What should I pay attention to when choosing a boyfriend to effectively avoid scumbags?

The first point is not to believe men's rhetoric, and to be able to see the essence of the facts.

If a woman wants to avoid scumbags, the best way is not to believe in rhetoric. Because the most common means used by scumbags is rhetoric. And if you don't believe men's rhetoric, it will be the best way for you to avoid scumbags.

If a man's rhetoric is credulous and credulous, then you will only become a victim of a man's feelings!

The second point is not to give yourself at will, and not to make yourself worthless in the eyes of men.

The more you like this man, the more you have to restrain yourself. Because of your restraint and your non-giving, you will become more and more weighty in the hearts of men. If you give yourself easily because you like men, then you will only be particularly worthless in the hearts of men.

Your weight in a man's heart will gradually become lighter and lighter because of your easy giving.

The third point is to maintain emotional self-confidence and have absolute emotional control.

A woman's self-confidence in a relationship will be the best way for a woman to grasp her feelings. If you lack self-confidence in your relationship, then the man around you will easily abandon you. Your lack of self-confidence will only make men not know how to cherish you.

Therefore, self-confidence in the relationship is also the most important thing you should have.

Fourth, look more at his consumption concept, especially where to spend more money.

I always think that a person's outlook on consumption hides the outlook on life and values, money is the most straightforward thing, how you use it, determines what kind of person you are, which has little to do with more money and less money, in life a monthly salary of 40,000 yuan is spent on the back of the knife, and a monthly salary of 4,000 is spent on the blade of the big people. The money that a man spends represents the path he has traveled and the future he may reach.

Only when a woman has these points will you have an attitude in your relationship. will make the scumbags around you less and less. Let you have more and more high-quality men around you.

Pay attention to the scumbag's routine, you must not fall into the sweet trap of the scumbag, the scumbag often steps on several boats, so you must pay attention to your boyfriend's usual abnormal behavior!

First of all, we must observe the boy's friends, as the saying goes: the environment affects people, so the boy's character can also be seen from the friends around him; The second is to see if the boy has too many friends of the opposite sex, and if there is one and often mixes with them, then it is better to stay away from such boys; Third, you might as well quarrel with a boy to see if he has a violent temper or even violent tendencies, and if so, please stay away.

When choosing a boyfriend, you must see whether your boyfriend's relationship with the opposite sex is good or not, and whether he usually communicates with the opposite sex, if your boyfriend is always surrounded by a lot of people of the opposite sex, then it can basically be concluded that this man is a scumbag.

In the relationship, you must have your own ideas and opinions, no matter what happens, you must strengthen your willpower, when you feel that the other party is a scumbag, you should decisively leave the other party, don't believe the sweet words of men.

In a relationship, you should first understand the character of the other party, so that you can avoid meeting a scumbag.

Get along with boys more, so that you can understand the boys' personality and avoid meeting scumbags.

When looking for a partner, you need to pay attention to the following three aspects to avoid falling in love with an inappropriate man by mistake. 1. Don't always cultivate feelings online, we didn't have a mobile phone before we had a mobile phone**, so we could only rely on the format of the letter to care about the other party and express our thoughts. Nowadays, everyone seems to be inseparable from their mobile phones, even if they meet someone they like, they just want to push ambiguous information content on their mobile phones, and carry out a virtual lover relationship.

But the object of this method is nothing more than a hidden emotional relationship. Due to the stage of love, men are aware of hiding themselves, and everyone can talk flatteringly and conspire. But whether he is really committed to your future is often uncertain.

Therefore, in any case, if you are always looking for a partner, don't limit yourself to getting to know each other online, but infiltrate the actual operation and live with each other. It's only after you've lived together in real life that you can truly understand what kind of person each other is, because most of the small details are discovered by real touch. And in real life, his attitude towards you usually reflects what he will look like in the future.

2. Don't easily believe the verbal promise There is a man who said: "I will not easily say the service commitment, because I think that if you can't do it, don't agree to it, and the service commitment that can't be done is not a mess, but an irresponsible reflection." Indeed, the speaker has no intention, but the listener has the intention.

If you make a promise casually, it is very likely that women will easily believe it, and wait for you to fulfill it. Unexpectedly, you forgot. If he really loves you, you Qingxu will not casually say service commitments, and he will not give blank checks at will.

Because she knows very well that if you can't do it, you will be very disappointed, and you will be very uncomfortable, even if he treats you as a partner, then he will have to bear responsibility for their actions. At all times, you must make it clear that during the period of falling in love, don't listen to what the man says, but look at what you have done for him. It's easiest to run the train with your mouth full, but it takes to pay, and often not all men will end up in it.

3. Men who can't take care of themselves Some men are overly spoiled by their mothers in the environment they grew up in, and it may be difficult for them to be alone when they grow up. This type of people, whether in interpersonal communication or emotional relationships, many do not know how to correct themselves, and lack self-motivation. If you are with such a person, you can't have a future.

Don't be a little, don't be with immature men, so these men can't even take care of themselves, this person has no way to make you love. In the end, what I want to say is that as a woman, you don't have to start a relationship because you are bored, and you need to think twice before you talk about someone at any time. The vast majority of chills are due to the impulsive choices of Hao Burning Young.

Women like to listen to men's sweet words the most in love, and accidentally fall into the hands of a scumbag, a scumbag talks about falling in love with you, in fact, stepping on a few boats, only saying that there is no action to give you a future, and not taking you to see your parents and friends, and not breaking up, so that you can't see hope, sweet words when you need you, and if you don't need to leave. There are many things in life that we call for, such as poverty, we keep complaining about poverty, we don't have the time or energy to change poverty, and in the end it will only be poverty. If we pretend to be elegant, until one day we realize our true elegance.

These are fully present in life and are what we should know, so we can no longer call for them.

For example, don't meet someone with bad behavior or a behavior that does not meet your standards, you call him a scumbag, then you will be entangled with a scumbag. What kind of person you meet is what kind of person, there is no way to avoid it, because in your relationship, you are a fan of the authorities, and maybe when you find out that you are a scumbag, you will be unable to extricate yourself. In fact, the way to avoid it is to be yourself and attract the most suitable person for you, this is the law of attraction, even if you meet a scumbag, you can leave it well.

Honest and self-motivated men and women don't like it, women like sweet words, to be honest, you won't find a scumbag if you are not a scumbag, and they don't dare to mess with you. First of all, you have to have your own three views to be correct, words and deeds and things don't make people feel casual, as a girl must be self-respecting, you don't respect yourself, who respects you. If you don't respect yourself, trouble will come and get you into trouble.

There is no so-called loyalty between people at all, if a man is loyal or not, you try it with a beautiful woman, and if a woman is loyal or not, you try it with 100 million. In life, remember and cherish it, life is not easy. If it is not a matter of principle, men and women in married life should grow old together.

It's a pity that money has changed the values of some people in today's society.

I think you should get along with the opposite sex more. After spending more time together, you can understand what kind of person he is like.

I think the best thing to do is to ask relatives to introduce you to a boyfriend, so that it is not easy to meet a scumbag.

I think the best thing to do is to take a good look at the man's past before committing to a relationship, so that it is not easy to meet a scumbag.

Girl, if you don't believe it, you want to meet the Kuantan hail scumbag Shen Fan.