The mood for a person has all become painful, painful when I miss it, and painful when I don t want

Updated on psychology 2024-08-09
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Hello: It looks like you're out of love. Probably most people will experience such a thing, it's okay, I want to open it.

    In the beginning, you can stipulate how long you can think about him each day, and then slowly shorten the time, so that you will use the time to dilute your feelings for him.

    When I first separated, I definitely felt this way, and I also had it, thinking about it every day, and crying when I thought about it. Later I let go, no big deal. The reason for your pain right now may simply be why he let you go.

    You are obsessed and do not want to give yourself a chance to be free. What you need to do now is to enrich yourself well, make yourself better, and make you regret leaving you.

    Since we are separated, we must learn to separate, not to say that it is painful or anything, and whoever does not have it will live well. Don't say who you resent either. After all, you've had times of joy. Even if they are separated, they do not have to be enemies.

    May you be free from your pain soon. good luckļ¼

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    This is unrequited love, and I tell you a temporary remedy, go drinking, get drunk, and go to sleep. When you wake up, you feel a little more relaxed. In the future, as long as you think about it, go to drink and go to bed. It won't be long before you'll forget. Hope it helps.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    There are two kinds of painful **: one is that you can't let go, this is true love, love a person goes deep into the bone marrow, in this case, what can be redeemed should be tried to be redeemed, if it can't be recovered, then try to divert attention, such as traveling, let the beauty dilute everything; The other is that I can't see it, I feel that I have paid so much, but in the end I didn't get anything, I have a lot of unwillingness and grievances in my heart, and if I can't vent, it will become an internal injury, so sometimes everything is just fate, maybe this person is really not suitable for you. There is a saying that setbacks are the experience of taking off.

    Believe that everything is the best arrangement.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You should change the environment or hang out with friends more often, travel, and relax. Focus your attention on other people. If it is already painful, then it proves that you have been wrong, and since it is wrong, you must correct it.

    No matter how painful it is, there will always be an end to it one day.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    At this time, all your attention is shifted to other things, and you continue to remind yourself of psychological hints, and the feelings of this person should be considered a deep memory, but whether you like it or not get the masochistic psychology, it is different for everyone.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You're trapping yourself, maybe it's because you like it so much that it's so painful right now. Relax and try to forget about him. If you really can't, you can also work hard and let yourself not have time to think... Come on.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I don't think this is like, you have to find a way to divert your attention, such as developing with another boy or girl who is more suitable for you. True love makes people positive and fearless.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The main thing is that you pay too much attention to this person! And the past with this person! There is no good advice, because it is a matter of your own will, mind, and character itself! If you want to do it, you must have the courage to face it, and face the future and contact new things and people! Live your life to the fullest!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Put your energy into work, keep yourself busy, the busier the better, don't give yourself the opportunity to think cranky, it'll be fine after a while, time is the best healing medicine.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This should be love and hate, I also came here like this, it is best to go with the flow, you can go out to travel and relax, or you can meet a few friends.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Count, it's not that simple to change, it's better to try to do something else, running or something like that (it's best to run while listening to a song), so that you can see more clearly, you can try.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you are a man: leave her a special place in your heart, she has turned into your blood and you will never lose her!

    If you are a woman: learn to love yourself and believe that he loves you! If he doesn't love you, I want you to forget about him!

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It may be that there is just unwillingness, and forgetting is the best way to solve the pain.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Go out for a walk, find a close friend to confide in the secrets of your heart, release yourself, and don't suppress yourself too much.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I must like it, but if it's really painful, it's better to feel like it's going to take action, and if you keep holding it back, you'll see things you don't want.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You are too devoted, the so-called love is deep, hurt deeply, and you can't help but do something appropriate to enrich yourself, emptiness and loneliness often make you think about being alone.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    That means that your feelings for him are tired, and it is no longer what you want, don't be so tired anymore, that is not good for everyone, isn't it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I also hope someone can help me with this question. But so what, since you can't face it, you can run away, if you can't escape it, you can face it calmly, there are still many shining points in life, time is the best medicine, this friend who has never met, let's face it calmly.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It should be said that you like it.,I guess you're the extreme of love.,Does the person you like have a boyfriend (girl)? Please let me know so I can analyze better.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I want to die of a tangled feeling. I don't want to see it, I don't love it. The best way to solve it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If the first distress is normal, it means that you still have feelings, the second distress means that you are sentimental, the third distress indicates that you are emotional, and the fourth distress indicates that you have pneumonia.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Go with the flow, what's yours is yours, smile more every day, forget what was unhappy before, and remember what was happy

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Liking shouldn't be just pain, finding something else to distract should be better.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you're happy, you'll laugh, and if you're unhappy, you'll laugh. The pain is because of love, and love is chased.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Love is deep, he is not with you or she is unhappy.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I subjectively think that you just can't get along with yourself, think about it from a different angle. There will be a different discovery.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If he didn't have this pain, he would be a stranger, would you?

