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Such parents must be unqualified. Children are not a tool for parents to vent, and conflicts between adults should not involve children, and it is responsible for them to bring children into this world, rather than throwing children aside as soon as something happens. This practice is very detrimental to the child's physical and mental health.
They all wonder if they did something wrong and were abandoned by their parents? They will think that their parents don't love them anymore, and the lack of security will also make them more and more withdrawn and inferior. <>
Ignoring a quarrel like this and throwing the child aside is very unacceptable, and this is not something that a qualified parent can do. It is precisely with such unqualified parents that many children's mental health problems gradually appear. If parents have to take the test, there will not be a large number of these unqualified parents.
Yes, such things are not uncommon in life. It is all because of the contradictions and unpleasant things between husband and wife, the child is about to start suffering, and it is also the child's misfortune to meet such parents. What child doesn't want their parents to take good care of themselves and accompany them to grow up like normal people?
And if your parents encounter something, they will just leave themselves aside, which is really irresponsible. <>
In fact, it is not difficult to be a qualified parent, and what children want is very simple, as long as their parents care for them selflessly and warm their hearts, they are very willing to stay by their parents' side. And even so, there are still many parents who can't do it, and such parents are what we call unqualified parents. Being a parent is also a practice, and the influence of the original family on the child is also very far-reaching, if as a parent only cares about the venting of their own emotions and completely ignores the feelings of the child, then the child born from such a family will not be happy.
Before becoming a parent, we all have to think about whether we have the ability to be a qualified parent. Can it have a positive or negative impact on the child? If you can't meet even the most basic requirements, don't have children.
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Of course it is unqualified. It is very irresponsible for two people to quarrel and put 3 babies on the side of the road. Small children do not have the ability to judge, and there may be bad people. Moreover, there are many vehicles on the side of the road, which is a safety hazard to children.
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Unqualified, and then quarrel with the safety of the child is the first, sometimes I am really angry and don't even want my own life, and I don't think about who else is around, but then again, the future of the child is still very long, and parents should take the child into account when doing anything.
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First of all, the quarrel between husband and wife in front of the child will affect the growth of the child and cause psychological shadow to the child; Secondly, it is very dangerous for couples to leave their children on the side of the road, the children may be scratched by cars, and even a careless child may be taken away by criminals, and the consequences will be unimaginable. Therefore, this kind of parents are irresponsible, only care about their own selfish desires, and do not consider the safety of their children at all, which is enough to show the selfishness and dereliction of duty of parents.
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Unqualified, this practice is too irresponsible, and it is very likely to bring a lot of harm to the child.
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Personally, I feel that it is not qualified. I put the child on the side of the road because of the quarrel, and I didn't realize how dangerous it was, which shows that I didn't think about the child, otherwise I would grab the child's hand and not let go if I got angry. Or they won't choose to quarrel on the road at all.
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I think that if you are not qualified, quarrels should be divided into occasions, and the child's self-protection ability is weak, and if the parents ignore the child because of this, it is very likely to cause unnecessary harm to the child.
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Unqualified, they are more like children than adults. As a parent, since you have given birth to your child, you have to be responsible for them. If you can't be accountable to them, you don't deserve to be a parent.
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Unqualified, quarrel is quarrel, but you can't joke about the child's life safety, if you want to vent, you can take the child home, and the husband and wife will quarrel enough.
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I think it's unqualified, parents can quarrel, but they can't quarrel in front of their children, let alone leave them alone.
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Such parents are unqualified, because they are irresponsible to their children by venturing their anger on their children.
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Thinking of an old couple and wife around her, every time they quarreled, the woman always asked her mother to intervene. The man must have found it annoying, and even those of us who were watching it felt inappropriate. The big and small things between husband and wife are all problems between the two, and the parents are not able to solve these problems, and at such an old age, the woman always tells her mother about the conflicts between herself and her husband, and always asks her mother, as a mother-in-law, to teach her son-in-law.
If the son-in-law has a good temper, he will pretend to listen to it, if he has a bad temper, he will not only feel that his wife is very annoyed, but also feel that his wife will go back to her parents' house to complain whenever something happens, and he will feel that he will be very angry at the same time as he feels faceless, which is not conducive to the resolution of the matter.
The husband and wife have not been married for a long time, and the relationship is still in the run-in period, and there is no need for parents to intervene.
Marriage is not the same as love, when it comes to tea, rice, oil and salt, two people get along day and night, there will definitely be some contradictions in the spring, and quarrels will inevitably arise after intensification. Usually couples need to communicate more when they encounter problems, and don't use quarrels to solve them, because quarrels make each other uncomfortable, and quarrels are not the goal.
As a parent, the child is married as an adult, and it is necessary to believe that the young couple can handle all kinds of things, although the parents will be worried, but it is very inappropriate to intervene in the affairs of the two people.
Because they are not parties and do not understand the development and details of the matter, as the person who poured out Qifeng's lawsuit, they may not be able to confide in a fair statement, and it is difficult to judge who is right and who is wrong, or let the young couple solve it by themselves.
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Friend: We don't live in a vacuum, real life is complicated, even loving couples can't keep the same pace anytime and anywhere, so if there are different opinions and opinions on the understanding or handling of some things, quarrels are inevitable. The parents' incompatible personalities lead to frequent conflicts and quarrels, which is the most troublesome thing for children; There are relatives on both sides, but not on the other side, which makes it really difficult for the children; As a child, for the sake of himself and for the sake of this family, he should persuade his parents well; It is recommended that you find a time to talk to your father and mother separately to understand the reason for their quarrel, and then sit down with them, so that they can have something to say. At the same time, tell me your own opinion:
Seeing my parents like this, my heart hurts very much, I hope that my parents' life is happy, and I hope that our home can still be as warm as before, so that I can work (study) with peace of mind; Mom and Dad, can you take care of your child's feelings? "Parents love their children, and after listening to your reasonable advice, they should calm down and think about it, for the sake of the children they love together, they are likely to gradually get along with Lingze.
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Quarrels between husband and wife are inevitable and a small episode in daily life! As children, we should do our best to persuade and avoid more serious conflicts!
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