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The times are different, and this is a thing that has emerged from the development and progress of society. In my opinion, there are several main reasons.
1. Pay attention to children's learning.
Wishing for a son to become a dragon and a daughter to become a phoenix is the common wish of parents, and it has become a consensus that reading and learning can change fate and life. Young mothers begin to pay attention to their children's intellectual development from prenatal education, and pay more attention to the education stage from early childhood to primary school, and pay attention to academic performance. Picking up and dropping off children has become natural and the most important thing in life.
2. Conditional pick-up.
Nowadays, the standard of living in urban and rural areas has generally improved, and every family has modern means of transportation, which is convenient for pick-up and drop-off. With the improvement of the level of mechanization in rural areas, the labor force and labor time can be reduced by half, and there is enough time and energy to pay attention to children's learning and pick up and drop off children. Not only pick-up and drop-off, but also the rise of the atmosphere of accompanying students, from elementary school to high school parents to accompany the whole process of food and accommodation, this phenomenon also appears in universities.
3. Pay attention to children's personal safety.
Now the transportation is convenient, but there are many people in the car and many children going to school, which often brings potential safety hazards. Car collisions, being abducted, getting lost, these things are heard from time to time, and the information is fast, and one thing happens that attracts many people's attention. Most families only have 1 or 2 children, and worrying about the hearts of parents, protecting and taking care of children has become the most worrying and important thing for every parent.
Fourth, the school is serious and responsible for children.
Teachers often remind parents on WeChat to pay attention to the safety of their children. He is also serious and responsible for his children. I didn't know the teacher when I picked up my grandson for the first time, and I called the child's mother**, and I confirmed it on my mobile phone**, and only after I was correct did I take my grandson away, which made me so moved.
In doing so, the school promotes the motivation of parents to pick up and drop off their children.
Fifth, the need to increase knowledge.
Not only regular school pick-up, but also in order to let children learn more knowledge and develop in an all-round way, children are sent to various specialty classes during holidays. Today's children are smart and sensible, which is also related to this learning. Sometimes two children have to be sent to two places to study, and the parents are too busy, and the grandparents are also invited to help, and picking up the children has become the busiest and most important housework in every family.
Sixth, it is necessary to educate children in a timely manner.
Picking up and dropping off children is a good thing, but it also has some negative effects on children. I have seen some children who are still dozens of meters away from their homes or refuse to go upstairs, leaving their parents to carry them. Otherwise, they will cry and become dependent.
Doing so is not conducive to cultivating children into those who can do things by themselves and the cultivation of their ability to endure hardships and stand hard work. Many good behavior habits are developed from an early age and need to be corrected by timely education from parents.
There are a few of the above things that parents in the sixties and seventies simply couldn't do, couldn't do, or didn't think of. The improvement of living standards and the development and change of conditions in all aspects are the most fundamental reasons why picking up and dropping off children has become a common phenomenon.
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Because there were fewer cars at that time, and most of them were studying in their own villages, there were relatively few traffickers, so there was basically no need for people to pick them up. Now there are too many safety hazards, and parents can only pick them up every day.
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Because today's children are kind, pampered, and easy to trust others, and now there are many bad people, and there are trafficker abduction incidents from time to time, so parents attach great importance to it, and it is generally pick-up.
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Because of the simple customs in the 70s, there was no danger for children to go to school by themselves, and now there are some cases of lost children, and some bad guys also arrest children on the street, so now parents have to pick up and drop off their children to school to ensure the safety of their children.
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Because most of the children are more pampered now. In the sixties and seventies, there may have been several children in the family who could not take care of them, but now they are all only children, so they naturally have time to send their children to school.
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Because there are more vehicles on the road now, it is relatively safe.
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Because of the current economic development, there are a lot of vehicles on the street, and there are a lot of ** now, if it is a primary school student alone, it is very unsafe.
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Because the standard of living has improved now, each family has its own car, so for the safety and convenience of the children, they are picked up and dropped off every day.
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Safety, there were not so many cars before, and now parents must be more worried about their children.
