About life ideals University major career choice Confused

First of all, I feel that you have no problem studying, as long as you work hard to get into a good university, it will not be a problem. The main thing is to face life and not know where to go. When I saw what you wrote, I thought of my sophomore year in high school, I felt that I was much more confused than you at that time, my studies were so-so, I didn't have much motivation, I didn't listen to lectures, and the most important thing was that I didn't know what I should do in the future, and my life was very confused.

High school education is like that, only focusing on the efficiency of further education, and high school teachers only pay attention to grades, never understanding the hearts and minds of students. At that time, I wasted a lot of time in a mess, and I regret it now when I think about it. At that time, I hadn't seen much of the world, and I didn't know what to do in the future, and I didn't know what else to do except study, and pure learning was a very boring thing, so I felt that life was very boring.

That state lasted almost a semester in the second year of high school before it ended. Do you know how I got out there? At that time, I had poor grades, I failed English and math, and I just passed the others, and I couldn't understand the class.

I remember once I went to the bookstore, I wanted to buy a ** to watch and play, but it was a bookstore in the school, selling reference books, I flipped and flipped over, and at the end I felt a burst of sadness, and I felt that I couldn't do anything, so I picked a random math reference book, and went back to read it for a few days and liked it, and since then I haven't listened to much class, and I studied the book by myself to play, that is, since then I have understood that learning does not have to rely on the teacher, and self-study is also very important. So now I want to give you some advice, don't be confused, it's only high school now, you know very little things, it's impossible to plan your life scientifically, only after you go to college can you find a good direction to develop, now I think you can find a discipline you are interested in, study it thoroughly, do your best, put your energy on what you like, you won't feel confused and empty, I believe you can do it. Judging from your description, I feel that your writing is quite good, and the language should be a small case for you.

Finally, I think the most important thing in life is to be a true self, not to be affected by anything, "love what I love, no regrets", and go on in style! (I just graduated from Zheng University last year, studying philosophy, you have a much better foundation than I did at that time, and you are much smarter than me, you will definitely be able to get into a very good university).

High school? Studying literature and science?

First of all, the friend upstairs should study literature in terms of the subject she introduced.

A dream does not have to be realized, it is a pursuit, a yearning, and a perfection. Your dreams are not out of reach, maybe you think too much and suppress yourself. Perhaps in our country, traveling around the world is considered unreliable for most people, but this is not wishful thinking, this is not whimsical.

I remember a foreigner who set many goals for his life, and many of them were goals that many people thought were unattainable. However, he has accomplished a lot. I have forgotten this specific thing, but it is a real story in our lives.

Life can be all kinds of good, have you reached the paradise in your heart? I don't think so. Then the easiest thing is to try your best to create the beauty in your heart.

Of course, it may be more than just material abundance.

Sometimes a dream doesn't have to be set, maybe it's just a feeling. A motivating motivator.

Don't always think: what am I going to do, what am I going to do, etc., I think you've thought a lot. Who is in charge of your youth? Don't be completely lifed, people have to live, but at the same time, don't lose yourself.

Since you are still a student, I think you should be a high school student, study hard, of course, this is not only learning things in books, but also broaden your horizons and enrich your experience. When the time comes, I think you will have a new understanding of many issues.

I hope mine will be helpful to you and may you be happy

Accumulate funds through business and the like, and then be able to open a company for interior decoration or furniture: if you have a good condition in your home, there is no problem; If you just rely on your own money or your own ability, it's difficult.

Then I can also be a designer myself (I want to be a furniture designer, but I don't study art, mainly for interest): there is no foundation in this area, it is difficult; Or if you don't have a strong economy to support it, it certainly won't work.

And then I really want to be a translator, and I want to be able to see the wider world. : People can't do so many things in their lifetime; You have to think about it, it's hard to have it both ways.

I am more inclined to practice first and then dream, earn capital first and then pursue: "business" is more suitable for your requirements.

What do you suggest? : I can't comment too much on your dreams, after all, everyone's thoughts are different. What you said is actually this, but I can talk about it.

After graduating from high school and going to college, it is nothing more than choosing a major and going to school; And after graduating from college, you face employment. Be realistic, give you a suggestion, don't think about those so-called dreams first, study hard; In the choice of major, listen to the advice of the people in the family, it is best to choose the relevant major of your family or relatives who are doing a good job, which will have a lot of benefits for you, and will give you great help in study, employment, and future development of work; The major I am talking about may not be a popular major at the moment, or it may be an unpopular major, this is not important, the important thing is to be able to find a satisfactory job when you graduate; And the choice of school depends entirely on your score in the college entrance examination.

Personal opinion only.

Finance and economics universities can. You can study finance and economics. Then you can go and minor in a foreign language such as English.

First of all, stick to self-confidence. The experience of many people who have come before has proved that as long as you persist and work hard, your dreams can be realized.

Second, be clear about your goals. Nortel's performance major is not mainly required for dancing and musical instruments, but improvisation. You can accumulate a lot in this area, sincerity is valuable, and it will be better if you add cleverness.

