After finding out that the other party was a scumbag, I was very sad and cried several times. Is it

In fact, it's counted, because you already know that the other party is a scumbag, but you still cry very sadly, and you have cried several times. This is a sign of broken love. I've cried and cried, I'm sad and sad, you have to hurry back to your state, because he's a scumbag, don't be too sad for him.

What you have to do is to break up with him quickly and live a good life. Elevate yourself. I wish you to find the next one soon, better, and then your own happiness.

Of course, it is a kind of broken love, and at this time I was hurt by my feelings, so this is also a kind of broken love, so since I know that the other party is a scumbag at this time, I decisively leave at this time and start my life again, this is the most rational.

If you find out that the other party is a scumbag, then you should leave quickly, this is the best choice for yourself, after you leave him, it is a lovelorn, but there is nothing terrible about falling out of love, it will eventually be a floating cloud, and you will soon fall in love with a better boy.

This situation should not be lovelorn, you should regret and be sad, you didn't see the essence of the boy clearly, and almost put your life into it, it's not too late for you to leave him now, choose a boyfriend in the future, you must be careful.

First of all, do you have to figure out if you're in love?The other party's feet pedal two boats or?Make you feel that you have wronged others, and it is still too late to turn back. It's not about falling out of love, it's just hurting.

The premise of falling out of love is first love, the key is whether you are in love or not, if there is, it is considered a broken love, otherwise it does not count.

Forget it, don't be too sad, there will be good people in the future.

Breaking up decisively is the most important thing for you right now.

No, because it's him you don't deserve it.

You'll have to break up with him.

It's good to see the essence in advance, sister, it's better than being deceived all the time.

How long have you been talking, friend.

Because the person I like is no longer by my side, I feel that no one cares, and if I break up after a long time in love, I will be even more sad, after all, I have been with and paid for so many years, and I have formed dependence and habits for so many years, and in the end I have nothing left During that time, I would feel as if I had to do it, and slowly this concept was imprinted in my mind, and I couldn't be interested in anyone, and I didn't dare to show my sincerity, for fear that this person would leave me like the previous one, and I didn't show mercy.

Because the injury was too serious

Hello dear! You've fallen out of love and met someone who claims to be"The scumbag was broken up and taken to"I am very angry and helpless to break up, and it becomes so difficult for you to sleep, hug you!

Let's take a look at this matter, why there are several possibilities for breaking up.

First, you once thought that he had a last resort reason, which is indeed possible, this possibility may be as you think he has a last resort reason, but he will not tell you, he may use "his own scum" as an excuse, in fact, it may be inferiority complex or unspeakable concealment so that he feels unworthy or does not want to hurt you. This is psychologically justified, love may arise from the impulse of instinctive attraction, but the basic tendency of true love is dedication, true love will exist in addition to attachment intimacy altruism from the heart, helping each other, making each other happy will be his unshirkable responsibility. This kind of love for the other person can be sacrificed to the extreme.

I see that you are still thinking about him in your heart, and you also say that he misses you too, and you seem to have a kind of anger at him for holding iron and steel, and break up with such a bad reason. If you've already broken up, you don't need to analyze this one, because there are other possible reasons for your breakup.

Second, he himself said that he is too scumbag, you are too good, this is not an element of a breakup, but because he is a scumbag, he lacks confidence, as the relationship progresses, he feels exposed, will be broken up, in order to avoid him being broken up, in order to reduce being hurt, he will break up in advance and become passive to active, and his pain will be less.

Three, the last thing we want to accept is that you are not suitable for him, he has someone else, and he expresses to you that he also wants you, it may be a guilt period of two or three months after the breakup, but at this time getting back together is not necessarily the best choice.

The basic possibilities are roughly these three, and you can analyze them on a case-by-case basis.

So why are you so angry that you can't sleep?

First of all, falling out of love itself is a very hurtful thing for people.

Furthermore, being broken up can cause you to have questions about how you are self-sufficient"Am I not good enough? "Questioning oneself is very energy-consuming.

And this thing is an "unfinished business" for you Humans have an innate tendency to get things done and have their needs fully met. Unfinished people will be troubled if they are not satisfied, and unfinished things will make you subconsciously attribute or extraordinary. This distress may cause you to feel internally attacked, anxious, and irritable, which may be one of the reasons why you can't sleep.

