What does it feel like to know that the other party is a scumbag but still like him?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-10
42 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Knowing that the other party is a scumbag, but still liking him, it should be a feeling of hurt. Because since the other party is a scumbag, what he does will definitely hurt his girlfriend. Otherwise, you can't call it a scumbag.

    So knowing that he is a scumbag, I still like that he should have psychological tolerance and psychological preparation to be hurt. Choose to leave to be free. FYI.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    The feeling of powerlessness and helplessness, because the most difficult thing in the world to control is the feelings, although intellectually we know that the other party is a scumbag, but we always hope that we are different, the blindness of love. If you know that the other party is a scumbag, and you still like him, you can only blame your own bad life. Because he is a weak person, he is powerless to resist, and the attraction of the other party, knowing that it is a flame, will meet it like a moth to a flame.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    The most obvious feeling should be insecure, feeling that I may lose him one day, living in fear every day, of course, mixed with a hint of sweetness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I know that the other party is a scumbag but still likes what it feels like to him, I think this feeling must always think that the other party will change to himself, because I believe in myself and can change the other party, so I have always liked each other very much, I think this feeling is that I don't care about the other party, what is it, as long as I am happy and happy, I don't think this feeling is necessary, to be honest, it is best to meet a scumbag or leave, after all, people's lives are very short, leave him. is your best way out. I believe in the scumbag, because he is already a scumbag, and it may be very difficult to change him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Knowing that the other party is a scumbag, but still likes him, of course, it is a very sadistic feeling, I want to let go but can't let go, and I always have to be hurt in the end, this feeling is very painful.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The experience of liking a scumbag must be happy, but even if it will bring you a lot of happiness, what you get in the end is sadness! Knowing that this is the case, but you still have no hesitation, it only means that you are not mature enough, or you are just having a playful mentality, so you are fearless.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Knowing that the other party is a scumbag, but still likes him, it is a very helpless and contradictory feeling, this feeling is rational, knowing that it can't, but the feelings can't be controlled, which is a very contradictory psychology.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    That's a feeling, when the scumbag hurts you, you feel wronged and sad, and when you hurt a lot, you will have the idea of leaving him, maybe you are in a blind spot, when you get out of the blind spot, your heart will suddenly feel enlightened, and that feeling is good.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Scumbags also have a good side. For example, personality, appearance, status and wealth. There is definitely a characteristic of attracting the opposite sex.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's painful, it's tangled, it's contradictory, it's happy, it's painful. On the one hand, I like him very much and want to see him, but at the same time, there is another self who tells me that it is wrong to do this and that it is not worth it, and every day I feel that there are two selves fighting. Sometimes I'll slap myself after a date with a guy.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Knowing that the other party is a scumbag or liking him This feeling, knowing that the other party is a scumbag, this shows that this man is very distinctive, and has the ability to attract this person to catch you, because you are still a very good person to see this person, and he can talk like this, so you are the other party is a scumbag or a kind of like, his feeling is also very special, that is, it is generally a very special habit, I like it very much, and this situation is also very special.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Knowing that the other party is a scumbag or can't control that he likes him, then you are finding fault for yourself, and it is inevitable that you will be hurt in the future, you must be mentally prepared, you will definitely be hurt in the future, and you will not find trouble with him if you voluntarily bear the injury. Please be sober, if you know what kind of person the other party is, and continue to fall into it, it is self-harm. If you are hurt, no one will pity you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The scumbag is generally ** air conditioner, he can notice the feeling of girls, and give some care from time to time, maybe his appearance is not particularly handsome, but he will take care of people. A girl's essential language when looking for a boyfriend: I don't want anything, I just want him to be good to me.

    The scumbag also has this advantage, and his concern from time to time shows that he has you in his heart, speaks well in language, and is in place in behavior.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's that feeling, for example:

    You're so bad! I love it!

    Bad and bad like feelings, because the so-called scumbags are not useless, there are always certain characteristics or advantages that people like!

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Your feeling about the scumbag is like "The Legend of the Condor Heroes" and many other film and television dramas, ** characters depicted, tomorrow will be a bad person, and you will not give up. Of course, love is the most wonderful and complex in the world, the most indescribable and the most difficult to distinguish between right and wrong. "I understand you.

