How do you hold on to your dreams? Should we hold on to our dreams?

My dream was to get into an undergraduate school through a post-secondary program, and I started working on this dream when I was a freshman. I haven't been good at English since I was a child, and every time I go to class, it's like listening to a book. But I had to take English for the exam, so I started to tutor myself in English.

Wake up every morning and memorize 5 words, and then set these five words as your phone wallpaper. I can review it every time I look at my phone. Start looking for some foreign movies to watch, and consciously read English subtitles.

I didn't expect to get much in English, I just wanted to get a few points.

I like musical instruments, four hundred per class, one session a week, although the family supports me, but the situation at home is not optimistic, no way, in order to attend the class I have to figure out my own way, the school cafeteria said that you can go to help, free meals, no one goes, I am embarrassed to go, I ran outside to eat four or five pieces of rice noodles, two meals a day, and went to distribute leaflets on weekends, bitter is bitter, but I am almost used to it, I prefer to fight now to myself.

Keep giving up, keep making trade-offs. Finally getting farther and farther away from my dream. It's good, dreams are a useless and tiring thing. I'd better take the ordinary path. So I gave up and didn't hold on.

My dream is to be a free rich man, I will only do graphic design, it may be a little difficult, but I will work hard, freedom will definitely be fought for, I will do my best to be rich, anyway, the most sorry thing is myself, everything else is virtual, social value or something, I don't care.

Study hard, pass the fourth or sixth grade, and take the postgraduate entrance examination. I want to make better friends, improve my level, and dream of studying abroad.

My dream is not to go to work, and the best I can do to achieve this dream is to go to work.

Get up early and be greedy for darkness, forget to sleep and eat. I still don't want to feel that I haven't worked hard enough, so I can only continue to do it!

Think about how many years later you will have to work harder every day for your wife and children, house, ticket, and car, and squeeze out every cent of your surplus value, what ideals do you have to give up now.

Second? The goal is very simple, to get into a good high school, to get into a good university, and to be an honest and kind person.

Parents want their children to have decent jobs and be able to support themselves. Some parents will not support their children's dreams, and will even strangle their children's dreams in the cradle. However, some parents support their children unconditionally.

Should we hold on to dreams that our parents are opposed? If it were you, what would you choose? I think we should stick to it for the following reasons.

First of all, it is very valuable for people to have dreams, and everyone is great if they have dreams, so even if our parents oppose our dreams, we must stick to them. Secondly, human life is very short, we have to live for ourselves, don't change our minds for the sake of other people's eyes, no one knows what will happen in the future. In the end, if you have a dream, you have to work hard and move towards your goal.

There are many people in the world who have no goals, so you must stick to your original dream and realize your life value. One: If you have a dream, you need to support it, and your parents' advice is not necessarily right.

No matter what kind of dreams a child has, parents should do their best to support them, and it is very important for people to be able to do what they love in this life. Two: We should think more about our own future, work hard for ourselves, don't care about other people's eyes, even if our parents oppose us, we must insist.

If you give up on your dreams easily, you will lose the opportunity to change your life, and anything is possible in the future. Three: Be responsible for yourself, don't easily listen to your parents, but also have your own ideas, don't be led by your parents.

There are too many people in this world who have been doing nothing all their lives, and since they have dreams, they must work hard to achieve them and never give up easily.

Of course, we can't listen to our parents all, otherwise there won't be so many professions in this society, and there won't be so many scientists, celebrities and civil servants.

As long as you are firm in your heart and you will not regret it in the future, then you can stick to your ideas. In addition to considering the feelings of our parents, the most important thing is our own feelings, after all, life belongs to us, and the decision is still in our own hands.

I had many dreams in my life, but almost all of them were shattered. Because I'm the kind of person who is hot for three minutes, I can rarely make up my mind to do something, and it always ends at the beginning.

When I was a kid, I wanted to be a barber because I thought it was super cool, I could give people beautiful looks, and I could also hold a pair of scissors and dance in my hand, and with a few clicks, a beautiful and shiny hairstyle would be born in my own hands. But my mom always laughed and said that I was unproductive, my ideals were not great, and other children dreamed of becoming astronauts and racers or something, and you like to shout bridges to serve the public, but I am happy to do so. But since I learned that the barber industry is not easy, I have dispelled this idea, and I really thought about it and quit thinking about it like frozen shoulder disease, cervical spondylitis, hair sticking on the feet, etc.

