How do I turn back, and should I turn back?

In fact, you can think about it from another angle, since this is the path you have chosen, don't think about it when you look back, and think about how you should go down next. Actually, I can understand your situation. I had just graduated from university, and I didn't agree to many jobs my family had given me.

I have to come to Xi'an to break through, but after I came, it was not as simple as I thought. It's true that I regretted it at first, but it didn't work, so I might as well try hard for it. Now that the house has been bought, although the car is not good, the days have come slowly after all, and now I have obtained a bachelor's degree and am ready to take the postgraduate entrance examination.

In fact, many times, life forces us to keep walking, and you can't help but regret it. Personally, I think that now you should study down the secondary school, learn more other knowledge in addition to learning, and if you feel that your education is low, you can choose to continue to take the exam. But the point is that you have to put in the effort.

The reason why you are confused now is that you are not sure whether you can go down your path or not, and whether it is wrong to go on. Actually, it's not necessary, a lot of roads require you to be patient, do you? One of my teachers once said that choosing the same position and persisting for 7 years will definitely make a difference.

Now you have to ask yourself, can you? Can you persevere and work hard for it? (It's all my own fight, it doesn't matter, I've been in such a situation, I just want to give you a reminder as someone who came over.)

Be serious and cheer up! Don't be depressed all day! Okay?! ）

What is the secondary school for unified recruitment? Can't I take the junior college entrance exam? I am also a secondary school student, the school class with good grades can be admitted to the junior college, besides, since you have read the technical secondary school and what way, you can not let you go to high school no matter how depressed you are, it is better to try your best to be a better secondary school student, the same is a secondary school graduate, you do other people are more excellent, I went out to work when I graduated from junior high school, and then came back to study secondary school, I am very lucky, I feel very lucky, many of my classmates graduated from junior high school and do not read, I and their fate is much worse, at least I am not the worst, My life is also very good now, the curriculum of the technical secondary school is very simple, I actively participate in activities in my spare time, I work in the school after class, work outside on weekends, and the salary is more than 1,000 yuan a month, and the days ahead are still very long, not that there is no future after studying the technical secondary school, not that there is a future after studying the university, the road to the university is brighter, life is very dramatic, try to learn more knowledge, and go to take a diploma by yourself, which will not be worse than others.

Some things may not give you a chance to turn back, not to mention that you have given up so many opportunities, but since you have come to this point, you can first ask the teacher if you can take the college entrance examination, you really can't, so go down this road, three hundred and sixty lines, the line is the champion, cheer yourself, you don't have to prove yourself through the ordinary high school examination.

I only know after what happened, if I can discuss it with my family, I will start over.

Summary. Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you, for the situation you described, first of all, the teacher can feel that we have experienced a lot of beautiful stories, life is like this, there are many things that can only stride forward, we can reply to him like this: the past is not to blame, the past is with the wind.

You can look back, but you must not go back.

Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you, for the situation you described, first of all, the teacher can feel that we have experienced a lot of beautiful stories, life is like this, there are many things that can only stride forward, we can reply to him like this: the past is not to blame, the past is with the wind. You can look back, but you must not go back.

Ingredients: 500 grams of flour and one egg.

300 grams of beef and 3 green onions.

Adjuncts: beef meal, salt.

Pepper soy sauce.

Oyster sauce blends oils.

Shenyang turns back to the practice steps.

1.Adjust the stuffing first:

Soak the beef and rinse well.

2.Chop into meat puree and put it in the feeder.

3.Slowly add water to make it very soft, no need to whip it hard.

4.Put some beef powder first to increase the freshness.

5.Add salt and pepper.

6.Add the soy sauce and oyster sauce and stir well.

7.Add an appropriate amount of oil and mix well.

8.Peel and wash the green onions.

9.Rub into thin wires with a eraser.

10.Squeeze out the water slightly and place in a large bowl.

11.Add the blended oil and mix well to prevent water from coming out.

12.Add the shallots to the ground beef and mix well.

13.Here's the pancake:

Put the flour in a bowl and beat in an egg.

14.Add water and a pinch of salt to make the dough, cover and let it ferment for 30-60 minutes, kneading it two or three times in between.

15.Knead the dough well, knead it into long strips, put it into small doses, and press it flat.

16.Take a small amount and roll it out into long strip dough sheets.

17.Put the filling in the middle and leave the sides blank.

18.Fold the top and bottom sides of the dough sheet in half to wrap the filling.

19.Then fold the left and right in half, press tightly, and turn around and wrap it.

20.Heat oil in a frying pan and place the green beware in the pan.

21.Fry on both sides repeatedly, and then turn around and puff up.

Tip 1I usually mix the noodles first, and then put them aside after the noodles are reconciled, and the time for the noodles is used to make the filling.

2.The dough should be softer, and if you knead it two or three times in the process of making the dough, the dough will be faster and better, but if it is in the middle of the dough, you can't touch it.

3.The meat filling of the pie does not need to be whipped, but it also needs to be constantly added to make the beef filling tender, you can add it several times, put less at first, put some after the beef is inhaled, and so on until the beef filling becomes very tender.

4.It's easy and quick to rub green onions with a rubbing board, but it's also spicy to the eyes. The secret to avoiding spicy tears is to take a sip of cold water in your mouth.

5.There is a lot of green onion juice, mix some blending oil in advance, and it can effectively avoid the situation of water.

I understand, it is difficult to achieve both love and filial piety!

First of all, I will send you a poem. "Gift to the Neighbor Girl" is a fish mystery.

Cover your sleeves in shame, and make up lazy in spring. [Easy to ask for priceless treasures, rare to have a lover. Tears are lurking on the pillow, and the intestines are broken between the flowers. I can peek at Song Yu, why hate Wang Chang.