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Because there are more vehicles nowadays, it is relatively unsafe for students to go to and from school, so many parents choose to pick up and drop off their children to and from school.
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Maybe it's because children used to be more independent, but now children are not so independent and it's not safe to go home alone.
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In the past, they used to go to school by themselves, but now primary school students need to be picked up, because they used to be safer, and there were not so many cars on the road, and then the children in the past were more independent, and there would be some sisters and brothers in the family to go to and from school together, and now most of the families with only children are also relatively wealthy, so they have the time and energy to pick up.
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Because now that the standard of living has improved, parents also pay more attention to their children, and feel that it is unsafe for children to go to and from school by themselves when they are still young, in fact, these are the parents themselves.
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I used to go to school by myself. Nowadays, primary school students need to be picked up and dropped, mainly because the road is far away and the car is unsafe.
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It's not that it's unsafe to have more cars now, and it's not a big problem to cross the street and obey the traffic rules, and first-grade children can do it. The key is that there is a herd mentality, and it is irresponsible to see that others pick up and drop off their children, and if they don't pick up their own children. Our post-80s generation should be more expensive than now, every family is an only child, and now that the second child is released, many families have two children.
At that time, the society did not rise to go to primary school and pick up and drop off children, everyone went to and from school by themselves, and whoever parents came to pick up and drop off would be ridiculed by their classmates, he didn't want parents to pick up and drop off his own children, and parents would not pick up and drop off their children.
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The reason is helpless. First of all, the ease of transportation today makes parents worry about leaving their children to school alone. When we were in elementary school, we were generally in the countryside.
At that time, there were only horse-drawn carts and donkey carts on the road, and there were basically no cars. Most of our parents were farmers. Few parents have much time to pick up their children and transport them.
As a result, the children all go to school in groups, that is, they do not feel lonely or scared, and their parents are reassured. However, children are different now. On the way to school, traffic is congested, people come and go, homes are far away from the school, and there are all kinds of safety hazards.
Parents cannot rest assured that their children will go to school alone.
With the increasing number of traffickers, parents are afraid to let their children go to school alone。There may be many people in society who like "Imi". They are mysterious and don't know when they will reach out like innocent children.
In the face of such a ** animal, how dare parents let their children go to school alone?
For the safety of their children, the school asks parents to pick up and drop off their children to and from school
At present, the society is extremely complex and the environment is noisy. To ensure the safety of children, schools can only ask parents to transport their children to and from school. Parents can rest assured that their children are safe.
As a result, the transportation of children has become an important task. No matter how busy you are, protect your kids when they're minors.
How many people abandon their children because of carelessness, which gives dealers a chance to take advantage and make parents regret it for a lifetime. Children are a continuation of every family's life. To protect a child is to protect the family, and the family can be passed down from generation to generation.
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Because they are now more protective of their children, and they are afraid that their children are in danger.
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The biggest reason is that they are all only children now, so parents love them more.
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Because at that time, my parents had to be busy doing farm work to earn money to support the family!
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Because the times are different, there was no way at that time, I had to earn money to support my family.
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Today's children are treasures in the hands of parents, and children's every move is a big deal for parents. But before, the family situation was not good, and the parents were busy in the fields and vegetable fields every dayI took care of myself very early. Going to school is also going to school alone, why do children now have to be sent by their parents?
There are two reasons for this.
First, parents are not as busy as they used to be. In the past, the economic conditions were not good, and the parents worked in the fields every day, counting on growing some vegetables in the vegetable field and selling them for some money, and rarely had time to take care of their children. Now that people's conditions are better, the countryside is also a new scene, and the countryside is also very rich, and there is nothing to do, so naturally they will send their children to school when they are free, and they can rest assured.
In the second village, there are also more cars, and I don't worry about my children going to school alone. There are also more cars in rural areas, and sometimes they are still far away from school, and it is also very dangerous for young children to go to school alone. And in addition to this reason, there are too many people, and they are worried that traffickers will abduct children, so when they study in the countryside, they have to pick up and drop off every day, or if they are far away from home, they will accompany them directly.