When I grow up, my dream is to be admitted to an ideal university, so that I can change the fate of my life and reach the peak of life. Although I was admitted to the university, it was not ideal.,It's just a simple three-book school.,Although in the name of two, but still pay for three.,Every time I pay the 15,000 tuition, I feel like I'm a bloodsucker.,I'm slowly squeezing my own family money clean.。

Now my dream is to be admitted to graduate school, because my school is not too good, in this era of undergraduates, I will definitely not have any competitiveness after graduation, so I want to find another way out for myself, and after graduating from graduate school, there will be relatively less competitive pressure. But I feel like I'm choking enough in my current state, and alas, I'll try.

There are often setbacks in life, and when we don't get the rewards we deserve for our efforts, we feel lost and lost. At this time, we are faced with a choice: whether to choose to give up on our dreams or to continue to persevere in the pursuit of what we love.

My view on this issue is that although we may feel frustrated when we experience setbacks in life, choosing to stick to our preferences will also give us more courage and motivation to face difficulties and challenges. When we choose to give up on our dreams, we may feel lost and regretful, and we will also miss out on more opportunities and possibilities. On the contrary, if I choose to stick to our dreams and keep working hard, we may get more opportunities and the possibility of success.

In addition, continuing to pursue our own preferences will also make us happier and more fulfilled.

Of course, we need to face a lot of difficulties and challenges when sticking to our dreams, but it is also a process of growing and training ourselves. If we can maintain an optimistic, firm and positive attitude in the face of difficulties and challenges, I believe that we will be able to overcome difficulties and succeed.

When I was a child, I had unforgettable dreams, but there was no time limit. Although I didn't achieve my dream, I realized my dream for my parents, and it was worth it.

How can you achieve your dreams through efficient persistence?

1.Aim for your own values – the motivation to keep going.

You need to understand what your values are, and then measure whether the goals you set are based on those values. If your life is about enjoyment rather than fulfillment, then pursue the things that make you happy. If a person insists on something that is not in line with his or her values at all, then he will not be able to achieve his dreams.

2.Goals should be in line with your abilities.

Goals that are worth sticking to must also be matched by our own capabilities. We must be aware of our own abilities, understand our strengths, and at the same time understand our weaknesses, accept them from the heart, and try to avoid the negative effects they can have.

If the goal we set is seriously not in line with our own model, it is doomed to fail, and we can't wake up and become another person. If you choose a goal that aligns with your values and have a high level of motivation to achieve it, but you don't look at the feasibility of sticking to it, then it is very likely that you have set the wrong goal. You fall into the illusion that you "never give up", thinking that you stick to your dreams, but the fact is that in self-deception, not only do you not realize your personal value, but you go further and further on the road of your dreams.

As college students in the new era, we should use a positive attitude and establish correct labor values from ourselves.

Only through continuous and serious study and practice, as college students in the new era, can we have higher literacy and self-awareness, and establish correct labor values from ourselves with positive actions, so that we can better learn relevant knowledge, and also cultivate our sense of responsibility and make our own contributions to life.

Therefore, it is very important to strive to improve self-quality and sense of responsibility, and we must learn to persevere, only by insisting can we not be afraid of all difficulties, bravely face ourselves, face life, and strive to make ourselves grow.

If you want to insist on doing one thing well, make the goal smaller, break down the big goal into small goals, small enough that we can easily complete the goal, and we have to spread these goals to each day, so that what we have to do every day is fixed, when you finish the day's small goals, you can rest, you can do some things you like, when you do this step, you will find that your work efficiency will increase greatly.

Therefore, we must also pay attention to the method, only the right thing, insist on what we want to do, and divide the big goal into smaller goals with higher efficiency, so that we can feel the sense of accomplishment of completing the goal, and we can also do self-encouragement, so that we can have firmer confidence and grow forward step by step.

With self-confidence, our persistence can become more grinding and long-lasting, and then in the process of accomplishing this goal, we can use some small tricks to make perseverance simpler: develop micro-habits, break down big goals into clear small goals, and feel more sense of accomplishment after the goal is completed.

If you want to persevere in learning for a long time, it is best to encourage yourself often, one of the best ways is to write a diary, writing a study diary is a good way to encourage you, so that you can plan more goals for your own learning, more motivation to persevere, you can write down your daily learning situation in the model source diary, as well as your evaluation and feelings, what lessons should be learned in learning, what ways to improve learning, you can also write it down, it has been proved that this effect is excellent, The effect of long-term persistence in learning is very obvious.

When you feel that you are particularly tired from studying, take a look at some celebrity biographies, which is extremely helpful to encourage yourself to persevere, find a successful person you particularly admire, read his biography, understand how he succeeded, take him as an example, and use the power of example to encourage yourself to persevere and study hard.