How? Simply do: Accept the feeling of nostalgia for the past.

Second, accept the reality, be aware, and communicate like a friend.

Three thanksgiving for good things, confirm his abandonment, relax and turn around to start a new stool life.

Good luck getting a good night's sleep soon.

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Psychoanalysis: Some things you seem to accept, in fact, they are just diverted and ruined, when the night is quiet, those painful things will resurface, this is normal, everyone will encounter a major setback, thinking about how to solve it, how to avoid it happening again, repeated thinking will lead to the re-experience of the situation, you will wake up in the middle of the night, it means that this anxiety and the pain of intimacy separation has always been in the subconscious, and has not completely disappeared. It's emotionally speaking.

In addition, from the perspective of insomnia, too much attention to one's sleep, the inability to fall asleep has produced anxiety, this anxiety about sleep is a very important factor that causes anxiety, insomnia is not terrible, the fear is that you will not be able to sleep. So, first of all, face up to your sleep problem, face it, and face it, which means that you have to accept that you don't fall asleep to a certain extent, because you have just experienced a traumatic event, and most people will experience insomnia. Secondly, I suggest that you vent your dissatisfaction with this scumbag, pain and other emotions, you can find someone to talk to, exercise (exercise itself will help this Hui fall asleep in this situation), or even get drunk once, etc., this has a process of emotional catharsis release.

Finally, if the sleep problem is still difficult to solve, you can try to use a little sleep aid drug, such as zopiclone, etc., to take it for a short time, and then stop after the sleep adjustment has come, and then stop, which will not form dependence.

The process of emotional run-in is the most intense stage, and the sweet in this process can be very sweet, and the bitter can be very bitter.

I don't know what stage your relationship is in, if you have only been together for a few months, no matter how open your view of love and marriage is, I do not recommend you to live together.

At this time, your relationship may not be able to go through this stage, and you think that living together is to let two people have more time to be together and more time to be sweet. However, true cohabitation is nothing more than exposing all the shortcomings in front of the other person, and all the living habits go through a stage of integration.

When you first started your relationship, you see each other's eyes are bright, and you spend a lot of time dressing up when you go out on a date every day, and the image of the other party in your heart is not very real. There is really no need to let cohabitation speed up the process of the relationship, just enjoy the current period of love. Choosing to live together during the love period may shatter all the expectations in your heart.

If your relationship is already stable, and two people want to take their relationship further by living together, this is understandable. At this time, they already have a certain understanding of each other, and the decisions they make are no longer carried away by a wave of love. You may feel that the other person is the person you want and can't wait to get involved in the other person's life as soon as possible.

Whatever the purpose, you should make a decision based on the whole thing.

My boyfriend and I chose to live together after five months together, and I didn't think much about it at the time, I just wanted to be with each other every day.

From the beginning of the stir-fry of how many chili peppers to put in the quarrel, now he can accompany me to eat extra spicy, I can also accompany him to eat slightly spicy.

However, today I realized that I could not accept the practice of cohabitation, and my perception did not keep up with my behavior. I think I've done something wrong, so I'm tormented from time to time.

Living together made me love him more and more, but my mental burden also became heavier.

If you want to live with your boyfriend, you have to figure it out for yourself.

Can you afford to take the risk of cohabitation? Is this what you want for yourself?

If you don't have any doubts, just do whatever you want.

People who have problems will never forget it, and it means that the injury is not enough, so they will send it to the door themselves, humiliate it, stimulate their shame, and quickly forget.

Every woman wants to be the focus of men, especially the only one in the heart of the man she loves. However, not all women can be liked by men, on the contrary, there are some women, even if they take the initiative to send them to the door, men will not want them. Men are not stupid and will have their own needs.

In life, some women are always easy to be liked by men, while some women, even if the man will approach at the beginning, it will not take long to leave. People are selfish, they will choose what can make them happy first, knowing that there is no happiness with you, so why stick to it?

Men don't just like women, on the contrary, they have high demands. However, there are these three kinds of women, who are the most haunting of men, are you one of them?

