I haven t found a partner at the age of 40, I m afraid of being lonely and old, and I feel hopeless

Love is a wonderful feeling unique to human beings, and with the interpretation of books and film and television works, everyone yearns for it. You said that you haven't been in love at the age of 40, and you will indeed feel very sad, lonely and helpless, and there are many, many regrets.

There will always be regrets in life, not here, just there. People will always be rewarded where they put in the most time. If you put a lot of energy into work, you may neglect your family and miss your children's growth; If you devote your body and mind to caring for your family and accompanying your children's growth, you may lose the opportunity to be promoted.

Love is a very wonderful thing, it makes every ordinary person, in the eyes of the other half of the people, become a perfect and unique existence, enjoy one-to-one VIP service. The brain is in dopamine.

Under the action of endorphins and other hormones, you will feel extraordinarily happy, the sky is blue, the wind is sweet, and you are full of hope for the future.

It is a pity that the effect of this hormone lasts for a maximum of six months to three years, and in the best case, love often turns into a family-like trust and brotherly affection. Not having a fleeting love is indeed a pity, but it is not the biggest regret in life. There are many valuable experiences in life that can enrich our lives.

For example, an enviable job, like-minded friends, helping to support others, contributing to society, and so on.

Age is not an obstacle and we can start again at any time. With the improvement of people's living conditions, fitness and maintenance will make everyone generally look younger and healthier than their actual age, and age is no longer a reason to hinder our progress, like Zhong Liti.

Yi Nengjing is 50+ and can still have love. You can try to open up your social circle and participate in more group activities, such as hiking, running, skiing, and blind dates. In addition to enriching your life, you can also meet more people, or learn some methods and skills to interact with people, I believe that there will be men in this world who are as eager for love as you are, looking forward to meeting you.

Choose to fall in love with yourself and live your life peacefully and completely. If you still can't find your soul mate in the end.

It is also a good choice to get along with yourself peacefully and live a fulfilling life. Compared to struggling in a bad marriage, facing the trivialities and pressures of life, the cold violence of the partner.

Deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and educate the rebellious period.

children, a high-quality single life seems to be a better option. Yang Jiang.

Mr. said that the world is ultimately its own and has nothing to do with others. The person who gets along with us the most is ourselves, so loving ourselves and living a peaceful and complete life is also one of the life topics that we need to cultivate.

Find out your own advantages, go on blind dates many times, highlight the value you can bring to the other party, make the other party feel that you are a trustworthy person, and at the same time you have to lower your standards and find someone with good character, the same three views, and someone who can talk.

40 years old is not particularly old, you can go out to travel, write a wish list by yourself, and then slowly realize these wishes to make your life more fulfilling.

Adjust your mentality, don't put too much pressure on yourself, go out to socialize more, make more friends, so that you can slowly find a suitable partner for yourself.

Hug you, I can understand you, but you know what? Not feeling in love may be your only regret so far, but I believe that the other things you have are also the most cherished treasures you have in the past 40 years. Let's not deny ourselves in generalizations because of the trivial matter of falling in love, is it okay to use adjectives like "very pathetic" and "can't live"?

You are very afraid that you will die alone, you are afraid and full of worries about loneliness, this is the psychological state that all people will exist, you are not alone will have this feeling, and "loneliness" is really that terrible? What did it do to you? Is there no one to talk to, no one to listen to, and no one to rely on when difficulties come?

Is it digging sails? What I want to tell you is that loneliness is the norm, even if you have a partner and a partner. What's even more terrifying is that "the subject still has nothing to say when they are around", and they are still lonely and helpless.

This is the dilemma faced by most of the sisters who have a partner and family in their 40+ at present, and they cannot break free from the responsibility and pressure they are carrying. So congratulations, you are lucky that you don't have and don't need to face this situation, you still have time to control and adjust, and your future is still promising. For you who feel that life is hopeless because of this, I hope you can look out

How do the 40+ excellent sisters who are still single stay optimistic and live? Feelings and love are not the whole of life, loneliness does exist for everyone, and eventually we will face the gradual departure of relatives and friends, return to dust, so when that day comes, how should we face it? Is it to continue our own life of judgment and hail no more?

I am Wenhuo, and the world and I are with you.