The third reason is that the times are different, and the way of education is different. In the past, people were busy, and their children's education was free-range. Nowadays, it is captivity, parents do not want their children to suffer too much, and parents think about their children in advance if there is anything.
Times are different, and the way of educating children is also different. And the environment is different, a variety of factors are combined, and children need to be picked up by adults. Nowadays, in rural areas, many children are taken care of by grandparents, who love their children the most and are reluctant to let their children suffer a little.
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Or is it because most of the children nowadays only give birth to one or two, and there are also human traffickers now.
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Because for safety it is better to pick up and drop off children, and to live in just not one place.
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The main reason is that children nowadays are more delicate and far from school.
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Schools in rural areas are generally far from home, and it's too dangerous to go home alone.
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Nowadays, many people go to school in other places for the sake of their children's safety.
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Because some schools have merged, homes are further away from schools.
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Now there are many primary school students who need to be picked up by their parents when they go to school, remembering that when we were children in primary school, they were only picked up for a year, but now the children are still picked up by their parents when they reach the fourth or fifth grade. Why can't you just let go of the child and go alone?
When we were children, there weren't as many cars as they do now, and we all walked over and back by ourselves. And at that time, parents were also busy, and they didn't have time to take care of their children, so let us walk back by ourselves after we knew the way. We didn't have some examples of child trafficking at that time, the society was relatively safe, and parents didn't have to worry a lot, while we didn't like to play, and went home directly after school.
There is no mobile phone to play, and there is no pocket money to buy snacks to eat on the road, wasting time along the way.
But today's children are different, everyone is an only child, and the family conditions are much better than we were back then. There are many parents who will drive to pick up their children at the school gate, which will cause traffic congestion, and some children will accidentally injure themselves in such a crowded place. Not only at the school gate, but also on the road began to increase the number of cars, adults are afraid that children do not know how to read the road and are afraid that the car will not have time to brake, so they choose to pick up their children by themselves, so it will be much safer.
Another point, I think it's doting, I have a younger brother, sixth grade this year, the school is just across the road, but my grandmother still sends him to pick him up every day, in fact, he himself will look at the road and recognize the traffic light, but the parents just don't worry about sending him to pick him up. That's what coddling.
Today's children still have mobile phones to play with, and they just look at their mobile phones along the way, so what can they do if something happens accidentally? There are also more cases of child abduction and trafficking, and adults worry about the safety of their children, so they pick them up and drop them off in person for several years.
In fact, I think adults can stop spoiling their children so much, and let them learn to be independent. You can't always rely on your parents and your family.
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In the previous family, because there were more children, some parents were in a free-range state for their children or siblings took care of each other. When I go to school, I go to school with other friends or my siblings, and I go home together after school, without the need for parents to pick me up. At that time, the children were more independent and independent.
And now children basically need to be picked up by parents when they go to school and get out of school, because now a family is basically one child, and as an only child, the family will be extra pampered.
In addition to this part, there is also the fact that the society is not as good as before. Nowadays, there are frequent problems in society, and there are great hidden dangers in the personal safety of students in school safety accidents, so parents have to pick up and drop off their children. In the past, when I went to school, whether in the city or in the countryside, the school was relatively close to home, and parents were more comfortable letting their children go to and from school by themselves.
Now that many rural schools have been evacuated, students have a long way to go to school. However, in many rural schools, students still go to and from school independently. In the city, some students also take the bus by themselves, go to school and go home by themselves.
Now it is actually more convenient for parents to pick up and drop off their children, because parents are at the same time as their children going to and from school, so they will send their children to school and then take him home after school.
And now the car is also more common, parents in the car to work, by the way to send their children to school, after school to pick up home, is also a convenient thing. On the one hand, it is convenient, and on the other hand, it ensures the personal safety of children. Sometimes there are more cars on the road, and children are prone to some accidents on the road, so they are not worried about the safety of their children, and now parents will often pick up and drop off their children.
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