Want someone to know that it s so painful?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-15
5 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I also want to be alone, and sometimes I can't sleep at night because of heartache! We are best friends and know everything! Because we've been together since kindergarten and know about high school!

    There is so much friendship between us that it can develop into family affection, but it can't become love! I miss her, but I know life goes on! In fact, you are like this, and it is yourself who suffers!

    He doesn't know what you're suffering, and he probably doesn't want to know. Because he has someone he likes, I think you made the right decision in the first place, because you are both too young to know and not very clear! But now he probably knows, it's not you who is looking for you, and then you're sad!

    You said that you have been in love with him for five years, I think there should be some unwillingness! You will think that if you were together, then you can still be together now, but I think not! We will all come into contact with a lot of people, we can see the good in many people, and we can't always think about the past!

    We should watch later! You don't have to keep thinking about the past and thinking about him! He's good in your eyes, but there's no one better than him, you should come out!

    Why bother with yourself! If I were to judge you, I would say, you are too hypocritical! Whoever you show it like this, whoever sees it!

    Aren't you worrying about the people who care about you? Why bother!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Because you are willing to suffer, that's why you want to.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Some things are really powerless, that is, we can't do anything about our feelings, maybe this person hurts us very deeply, but we still miss him, maybe this person no longer misses us, but we are still stupid to put him in our hearts, and we may have thought of thousands of ways to persuade ourselves, tell ourselves, don't fall in love with this person anymore, but sometimes there is really no way to take yourself, because some feelings once you are deeply trapped, you really can't extricate yourself, It's like the never-ending sound of the sea, always ringing in your ears. So when you think of this person, you think that you have completely let go, but you know that you are wrong, because you still have heartache when you think of him, and sometimes this kind of pain will make you feel that you can't breathe, maybe the person you love deeply has long been not caring about you, but you are still stuck in that rainy season. That moment when I miss him, waiting for the spring of love that can never be waited for!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I felt that there was someone I could miss, and I used to feel pain, but when there was no one to miss, I realized how happy it is to miss! When it is painful, it is because of longing and fruitlessness, and it is mostly a state of unrequited love; If the other party is also missing you, it may be that they can't be together for a while for various reasons, but if the reason is solved, there will be nothing; If the other person ignores your thoughts, you will be sad, but there will always be an end, because time is the best healing medicine.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If it's just a simple thought, it won't be very bitter.

    Most of the time you feel painful because you miss someone because there are too many uncertainties between you, for example, your relationship is not strong enough, you are afraid that separation will make your relationship weaker, or because you are suspicious and afraid that he will betray you.

    If two people who love each other are not together for a while, the most important thing is to trust each other and not think too much. When you think about him, remember the happy things together, think about the scene when you meet, think that he is by your side, and then wait for him to come back with peace of mind, which is actually a very happy thing.

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