I don't have much experience, but through the practice of many others, I think you should stick to your dreams. Maybe the major is more stable, but if you keep working hard, you can move towards your dream step by step.

If you fail, can you accept the intention of doing bad? Be brave if you can. But personally, I think that since I have my own goals, I must strive to work hard in the direction of the goal, not just purity and sincerity, after all, the teachers are not all Zhang Yimou, they look more at personal quality and ability.

Nowadays, many people don't know what kind of job they should look for after graduating from college, and the job they like may not be the right major, and they don't like the job of the right major.

Some people will choose the job of the professional counterpart, after all, the major of the university has been studied for four years, and the four years can not be done useless, in a word, it is very good, do not forget the original intention, you must have thought about its advantages when you choose this major at the beginning, in fact, any job is like this, at the beginning you may like it, and you will lose some interest when you encounter some difficulties, which is normal, but as long as you overcome some difficulties in front of you, the future will be better. There are some people who like their own major, so when looking for a job, look for their own major, if you are still not familiar with the major, it doesn't matter, take your time, work for a while and become familiar, maybe you will like it after you have a deep understanding of the work of this major.

I will still choose the job I like, after all, everyone's life is short, if you choose your own major, and you don't like it very much, it means that you spend a large part of your life on things you don't like, so how can you be happy? When I just graduated, my parents actually wanted me to choose a job in my major, because the salary was generally high, and it was relatively stable, but I went to college for four years, and I really didn't like this major, although the grades were okay, but this was different from whether I liked it or not, so I chose the job I liked, which has always been my dream, even if I encountered some setbacks at the beginning, I felt very happy, this is a kind of self-challenge, if I succeeded, then I was even happier, Because it's a kind of self-recognition.

It's never too late to start, find a job you like, and let yourself go presumptuous for your dreams, it's really cool to feel like that, and if you really can't make ends meet, it's good to choose a major at that time, and you can remember it after a little study. Before choosing a job, give your heart a vacation, don't listen to other people's advice, because they can't control your life, ask yourself, what kind of job do you really want?

I feel that there is no conflict between pursuing your dream job and the job of your major, and when you choose to work in your major, your dream must be the major you want to do. So my dream job is the same as my major. As for me, I like my current major very much, and I am looking forward to my future job, so my dream job is the same as my major.

I didn't have a job to choose.

So I agree with both of these views, whether this is your dream or your professional job, you must do it well, and you must take this job seriously, because it is not easy to find a job now, cherish your current job, don't do something mindless for a little profit, think about whether you should do it and what the consequences of doing it are, and then do it, so that you will not suffer any losses and make any mistakes.

Now I am learning my professional knowledge in school, and when I get to the post, I will work harder and work harder, not to mention finding your dream job, even if you find the right professional job, it is also very good, so no matter where you work, work hard.

In fact, there are too many people nowadays, not because they like their job and have been working, but for the sake of life and survival, and have a dream of their dreams, which is a dream in everyone's heart, but few people can achieve it.

For this problem, my personal opinion is that if your current job is both stable and has a higher income, such a job, even if it is not your dream job, you have to collect your own heart, feel at ease to do this stable job first, for your dream job, you can plan outside of work, if you feel feasible one day, then quit your job to break through, so for you, it is safer. After all, everything is still based on a guaranteed income.

But if you are a rich second generation yourself, and you are not bad at all, then you must not do those jobs that you are not interested in! Vigorously develop your own interests and hobbies, turn your interests into your job, and turn your dreams into your income, even if you can't do it and lose money, it is also a price comparison that you can accept with a normal heart, such a life, should be very popular with everyone, of course, I also like it very much.

In this society, there are too many people who have given up a stable life for their dreams, but there are only a few who have succeeded in breaking the single-plank bridge with thousands of troops, and there are too many people who have died tragically in the middle of the road, and even the life at the beginning is gone. Such an end is tragic. Therefore, I think that before seeking the so-called dream, we must first do all the investigation and planning, and try to minimize the risk, so that we can better realize our dreams.

Many people's work is not what they like, but they still do it day after day, and they will not give up their job easily.

I think it depends on what period you are in. If you are already supporting your family, you need to have a regular salary every month to maintain your expenses. So at this time, you can't be willful, even if you don't like your job, you have to stick to it until you find the next one better.

So in this case, don't easily pursue your dream job.

There is also a situation, that is, a person, there is no responsibility and burden, no matter how hard you try, there will not be too much pressure, it is zero, no success is a big deal, or start from scratch.

But he expected that if he went according to the plan, his future work and life would be too ordinary and too ordinary. He doesn't like that, so he's working on it now, doing something else. Because he likes sports and play, but he doesn't like to be a sports teacher.

So he came up with a whimsical idea to combine sports and play. Although he has not been very successful yet, he has been persevering, and I believe that if he works hard, he will definitely reap the rewards.

The reason why he can dare to work so hard is that he has nothing else to take care of, and his parents will give him living expenses every month. At least no matter what, he won't starve to death.

So even if you have an idea, you have to decide it according to your own situation.