How to be a good parent if you have high school students at home?

Tell the child that the book is to read by himself, the road is to walk by himself, and the future days are to be lived by himself.

I don't feel it! We never need to worry about studying, we live on campus, so we don't care about life!

Do a good job in logistics, and do a good job of communication in a timely and appropriate manner.

Parents of high school students, this is how we should help our children. High school children are very important for whether they can be admitted to a good university, and parents are also prone to anxiety at this time. At this stage, children's thinking gradually matures, and their learning habits basically begin to take shape.

Parents should pay attention to their own wording, provide guiding suggestions to their children in a timely manner, and provide reasonable guidance and loud voices. If you don't control your emotions reasonably, it will backfire and lead to rebellious psychology.

More encouragement, more communication, children actually want the company of their parents, and they can do some interaction together on weekends, accompany them to do some projects that children are interested in, play games, outdoor sports, etc. It's good to get along like friends, and don't deliberately push too your studies. It will cause a lot of psychological pressure on children.

There are no deliberate rules, as long as the child is healthy, sunny, happy, and the general direction restricts him and teaches him, it is okay to deliberately carve it, but it is self-defeating.

Spend more time with your children, communicate more with them, take care of your children's food, clothing, housing and transportation, communicate more with your children's teachers, respect your children's professional choices, and listen to your children's voices.

Just let him understand the importance of the college entrance examination, don't nag, otherwise it will backfire, believe me.

"Set up a stage" for children, and often encourage and appreciate children! Let children feel the harbor of love! It is conducive to the establishment of children's self-confidence!

Teaching by example is very important, in this period, the behavior of parents will affect the child very much, for example, there are many adolescent children who watch their parents' feelings discord and divorce, and they will have a deep image of their feelings in the following years, which is the reason. If you want to be a qualified parent of a high school student, remember that it's never too late to teach by example.

Looking at the child's grades correctly, the child is not suitable for entering school, and the pressure of homework in junior high school is very high, and the grades will definitely not be very ideal. Especially for children who have just entered high school, they should not be too critical of their grades so as not to put too much pressure on them, and they should study the reasons for their unsatisfactory grades with their children, and listen to the opinions of teachers, so as to make their children adapt to high school life as soon as possible.

If it is a senior year, first help him set up a goal, objectively formulate a study plan, be a friend of the child, do not interfere too much with the child, macro-control, grasp the dynamics, and put forward reasonable suggestions in a timely manner. If it is a sophomore or senior year of high school, then do a good job of logistics, observe and remind not to deviate from the right track, just do it.