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I hope you can take a step back to look at the problem no matter what happens, if you always think of yourself as the protagonist of this story, I think you will never be able to see the essence of the matter, and you will never see the solution to the problem, the authorities are confused, the bystanders are clear, if you can take a break from your story and sit in the audience to watch your own story, I think you will be able to understand more things! You must also know what you should do now.
In fact, love is a kind of fate that does not clean up more chaotic, in your own love, only you know the ins and outs of things best, other people's answers can only be used as a reference for you, the final decision is still your own decision, you must not take other people's answers as the standard for solving your own problems, because who will know your own things better than you? You choose to go into love, that is, you also choose the ups and downs of love, there may be a day of breakup, since we choose a process from the beginning to the end, then, we have to face the process of love, separation is not a difficult thing to face, because two people are together for happiness, if separation is to give each other more space to find their own happiness, then what do we have to be sad? Happy is a day, unhappy is also a day, we don't have the courage to escape from this world, we still need to live every day, so since we choose to live, then why not live every day?
How about making yourself happy every day? When you don't plan to love someone else sincerely, please love yourself well! Think about it, how much have you loved yourself?
Isn't it? With a calm mind to face all the things happening around you, you will find a way to live in peace!
Have fun!
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If you still love him, go back! I want to ask what era it is, is it in vain for your parents to use money to give you education and make you a modern person? She's drinking too much and calling your name, think about it yourself.
I'm also a man, I understand your feelings, let it go. It's been a few years of affection, and you can really let go. True love is hard to come by.
Other people's answers are just for your reference, and how to do it is your own, mother-in-law says mother-in-law is reasonable, daughter-in-law says daughter-in-law is reasonable, do you understand? Feelings are different? Is it your psychological effect or is your so-called self-esteem at work?
Do it yourself, whether it's divided or not, it's fair to you and her to solve it quickly. There is no regret medicine in the world, think about it carefully. I wish you both a good solution.
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Come back to her!! Can you ask this question, in fact, you still love her in your heart, who is not wrong? Sometimes the mistake is a thought, she will tell you the truth is really not easy, this is enough to show that she is sincere to you, I admire her courage, I believe that she is a good girl, really!
Don't let each other have regrets!! If you love her, bear with her once!
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Can't go back, since she likes you, why still betray you, she caused herself, don't look back!
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If you love her, go back to her.
Don't regret it for the rest of your life, if she's alone now, you should.
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Don't look back, as the saying goes: "One day of disloyalty, one life of disloyalty".
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I agree with what was said upstairs, give her a chance, I believe she was confused for a while, lost herself for a while, and seriously, maybe she was moved by that person to be like this, in fact, she still loves you very much, go back to her.
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If you still love her, then forget the past, give her a chance, and give yourself a chance.
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You should still love her, he must have a reason, she still loves you after all, you should forgive him, she is right. You say I'm right, no.
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Why not?
You also say that you love her very much.
Moreover, she loves you so much!
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I can't understand people like you, but if it were me, I wouldn't have done something like that, and I can't forgive.
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Fuck it, there's not a good thing for women.
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Men do not tolerate betrayal.
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For a person, behind what he or she says carries the experiences and character traits of the Rubber Chain life. In order to preserve their dignity and authority, some people may announce their decisions in a high-profile manner to avoid being seen as hesitant and weak. But this high-profile may only be a superficial phenomenon to guard against outsiders.
In fact, in daily life, we often encounter things that we say we can't do, and then we still change our minds, completely changing our original attitude.
In addition, human emotions and psychological changes are complex. In many cases, the sudden occurrence of certain factors or events, or unpredictable changes, will cause those who thought they had made a clear decision to rethink and think about whether the decision was made in the first place. So, for a person who says he or she will never look back, we can't believe that he or she really won't look back.
Overall, life is a process full of uncertainties and uncertainties, and we need to always be open and rational in order to cope with the challenges and changes that life brings.
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Not necessarily, in fact, people are quite fickle, and when they encounter certain things, they may change. So if this person is very important, and you don't want to lose her, then I think you can hold on and move her state letter, maybe there will be a gain, but if it takes a certain amount of time, and there is still no turning back, then give up, maybe there is no going back.
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There is no one easy answer to this question, as everyone has different life experiences and inner states. Some people say that they will not turn back, and they will indeed unswervingly move forward; But there are also those who may change their minds after a change of circumstances or an inner awakening and eventually choose to start over.
Human decision-making and behavior are often influenced by a variety of factors, including their own thoughts, interpersonal relationships, environment, and unexpected events. Therefore, even if a person "says that there will be no turning back", it cannot be ruled out that they will make different decisions in the future. Changes in human hearts and behaviors are very common and normal, so we should not limit ourselves or others too much.
However, regardless of whether a person eventually turns back or not, we should respect and support their decision, and provide them with the necessary help and support so that they can face the challenges and changes ahead.
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It depends on the situation, isn't there a saying that is good, good horses don't eat back grass, good grass is not afraid to go back and eat.
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Not necessarily, whether it is a good horse that does not eat back grass or love each other, it can always be reconciled, I feel that the former and the latter have to be reasonable, depending on their own situation.
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It depends on how much you hurt him.
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There are always people with knife mouths and tofu hearts.
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Life is a long road, how to deal with yourself? You can look back along the way, but you can't look back, honestly!
Life needs to look back from time to time. Looking back at the road we have walked, summing up experience, so that the hoof is steady, and then produce new results, and create new brilliance. Learn lessons, always remind yourself of the detours you have taken, the failures and setbacks you have experienced, so as not to repeat the mistakes of the past, and avoid the potholes on the road of life in time.
No matter how far we go, we can't forget the road we have traveled. Past experience, if not forgotten, is a guide for the future.. No matter what kind of life trajectory and life situation, we should remember to remember.
The reason why people can make continuous progress lies in constantly making periodic summaries. It is not very important for people to make mistakes beyond subjective factors. The key is to analyze the causes of errors in time and find solutions to solve them in time.
It's important to be good at learning and growing from your mistakes. Failure is the mother of success, and learning from mistakes is the best way to gain life lessons.
Historically and in reality, one of the most important characteristics of successful people who can surpass ordinary people is that they are good at analyzing and summing up lessons and lessons from their own failures and setbacks, and constantly improving their cognitive ability and practical level. Practice brings true knowledge and learning through hard work may be more direct and effective.
It is necessary and possible to look back at the past. But turning back is a taboo in life. As the saying goes, a good horse doesn't eat back grass.
Why? What life needs is to move forward and strive to be the first. The last thing you need is sentimentality, always dwelling on the past.
No matter how successful and brilliant the past was, or how failed and helpless, the wisest choice is to wave goodbye to the past.
If you can't let go of the past, you can't get along with yourself. There is a kind of open-mindedness in life, which is called letting go of yourself. Only by reconciling with oneself and accepting everything about oneself can we unload all the burdens and walk the road ahead more smoothly. of the road.
To go back means to go backwards, to heal the scars and forget the pain, and to lose the principles and positions that should be lost. Forge ahead, explore and innovate, and move forward bravely is what life should be, and only then can you break out of the peak state of your life. As soon as they encounter difficulties and obstacles, they give up easily and turn back to follow the path they are familiar with, which is a very conservative and backward state, which is the psychology of a lazy man who has no confidence in himself.
We can look back, we must not go back, and it should become our life. Whether there is a brilliant rainbow ahead, or wind and rain; Whether there are thorns and mud ahead, or flowers and smooth roads; No matter whether the road ahead is smooth or bumpy and rugged, we must face it bravely and unswervingly move on.
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