    If you have a problem with your character, if you are very good, you may not be able to give it up; Or he has a unique temperament that attracts you and makes you want to stop. But if there is a real problem with the character, and it is not good for you, you must stay away from him, although it may be painful at first. Better a finger off than always aching.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It must be an inner contradiction, I want to leave the scumbag, but I can't do it, because I love the scumbag very much in my heart, and I can't let go of the scumbag in my heart, to put it bluntly, this is the persistence of loving someone.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In fact, there are many times when you love you blindly, and love is love! It doesn't change because of what the other person is like alone!

    There is also a classic line in a movie: A woman must be stupid once in her life!

    So it doesn't matter if the other party is a scumbag or not, if you like it, you like it!

    Sometimes being silly once is a kind of happiness! That feeling of desperate pursuit of love! Bring a different color to your life!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    A feeling of helplessness and helplessness.

    The helplessness lies in the fact that I don't know what to do.

    The helplessness lies in his irresponsibility and you can't change it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I know that the other party is a scumbag, but I still like him Because you may be insecure When your parents love you enough, you lived a very happy life when you were a child, and when you grow up, you have your own independent personality, and you will not be easily deceived by the rhetoric of a scumbag You have your own bottom line, you will distinguish what kind of man is worthy of your choice The important thing is that you choose the other half.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Knowing that the other party is a scumbag, but still likes him, his heart is conflicted, maybe scumbags have a side that women like, such as being handsome, willing to spend money on women, but they will lie to you sweetly, this feeling is short-lived, and when you get married, his ugly face will be revealed, so you should stay away from scumbags and find your own happiness.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I feel happy, I like someone, it doesn't make sense to like someone, even if he is a scumbag, but I am willing to like her without hesitation, and I am willing to moth to the fire, and I feel that he is desperate before he comes, or he is very happy to fly all the time, and he has always liked it very much.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The name of the other party is a scumbag, but I still like him like a nightmare alone, knowing that this is a nightmare, I want to break free, but I can't get rid of this dream. There is one of them. A deep sense of helplessness and passivity.

    I think it has something to do with a person's willpower, if a person with strong willpower knows that the other person is dangerous, he will definitely avoid this person instinctively. However, he still fell in love with him powerlessly, like a little insect that met him knowing that there was a swallow in front of him and a moth to the fire. In the end, he did not hesitate to break his bones.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I know that the other party is a scumbag, but I still like him, but I just know that he is very good to you, so I still like him, because he is okay, very handsome, and he is also very good to you, so I will like him, and I can't help but fall in love with him.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    One. There is no reason or reason to love someone.

    Two. In love, many times you should be able to afford to put it down.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Women are hypocritical. I'd rather sit in a BMW and cry than live with a good man.

    Women are selfish. When I found out that a man who was "better" than the current one, I immediately changed my mind.

    Women are very unusual. I like sweet words, false words, and I hate telling the truth. The worse and more unscrupulous, the more I like it, knowing that he is cheating on her, but he can't do without him, unless he dumps her, he will be sad, and he will definitely not die until he is in the heart of the Yellow River.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Sadism. Maybe he already loves him and can't extricate himself, even if he knows that there will be no good results in the future, but he still chooses to do so.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Because the scumbag can speak, talk sweetly, coax, and routine, he knows a woman's heart very well, and knows what the girl's mind thinks.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Sometimes there is really no reason for love, I know that the other party is a scumbag, but I just like him, there is no reason, and I don't want to leave, as long as he is happy.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Because they are attracted by the unique temperament of the scumbag, and they can't extricate themselves from it, they know that the scumbag will still like it.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Because the scumbag will be sultry, and the scumbag's love words are a set, and he knows how to make girls happy, and at the beginning you will have a sense that you are the most important person to him.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The so-called scumbag is that he does a poor job in some places, but everyone has his own shining point, and his advantages will offset the shortcomings of the scumbag.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think it may be because the scumbag has his own unique charm, which can attract these girls to like him, and his sweet words every day, every girl can't stand it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Because the scumbag's means are very high, he is very good at capturing the girl's heart and deeply attracts the girl, even if he knows that the man is a scumbag, he will still like him.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Because although the scumbag is very scumbag, it is undeniable that the scumbag does understand girls very well and can please girls very accurately, while straight men always make girls angry many times.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Because such a boy understands the feelings of a girl. Therefore, girls are still very willing to come into contact with such boys. Naturally, I will like such a boy.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Because these girls are not deeply involved in the world, they relaxed their vigilance in the face of the sweet words and sugar-coated shells of scumbags.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Maybe they spent too much time and energy for this man, thinking about gambling, maybe he changed it, maybe they didn't still like that man, and they knew that he was not a good person, but they were just unwilling, unwilling to let their efforts be gone, not so much liking, it was better to say that these girls were just unwilling.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Because women just like this kind of bad feeling of men, this feeling makes women unable to extricate themselves, and their minds are full of this man.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I think it's because the girl hasn't found a new boyfriend at this time, and she really wants to play, so she has been consuming this scumbag.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I know that my boyfriend is a scumbag but still likes him very much, which is also a bad psychology. Since two people no longer have feelings, don't choose to hurt each other again, which is also irresponsible to each other. If your boyfriend is very scummy, you must let yourself give up decisively, and girls don't choose to pester this boy.

