if you can understand and tolerate them more, do your responsibility and responsibility, so that they have enough security, they will not become so sensitive and suspicious, and the happiness index of your life will of course become higher.

Whether you admit it or not, the wife's love mountain and auspicious matching, often plays a decisive role in the family's happiness index, the wife is in a good mood, emotional stability, the family atmosphere will not be bad, on the contrary, if the wife's mood is not good, the life of the family will become a mess, the family banquet state is more like a layer of fog and haze to make you breathless, and the most important factor that dominates the wife's mood is that the husband's attitude, family harmony and happiness, and the husband's attitude towards his wife is inseparable, As the saying goes: there is no unhappy marriage in the world, only unhappy couples, a well-managed marriage, as sweet as honey, and a poorly managed marriage is a fire pit.

I think it does start with pampering his wife, and if a husband doesn't pamper his wife, then the marriage of two people will not last long.

Personally, I don't think so, I personally think that the beginning of family happiness should be to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

It really starts with doting on his wife, because this will make the relationship between the two people better.

The status of the wife determines the happiness of a family, if you treat her as a princess, the home will be full of love and warmth, if you use her as a nanny, the family will be full of resentment, and the married life will become more and more depressing. This reader friend is like this, for the sake of his children and family, he gave up his ability to make money, and he couldn't get the understanding and respect of his husband, so he made himself feel more and more disappointed in his marriage.

Two people get along day and night under the same roof, there will definitely be a lot of different living habits, if you can respect the difference of your lover, the marriage can be happy and long-lasting. A good marriage is not a strong and weak master-servant relationship, but equality with respect, mutual respect, and mutual support, so that they can accompany each other to old age.

No, it's not who determines happiness.

My mom is a traditional woman who is super diligent, good-tempered, clean, family-loving, and loving husband and children.

She has two marriages.

First time with my dad, my own dad.

The second time with her current husband, I'll call him Lao M for the time being.

In these two marriages, my mother tidied up the house every day, cooked the meals, served tea and water, and said that it was not too much to say that she was the most virtuous wife.

However, my own father is very machismo, extremely unclean, throwing things around, extremely stubborn, and will never help my mother with any housework, even if my mother is sick and goes out. Sometimes when there is a quarrel, he will say, this is what a woman should do, I know to do it, but I don't do it.

As for the old m, he is also very machismo, and his machismo is reflected in: women don't care about their careers, just clean the house and take care of the children. But he would put all his things back when he was used up, and he would do it with his mother when he was cleaning.

If my mother goes out for a while, she will clean up herself.

My mom is my mom, and it hasn't changed, and the variable is that husband. But it was clear that my mom was happier in her second marriage.

Do you think I'm going to say that it's men who determine happiness?

Wrong, this time the frame of reference is my dad, and the variable is that wife.

In my dad's second marriage, my aunt called her little x.

This aunt was spoiled by the two brothers in the family.

The work is good, the people are also very gentle, and the words are super gentle and soft.

Fortunately, she may be spoiled and has no special requirements for housework, so in terms of hygiene, you have to get by, and you can keep the surface tidy.

Then, miraculously, she got along well with my dad and never quarreled over this.

So what exactly determines happiness? I do not know.

But it's definitely not a specific role

It's not even the depth of feelings, the good or bad temper.

If I had to say something, I would come to a conclusion.

I think the happiness level that can be determined is "whether the other person meets your most important expectations for your partner" and "whether the other person has the most intolerable shortcomings".

If you want the other party to have a successful career, then in addition to his successful career, you can tolerate other small shortcomings.

If you want her to be a good wife and mother, then she meets your expectations, and you will most likely be able to tolerate her other small shortcomings.

In a family, the wife has many responsibilities, and she has to be a good daughter-in-law, a good wife, a good mother, and the mistress of the family. It can be said that to a large extent, the wife is a bellwether of a family's happiness. There is a saying that when you treat a woman as a princess, the home must be warm, but when you treat a woman as a nanny, the family relationship will be mostly resentful, and the atmosphere will be more depressing.

In fact, there are many such examples in life, women with low family status live the hardest life in marriage. She gave birth to children, took care of housework, lost her circle, and revolved around the family every day, but men didn't understand her, and her mother-in-law looked down on her, and over time, she herself got used to this atmosphere. A good marriage is not a strong and weak master-servant relationship, but a husband and wife who understand each other, understand each other's difficulties, are willing to consider each other, help each other reduce their burden, and walk hand in hand through the wind and rain, which is what a happy family should look like.