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There is no way but to use time to erase this trauma, there is no good medicine.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Missing and not being able to see is an absolute pain!

    That kind of torment is not something that ordinary people can experience! Inexplicably worried because of longing, let yourself be cranky, and even worry about whether he (he) will have an accident when crossing the road......!I knew it wouldn't, but I couldn't help but think about it! That's love!

    Missing and not being able to see is the most serious torture in the heart!

    I don't know the spicy taste of drinking, I don't know if anyone has ever experienced it, I hold my mobile phone tightly in my hand, as long as there is a sound on my phone, I will be frightened, and I am afraid of missing any message she (him) sent. Sleep is never deep, you will wake up at any time, and then you will never be able to sleep again! That kind of torture is worse than death!

    Thinking and not being able to see it will make a person completely decadent.

    No matter day or night, there is only one person's shadow in his head, and there is no way to be interested in anyone or anything other than this shadow. My own job and career have been completely wasted! Lovesickness .......

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The degree of pain in missing a person is determined by the depth of his feelings. At the same time, this pain is also necessary for his feelings. Otherwise, he could have avoided this pain in the same way that he avoided fire and water.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There is a feeling called longing. I thought I already knew what it meant to miss, and this feeling turned over in my heart. I thought it was completely clear, and when I wanted to describe the taste, I found that I couldn't describe it when I opened my mouth.

    This kind of emotion, the heart can be understood but it is difficult to say, and a hundred kinds of people have a hundred tastes.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The degree of pain varies, it depends on how deep you love, the depth of love is the pain of the pain, until the feeling of heartache. I hope you can adjust yourself and come out as soon as possible to devote yourself to study and work. So that you can cheer up and live happily.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Keep yourself busy. I don't have time to think about him. When I work, I work hard, and I chat with friends and go out to play in my personal time.

    Or do something else. When you still can't control thinking about him, send your thoughts as a text message to your best friend, and send it to him. This is the advice given by psychologists.

    It's better not to meet him. lest your hard-won efforts be in vain. After a long time, the wound healed, and I didn't think so much.

    It would be easier if there was someone suitable to replace him. With that person, you won't think much about him.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I once experienced the beauty that comes from missing, a very warm beauty, a beauty that immerses people's hearts and lungs, and a beauty that I can't escape. I have also experienced the pain that comes from longing, an unforgettable pain, a pain that makes you want to stop, and a heart-rending pain. I want to see but I can't see it, so it's painful, or it's possible that it's because of the loneliness and emptiness in my heart, which leads to pain in my heart, and I can find something to do and relax myself.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I felt that there was someone I could miss, and I used to feel pain, but when there was no one to miss, I realized how happy it is to miss! When it is painful, it is because of longing and fruitlessness, and it is mostly a state of unrequited love; If the other party is also missing you, it may be that they can't be together for a while for various reasons, but if the reason is solved, there will be nothing; If the other person ignores your thoughts, you will be sad, but there will always be an end, because time is the best healing medicine.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If it's just a simple thought, it won't be very bitter.

    Most of the time you feel painful because you miss someone because there are too many uncertainties between you, for example, your relationship is not strong enough, you are afraid that separation will make your relationship weaker, or because you are suspicious and afraid that he will betray you.

    If two people who love each other are not together for a while, the most important thing is to trust each other and not think too much. When you think about him, remember the happy things together, think about the scene when you meet, think that he is by your side, and then wait for him to come back with peace of mind, which is actually a very happy thing.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If you really want to fall in love with someone, then you know what kind of pain it is to miss someone!! It is a kind of sweet pain, some sweet but some bitter, if it is someone who loves each other, then missing is more often a sweet bitter feast, if it is a lover who cannot hug each other, then missing brings more bitterness, sadness, and that faint sweetness.

    When you have truly loved, then your own experience will be more real and relevant

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Hello landlord! The Maple Wither team will be happy to answer your questions!

    Friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't understand your sincerity to him;

    If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!

    Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.

    If they don't love to infiltrate you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

    People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!

    Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and Cong Liang is not something that can be decided by any one person; Therefore, love is not absolutely eternal for anyone, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!

    The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is to be walked through, to be experienced, we must understand; I'm lucky; Lost, my life; Calmly pass and negotiate acceptance;

    Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... can truly have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and can accommodate a smile covered with dust and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...

    May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!

    I sincerely wish you all the best! Good luck! Career success! Happiness and joy!

    I hope mine satisfies you! Thank you!!!

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