If he cherishes you too, then there is a solution to this matter, and there is no need to worry. It's too hard to find someone to love each other.

Secondly, [pity the hearts of parents in the world] It is human nature for you to think about your family, but it does not mean that it cannot be solved. Trust our own country, a vaccine is already in the pipeline. Sooner or later, the epidemic will pass. Our country will lead us to win this battle and break out of the encirclement.

Thirdly, only when your children have developed well, will you have the financial resources to repay your parents? Isn't that so?

Summary: You can go over first, 1. See if you can also find a suitable job in Jilin? 2. See if you can get along in reality and live in harmony? 3. See how he responds to your matter and handles it together?

Find out the core problem, ask a nurse to take care of your parents in the future, or take your parents to live in the past after development, or accumulate the original capital to go home to start a business in the future, or make money to buy a façade in your hometown in Shandong to support the elderly. It's all possible.

So, these parental problems that you face, he will also have to face. This is something that husband and wife should deal with together, since they love each other, they must communicate and negotiate a result together. If both parties are satisfied after negotiation, they can get married.

Not the other way around. Why should you face it on your own?

Okay, I'm afraid you'll mess around again. Where to go, this is a major event in your life, and it is inconvenient to say much as an outsider. I hope you find this answer helpful and inspiring, and I wish you all the best to this girl who asked the question.

Guang Lao's point of view: whether it is a man or a woman, the person who can accompany him to the end of his life is not his parents or his children, but his partner. This is something that everyone has to do, and there is almost no room for negotiation!

There is a kind of filial piety called foolish filial piety, that is, staying by the side of parents and doing filial piety for life. As everyone knows, it is not what parents need at all, when they come to the end of their lives, when they see their unmarried children, they will hate Jiuquan, regret their lives, and pass away with endless worries. And when you get married and have children, even if their children are not planted at the end of their lives, they will leave happily and pass away without any worries, they no longer have to worry about their graves being cut off in 50 years, and their children will live well with their own abilities, and they will often look at their parents and honor their parents when they have more than enough strength, which is the greatest filial piety to their parents, the real filial piety.

If you are only good to your parents, but you can't arrange your own life, it is a kind of false filial piety!

Let's not think that parents like us by their side, in fact, married life is always exclusive, they don't want anyone to bother, whether you are his parents or their children, they want them to have their own world of husband and wife, this is true for newlyweds, and the same is true for 60 years of diamond marriage. You think you're taking care of their lives, while they may think you're disturbing their normal marital life and ruining their relationship. When they really need your care, they will bring it up to you in person, and if they don't, then try to do your own thing!

Every question of Guang Lao is serious and objective, taking you to see the essence of the problem, I hope you can, yours is the affirmation and encouragement of Guang Lao. Thank you!

Is the sense of need a source of contradiction? In a word, look back?

Since you love him so much, if he is also very good to you, it is better to consider overcoming difficulties together in the future to be together.

I think that if you all really love each other, all the problems are not problems, you can solve them together slowly, who knows what life will be like in the future, if you break up, there will be nothing, don't let yourself regret it.

Anyway, let's get back together first, the man is honest, and the annual salary is not bad, it's okay.

How do you keep your ex coming back? This passage is sent to the ex to make him regret leaving you (a must see for women).

And I seem to be but I confessed == so、、

If you don't have a positive answer in your heart, if you don't have a very firm determination, you won't turn back, and no matter how you ask others for help, how you let others take care of you, you won't look back.

If you want to turn back and never participate in gambling again, then you must thoroughly understand the harm of gambling from your heart, so that you will establish perseverance and grit your teeth to stay away from gambling.

A person who has no determination and perseverance, others will not be able to help you, on the contrary, if you have your own determination, once you have perseverance, you don't need to ask others, others don't help at all, you can do it.

There is no good way to help you, but there is one thing that you must keep in mind, and that is that you must be diligent in reflection, you must respect yourself, and you must know what remorse is, so that you may be able to turn back.

Life is very short, while it is still too late, hurry back, the prodigal son will not change his money, keep going like this, keep being wasted like this, you will sooner or later destroy yourself, ruin your family, and ruin your short life, remember to remember, turn back quickly.

Let's start by accepting who you are.

Remorse often becomes the motivation for de-du.

Accept your present self, forgive your past self, and start your day. It's better to start over as if you have lost your memory.

Of course, if the consciousness is already out of control, I recommend seeing a psychiatrist.

Find out what is the inner cause of your du, or some knot.

Du disciples have their own logic and psychology, change your thinking, change your usual logical thinking, don't think about the small to the big.

Don't think that you have superpowers over others.

Forget the sweetness when you win, see or hear that others have won, and think about it, they will eventually lose.

Just ask if you are determined? Do you have the determination to chop your hands, and do you have the determination to go under the knife when your hands are itchy? If not, to be honest, don't hurt your mother, and fend for yourself. If there is, you can still be saved, and hurry up and settle down a little before your hand is chopped off.

First of all, the mentality should be flat, no matter how small the mosquito legs are, it is meat, and a monthly salary of several thousand is also money, you have to learn to accept the reality, don't think about how much salary I can have at once, that's impossible, find a way to slowly improve yourself, and then increase your salary, don't buy unnecessary expenses, analyze yourself, come on.

Ten gambles and nine losses, turning back is the shore; Now it's only 90,000, you are still so young, and the family will only pay it back in a year or two if you are lucky. Now a courier or food delivery in a big city can have a salary of thousands. Save 10,000 yuan a year for the food festival.

It depends on whether you have the heart and whether you can endure hardships or not, and it is very important to learn to restrain yourself.