A woman who can always support a man's dreams.

Even if a man is a salted fish, he will have something in his heart that he thinks is very important. To be honest, every man will have his own beliefs in his heart, even if he has no money and no ability. However, in the process of interacting with men, many women habitually put themselves first, feeling that it is a natural thing for men to be good to themselves, and when what she wants to do conflicts with the dreams in the man's heart, it is the performance of a man's true love for himself to be able to change or adjust for her.

It is true that the man who loves you will change for you, but there is also the question of whether it is worth it. For a man, if you are worthy, he is naturally willing to change for you. However, if you can occasionally grieve and support a man's dream, then your weight in a man's heart will naturally increase by a few notches, and you will also become an indispensable person in his heart.

If you are hurt by someone, you will definitely be sad and sad, relax yourself, do more happy things, it is not worth it to be hurt by a scumbag and continue to be decadent, hurry up and start a new relationship.

It's normal to not be able to put it down. After all, if you have loved, if you can't let go, it means that you are also responsible for your former love, and it also shows that your attitude towards love is commendable. Everyone's love life will not be smooth sailing, and love will not always go well.

Since you have recognized the character of others, you should learn to give up, you must learn to forget the past, and let go of the past, which is a kind of responsibility for yourself and a kind of protection for yourself. I hope you will be able to find your true love again, and you will be happy as well.

Knowing that he is a scumbag, you are still very sad and can't let go, so you slap yourself a few times to make yourself sober. Knowing that he is a scumbag, you are still sad, you should be happy, if you get married, only to find out, you should be sad at that time, fool, don't be sad for this kind of person. Adjust your mentality, recover your mood, and start a new relationship again.

There is no need to be sad knowing that you are a scumbag, you should be glad to leave him, otherwise you will suffer for the rest of your life.

A typical mediocre person disturbs himself, since he knows that he is a scumbag, why can't he let it go?

You need another man to contain your heart.

Since it is, and these are not entirely important, the more important question is that in life, if we find that it is a scumbag after being with our boyfriend, we have to consider the fact that it appeared.

To sum up, Song Xin Qiji said a philosophical sentence, the three armies are not in harmony, but they are moving to the silver mountain. This quote is sobering. Well, we all know that as long as it makes sense, then it must be carefully considered.

Mencken once said that an idealist is a person who, as soon as they notice that roses are more fragrant than cabbage, conclude that they make better soups. This seems to answer my doubts. Well, in the face of this inevitable conflict, we must address this issue.

From this point of view, Marx said a philosophical remark that once society takes possession of the means of production, ,......Society. This sentence seems simple, but the gloom in it can't help but make people think deeply. In this case, today, we have to solve the problem of finding out that we are a scumbag after being with our boyfriend, we have to unify our thinking, unify our steps, and work hard to fundamentally solve the problem of finding out that we are a scumbag after being with our boyfriend.

Anonymous summed up his life experience into such a sentence, it is difficult to buy a heart, and a thousand dollars are not a sale. This seems to answer my doubts. Qing Wei Yuan summed up his life experience into such a sentence, Ling Shuang bamboo arrow is proud of Xuemei, and she fights with heaven and earth for spring.

This sentence seems simple, but the gloom in it can't help but make people think deeply. We all know that as long as it makes sense, then it has to be carefully considered. In the face of this inevitable conflict, we must address this issue.

From this point of view, everyone has to face these problems. In the face of this kind of problem, for me personally, finding out that I am a scumbag after being with my boyfriend is not only a major event, but also may change my life. However, even so, the appearance of finding out that he was a scumbag after being with his boyfriend still represents a certain significance.

Song) Bao Linghui once said that once Rong Hua is gone, his love will remain the same. This quote is sobering. Generally speaking, for me personally, finding out to be a scumbag after being with my boyfriend is not only a major event, but it can also change my life.

It's inevitable. And these are not entirely important, the more important problem is that Deming summed up his life experience into such a sentence, if you don't want to climb up, it is easy to go down. This sentence pierced my heart like a tattoo.

Gorky summed up his life experience in this sentence: I have always hated people who plan for their own food and clothing. People are higher than food and clothing. I hope you will also understand this statement.

Generally speaking.