What kind of life do we really want 10

To put it simply, it is a successful and happy life. Success and happiness here are understood separately. In my opinion, success requires your own business, of course, you must have money, a car and a house. But different people define success differently.

The deeper meaning is to find your dreams, to think about what is the value and meaning of living in this world.

My value is small, but I can still help my parents sweep the floor and brush the dishes.

The success I mentioned above is my simple summary, which may be easier said than done.

And the other one is happiness. People can't just have money in this life, because there are successful rich people who don't know what to do all day long.

To give you an example, I am ten poor people. But when I have money, I'm not happy. I eat alone, and when I see a lot of couples, I envy them. Maybe they're happier than I am.

Actually, what I want to say is that happiness is meant to be shared, and the happiness of one person is not as good as the happiness of everyone, although people are selfish.

I hope you understand what I have to say, and finally I hope that you can become successful and happy through your own efforts.

Give yourself some time, even if it's ten or twenty years.

Individual needs are different, and naturally what you want is also different. If you still have time to get lost, prove that you are living a life you don't like.

The ideal life is to lack what you have, status, money, and people you like.

Owning your own house in the countryside doesn't need to be too big, as long as you have three bedrooms facing the sun: one for yourself, one for your parents, and one for your children. The windows should be made large so that in winter, the sunlight can shine all over the room without obstruction.

To have a spacious courtyard, planted with my favorite flowers and plants, but also to plant seasonal vegetables, on the one hand, it is convenient to eat, and fresh, and there is less trouble with those pesticide residues. On the other hand, the joy of labor that cannot be enjoyed elsewhere in one's own one-third of an acre of land, digging for soil, watering, growing vegetables, and sweating.

In this yard, there should be a grape trellis, or a tree with a large crown. In the afternoon, I can pick up a random book, move a recliner, and read lazily. In this yard, there should be a long rope for drying clothes, so that every piece of clothing and every bedding can absorb the smell of the sun.

The yearning of life.

Everyone has a pure land in their hearts, which contains our most authentic yearning for life, whether it is a pastoral life, or a more scientific and technological life, it is just a form, and in the end it depends on whether this kind of life is simple, regular and can bring us pleasant feelings.

Lao Tzu said: "Man is the law of the earth, the earth is the law of the sky, the heaven is the law, and the Tao is the nature." ”

The movement of celestial bodies and the growth of all things have their specific laws, and our lives are naturally the same. With a regular daily life, regular work and rest, no overeating, and timely emptying of the "garbage" on the body and soul, so that we are in a pure and energetic state, maintain the original intention, and have a clear goal, such a lifestyle is easy to feel happy and satisfied.

1. Know what kind of life you want.

If you want to live the life you want, you must know exactly what kind of life you want, and only when you have a clear goal can you be more motivated to pursue your ideals.

2. Have a clear goal and a practical plan.

I have heard a particularly popular saying, success sometimes does not lie in how hard you work, but in the direction you choose, in fact, the direction is more important than the effort, in addition to the right direction, there should also be a practical plan, only in this way can you get closer and closer to the life you want.

3. Have strong perseverance to work hard for your goals.

When you have chosen the right direction in life, the next step is to start working hard, work hard to improve yourself, work hard to make money to achieve your dreams, only when you have strong strength, can it be easier to get the life you want.

4. Dare to overcome all the pressure around you.

People will face a lot of pressure in their lives, from life, work, and even family and friends around them, these pressures will shackle you like shackles, affecting your courage to move forward, this time is the most testing person, you must bravely overcome all the pressure around you, in order to strive to achieve your dreams.

5. Don't lose yourself in a changing world.

The world is colorful, full of opportunities, but also full of traps, sometimes we may be defeated by the comfort in front of us, forget our dreams, sometimes we may lose the motivation to forge ahead in the difficulties, all we can do is to keep a cool head in this changeable world.

6. Be yourself and live for yourself.

Most of our generation carries the hopes of our parents, they want us to be who they want us to be, but we only have one life, and we have to try to convince our parents that they understand and support us to live our lives and live for ourselves.

Every day is the same as the earth, every day is different. Life is like the earth, and it is generally always like this, there are only 24 hours in a day. So have you figured it out? What kind of life do we really want?

Some books say that life is to be born and live, that is, how we live, and some people say that the ideal of life is for the ideal life. To live or to perish, that's the question. It can be said that life needs ideals.

Maybe it's just to live, and to live is a noble ideal. During the years of the Revolutionary War, carrying independence through the meadow on his back. When you are thirsty, you drink a few sips of snow water, eat a few plates of fried noodles, and even swallow your belt when you don't eat it.

To live is to destroy the enemy, and to live is to fulfill one's revolutionary dreams. Suddenly the word dream is used, the ideal may be too distant, but dream is a word that we can come across every day when we sleep. I don't know, but I also have dreams.

When ideals are transformed into dreams, he becomes beautiful and sweet. Today we also have dreams of a strong country. Everyone is a part of this dream.

So we have to believe in ourselves and keep being ourselves until we succeed. Life is like that, always on the road.

Life is sometimes particularly unreliable and out of tune. He's always with the mud, always not so fair, always having a big joke with us. There are tears in the laughter, and there is bitterness in the tears.

Ordinary small days, day by day is different. Life has become a monster that requires us to have three heads and six arms to control it. Let's fight to the exhaustion, look in the mirror, and find that we are almost a monster, tired and staggering, grinning and unkempt.

Some people say that in the end, life is only about running for money. Just like a camel Xiangzi in the scorching sun and torrential rain, pulling the car and running desperately forward, no matter what wind, sun and rain, you must persevere, go forward and go forward. It's not that I'm wrong, this "former" is right.

Whether it's driving, selling clothes, or doing farmhouse business, being a small boss, etc., it seems that there is really nothing else, just to talk to customers, to serve customers, and to earn your own income. But aren't we moving in a better direction for our lives step by step? Money is not a yardstick for society to measure our personal value, it is whether you have worked hard to move forward.

Life is different every day, but it is also full of opportunities and challenges, so how do you deal with it, how do you grasp it, and how do you keep your original intention.

Maybe that's life, living in every moment, living in time, and living in years. Every era has its own tasks and challenges, and we can only rise to the challenge and not retreat.