Husband and wife are separated, how should a woman decompress?

Legal analysis: 1. Insist on communicating with each other every day. For couples who live separately in two places, it is very necessary to maintain a certain amount of emotional communication and mutual play every day, and share and share with each other the difficulties, joys and other small things in their lives and work, which will increase the feelings between husband and wife, and will not gradually fade and alienate because of the separation of the two places.

2. The two parties will regularly determine the opportunity to meet. Long-term separation, must be a month, half a month or a quarter, etc., to have time together, such as: Saturdays, Sundays, holidays, birthdays, etc., both parties to create a good atmosphere, to add some sweetness and surprises to the relationship between husband and wife.

It is very helpful for couples who have been separated for a long time. 3. Understand and support each other and trust each other. For long-term separation, there will always be dissatisfaction between the husband and wife, for this situation, both parties must be honest with each other, express their true thoughts, but also understand each other, consider each other's feelings, empathy, so as to make the relationship between husband and wife who are far away from each other stronger.

4. Determine the end date of separation between the two places. Whether it is for work reasons or family reasons, the long-term separation of husband and wife must end, and the separation of the two places is only temporary, so don't delay it indefinitely, which will not benefit anyone. Therefore, after friendly negotiation between the husband and wife, the plan and timetable for the final reunion are determined.

At what point in time, it is necessary to end the status quo of separation between the two places, that is, to give each husband and wife an explanation and a reassurance. 5. Family and career are important. Don't give up on your family because you want to pursue your career.

After all, family is the most important support and harbor in life, even if the career is booming, losing the family is not necessarily happy, so family and career must be taken into account in order to maintain a good relationship between husband and wife for a longer time.

Reasons for long-term separation of husband and wife: The reason for long-term separation of husband and wife may be due to subjective and objective reasons such as work, study, and relationship, and they are unable or unwilling to live together often. (i) Objective reasons:

1. The husband and wife have been separated for a long time due to work reasons, the husband and wife have been separated for a long time due to the reasons of study, and other objective reasons have one party committed a criminal offense or the other party needs to take care of the children studying for a long time.

The law is based on Hu Zheng:

Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Article 1060 Civil juristic acts carried out by one of the husband and wife for the daily needs of the family shall be effective for both husband and wife, except where one of the husband and wife and the counterpart agree otherwise. Restrictions between husband and wife on the scope of civil juristic acts that one party may carry out must not be used against bona fide counterparts.

At this time, women can do something that they are more interested in, or go to learn some courses to enrich their lives, so that they can reduce their desires.

Then you should still meet regularly, and you should also give each other enough security, and you must also learn to satisfy yourself.

Whether you are a man or a woman, no matter what kind of life you are currently in, one of the truths you should understand is to grasp the direction of your life in your own hands. Everyone has seen too many women around her, because after getting married, she put too much of her focus on the family baby, and the final outcome is either disliked by her husband or made her depressed. Therefore, no matter whether the husband is not by her side, as a woman, she should still know that she is not only living for her husband and children, no matter when, she can show her unique charm with her own female friends alone and confidently.

I firmly believe that even if your husband is thousands of miles away, I will feel sincerely happy to see you working hard.

This point must not be much, even if the husband is not by his side, then if he wants to maintain the relationship between husband and wife, of course, it is necessary to do a good job in the relationship with his mother-in-law's family, especially between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. How many couples with husbands by their side in society now are because the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is unreasonable, resulting in a mess in married life. Because this woman whose husband is not by her side, she needs to please her mother-in-law even more, and after all, the son will still listen to her mother.

In fact, if you look carefully, you will find that these couples who have a good relationship between husband and wife get along well with each other.

Many people may be confused, just mentioned that women should not be too much to use their careful thoughts on the family, why do they now say that they need to put more attention on the baby. In fact, there is a certain difference between the two. Men work outside to earn money, and family matters, including children's education, also need to be more attentive to the wife, and we also widely like to regard the child's education work as the responsibility and obligation of the wife.

And when the husband is not around, the woman will have a lot of time to spare, and make good use of the project to invest in the child, until the end of the separation between the two places, the husband comes back and sees a new child, which will definitely make your married life more intimate than before.

The last point is to be able to use a lot of free time in your life to do something you love, or to do something that you didn't have the time and energy to do before to fulfill your hobbies and dreams. After all, a woman's life is not like leaving her husband and not turning. Therefore, during the period of separation between the two places, it can be just many months or nearly two years.

Women can't indulge in the depression of complaining all day long, but make good use of this time to accomplish some things that they wanted to do before but didn't have the time and energy to do. After all, this kind of life can be said to be the life of a single man and woman to a certain extent, if you can't effectively and efficiently allocate your excess energy, you will be empty and lonely, and do something that will cause harm to your marriage.

A wise woman will be by each other's side, will buy each other what she likes, and will also tolerate each other's temper, which is how to solve problems.

A smart woman will always keep in touch with each other, and express the needs of the other party, and there are many things that cannot be solved without the other party in life.

Smart women generally give each other some surprises from time to time, choose to meet each other after a long time, and communicate well with each other when they encounter problems.