    A person who is half-hearted and doesn't care about you at all, what's the point of such a relationship coming, don't feel moved.

    If a girl is more dependent on a boy, she will feel that she must marry the boy, which is very wrong. For this kind of emotional problem, you must make yourself rational, break up when it's time to break up, and don't let yourself be hurt all the time. Some people feel that they are used to it, and if they don't know what to do after leaving him, it is also very painful at this time.

    When two people are together, they have to be brave, and they have to stand on the opposite side of each other.

    Think about whether each other is worthy of your love.

    If the boy is very scummy, he has to choose to break up and not go back to the next one, and it will be better not to think about letting himself forgive this boy all the time, and he doesn't know that he did it. This will make boys feel that their scum is justified, and girls don't put themselves in a passive position, which will make boys feel that they still have a lot of excuses to cheat on their girlfriends. The person who loves you will not have an ambiguous relationship and will put his circle of friends.

    It's handled cleanly, and girls have to understand what kind of person they like. For their own emotions, they must learn to control them reasonably, and they can't let themselves be in a bad mood. Be firm in your own path, even if the road is very far away, let yourself look up at the starry sky.

    If the boy is very scummy, at this time, you have to make your position clear to the boy, don't hesitate anymore. Hesitation will hurt you a lot, girls need to understand.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Maybe when you first like your boyfriend, you don't know what the character of the other party is with Bu You, but when you know that you are already deeply emotional, it is difficult to treat it rationally, but in the long run, you still have to think twice. Cons.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Because the conditions of the scumbag are often good, at least his external conditions are good, and girls often like these boys with slightly better external conditions and good economic conditions, plus scumbags are often sweet and sweet, romantic flirting will do everything, for an ordinary girl, how can she not be interested in this man, girls are not like this, when they are young, they rely on their ears to fall in love, she is unwilling to see what boys do for themselves, She doesn't want to see if the boy has done anything to hurt herself, she is willing to listen to the sweet words that the boy says, so even though she knows that he is a scumbag, she still feels that she can't control herself and falls in love with him.

    In fact, girls often look at their faces, not only boys like to look good, but girls also like to look good, which is why girls in real life like to chase stars so much, because good-looking people are indeed pleasing to the eye, and to become a scumbag, first of all, you have to have the ability to be a scumbag, if you are an ugly man, to be honest, you don't even have the qualifications of a scumbag, and often scumbags are also very good at cleaning up themselves, the scumbags you see, they are all clean, handsome and stylish, That hairstyle must always be at the forefront, and that clothing will always be the most appropriate and fashionable.

    And if you want to be a scumbag, either you look very good-looking, or you have a lot of money in your pocket, otherwise you can't even be a scumbag, girls like him, or they like the way he looks, or they like the money in his pocket, of course, plus he is romantic and interesting, such a boy, to be honest, it is difficult for a girl not to like it, and it is difficult for a girl not to be tempted by him, and it is difficult to let go of it, because there is really no such person around, and it is indeed a cut worse than him. So I knew he was a scumbag, but I still couldn't let it go.

    These girls can only come out when they grow up, are hurt, and are truly abandoned by this man.

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