I ve been dating for a year, and my feelings have faded, and I ve been in love for about a year, and

You don't have feelings of love for her, you're accommodating her, sympathy, not love, but oh I hope you can tell your girlfriend directly, don't drag it out, it's not good for you and it's not good for her.

There is no special way, you can try who you really like, find a place to think about it, when you are the happiest, who you want to share the most, who you want to be the first to tell when you are the most unhappy, who doesn't care when you succeed or fail, but only cares about you, and when you think about it, you will know the answer.

How much will you get tired of a long time, any love has no shelf life, maybe you now feel that you have met a person you like very much, but once you get your hands on it for a long time, you will still have the same idea, this is a matter of responsibility, you can only say that you like the new and hate the old.

Heck, it's best to start with your heart or you'll regret it for the rest of your life!! Twisted melons are not sweet, this is the truth!!

will go through a run-in period and it will be good after a while.

I think this kind of thing is something that only you can think about...

It's divided, long pain is better than short pain.

yes, that's going to take extra care of her.

You need a formal face-to-face conversation, you need both parties to maintain a good attitude, to have this conversation, to help yourself in calm thinking, to find the reason for the change in your relationship, and to make some changes for this reason, you must do such a conversation, it may be that both of you have already felt this way, but have not been able to find a good opportunity to express the doubts in your hearts.

After such a conversation, you need to record all the doubts and doubts of this item, put the solution of a problem on the agenda, you need to be facing a problem to solve it slowly, you should pay attention to this kind of solution process, the important thing is not the solution of the final problem, but the emotional integration of both of you in the process of solving, this is the most important point for you now, don't forget the emotional collision between the two sides, after talking for so long, the collision of soul emotions, It has a very good effect on the re-increase of your feelings.

You also need a trip between you, you need to fully let go of your troubles in life, open your heart, and fully integrate each other's true feelings into your heart, after all, you still have sincere feelings for each other, in the process of traveling, you can fully increase the process of accumulation of some feelings, which requires the two of you to discuss, here is to suggest that you need a trip.

You also have to add more shadows to each other in your daily life, you can cultivate the same hobbies, in the pursuit of this hobby, your joint efforts are a good way to keep your emotions hot, don't look at the composition of hobbies first, this is an effective bridge that can increase the emotional communication between you.

Let's look at it in a few cases.

Maybe you don't have a deep relationship with each other, and the timing of the two sides coming together is just a coincidence, and now that you've been together for a long time, you finally find that the other party is not the one waiting in your heart. So, as time goes on, your relationship will only get worse and worse. In this case, I suggest you separate them.

On the other hand, you may love each other deeply, but both of you have strong personalities and care too much about each other, and you don't know how to accommodate each other, so you often quarrel. And because you are both too young to know how to get along, the relationship slowly fades in the quarrel. In that case, I suggest that you separate for a while to calm down.

After a while, I believe that if you contact each other again, you will definitely find the feeling of love again.

Of course, there's also the case where one of you has a problem. In love, both parties are sensitive, and each other can feel who gives more and who possesses more. Therefore, whether you want to empathize with other lovers, or want to get out of the way, or want to be left and right, the other party should be able to know sensitively.

If you find out that this is the case, don't hesitate to end this unreliable relationship immediately, the other party is just a selfish person and is not worth your effort.

Finally, there is another suggestion, that is, you can try to communicate well with the other half, a relationship requires the joint efforts of both parties, I hope you can face it together, find out the reason, and live happily.

I think it's okay, in fact, when you fall in love, you cherish each other very much at the beginning, and you can't wait to stick to each other every day, but after getting along for a long time, you treat each other as a very close person, and you are very familiar with each other, so you will be less restrained and more casual. Because you have been talking for about a year, in fact, if you feel that the relationship has faded a little bit, it is normal, because you are already his (her) closest person in the eyes of him or her, and it may not seem as good as before on the surface, but in fact, I still care about you very much in my heart, so don't often compare it between now and when I first fell in love, otherwise there will be a big sense of disparity.

But if you feel that the gap between the two of you is very big when you just fell in love, and you don't care about you at the critical moment and stay by your side, then you still have to make it clear to her (him), if she (he) doesn't give a proper explanation, then sober up as soon as possible and let go. After all, instead of being with such a flowery person who doesn't love you anymore and wasting more of your youth, it is better to break with the past year or so, more than a year is not long or short, just buy a lesson, eat a trench, grow a wisdom, live a more wonderful life, don't regret it later. (It is only a personal opinion, and the most important thing is that you should carefully judge whether she (he) still loves you or not).

Finally, I also want to send you a word, companionship is the most affectionate confession.

Falling in love is something that every one of us needs to go through, and each of us needs to grow up in love and make us mature in love. I'm in the middle of a relationship, and the two of us are still in love, not because our relationship won't fade, but because we've survived that period. In every love, as long as you have been together for a long time, it will become very boring and boring, and you feel that you have no feelings for each other.

But when you bring up the breakup, it won't be long before you'll regret each other's mistakes.

In today's society, I would like to say that men and women are very open, and each of them will use their own strengths to attract the attention of the opposite sex. If you attract the opposite sex you like by your own conditions, after the two of you are together, there will be some period of time in the love period, which is not very long, but very short. At first you will be more attached to each other because of some novelty, and at this stage of the relationship, you will go to whatever you do together, and you will both hang out together.

In the same way, you will spend your time with each other.

But if you're past this romantic period, you'll find some reason for each other to do your own thing in your spare time, or in other words, you'll get a little tired of that life. Then you will slowly become lazy and become unaware of each other, but you will still talk to each other on a regular basis. Until you can't drag each other anymore, you will feel no feelings for each other.

In fact, you don't know that it's not as simple as having no feelings, this is a test. If you choose to break up now, you will definitely regret your choice, so what I want to say is that the relationship has faded is not your reason, but there is such a period in love, as long as you both tolerate each other, you can get through this period.

For the relationship, everyone will have some changes in the relationship more or less in different time periods. Some people may begin to deteriorate their feelings in a short period of time and feel that they are this. Grow up first, and some people may not feel like this for a long time together.

Although it is normal for the time period between two people to fade, it is not possible to separate two people for this reason.

is the so-called seven-year itch, in fact, sooner or later two people will have conflicts together. As I often say to my girlfriend, it's normal for two people to quarrel together, after all, two people are not one person at all, and there will definitely be different opinions between two people on an issue, and there may be some conflicts at this time. These are all very normal, and what we need to do is how to solve this phenomenon of weakened feelings at this time.

Since the two of you have chosen to be together, since you will be able to be with this person for a long time, then I believe that the two of you must have a deep emotional foundation. If this is the case, then you must cherish your feelings, and don't suddenly take a vacation from your feelings because you feel that your feelings have faded, which is not right. But when the relationship is weakened, I think it is more worth advocating to try that the two people can continue to communicate more and express the inner thoughts of the two people.

If you find that the relationship between the two of you has weakened, you can also choose to travel appropriately to relax your mind. Maybe the two of them are too familiar with each other because they have been together for a long time. At this time, choosing a proper separation period will often be more beneficial to the relationship between the two of you.