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The reasons for the successive injuries of family members after the relocation of the elderly may be accidental, or they may be due to a combination of factors such as psychological factors and environmental changes. In this case, there are the following recommendations:
1.Stay calm: Don't panic and avoid making bad judgments or taking wrong actions due to emotional stress.
2.Analyze the causes: Analyze the causes that may lead to the injury of the family member, such as changes in the environment, psychological pressure, changes in the pace of life, etc.
3.Seek help: If a family member has a serious injury and needs urgent medical attention, they should seek medical help immediately.
4.Lifestyle adjustments: If your family's pace of life or circumstances changes, you need to adjust your lifestyle appropriately to adapt to the new situation.
5.Pay attention to family emotions: Family members may feel negative emotions such as sadness, loneliness, and helplessness after the removal of the elderly, and need to pay attention to their emotional changes and give support and comfort.
6.Avoid superstitious practices: Don't believe that superstitious practices, such as "moving graves," can change unfortunate fate, have no scientific basis and may cause more harm to family members.
In short, when family members are injured one after another, they need to stay calm, analyze the causes, seek help, adjust their lifestyle, pay attention to their emotions, and avoid superstitious practices. If the situation is serious, it is advisable to consult a professional doctor or psychologist in time.
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The whole family should be calmed down, sadness is too easy to have accidents, the whole family should adjust their mentality, return to normal life, have a good mentality, everything is fine, I wish the whole family happiness!
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It's just a coincidence that these things happened at home, don't. Thinking hard in this regard, it is better to actively do your own family defense. Analyze the reasons from the facts and draw lessons from the facts. Through their own efforts to do a good job, stronger and bigger themselves, this is the most reliable.
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One after another, I think it has nothing to do with the removal of the old man, and the attention is over,
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Don't be sad, don't be superstitious, it's normal for people to live, grow old, sick and die. It's normal for something bad to happen after your father's burial, maybe you haven't come out of your grief yet, you haven't dealt with some things well, and everyone has a fate, and fate is destined by God, and there is no way to change it. As for your brother, maybe he himself has a heart attack, and sadness is normal.
Don't doubt anything, you can go for a physical examination, usually strengthen physical exercise and nutrition, and have an open-minded mood, you will slowly get better, congratulations on getting better and better.
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The first thing you have to do is not to think that all this has nothing to do with your father's death, and your brother's death has nothing to do with your father's death.
The second is that you have to go to the hospital for a systematic examination to see if there are any hidden diseases.
The third is to test your own living environment, whether there is a best-in-class element, pay attention to your own living habits, and develop healthy living habits!
Embrace the sunshine. Everything will be fine!
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First go to my father's grave and talk to him.
Burn some paper. And then look at the situation.
There will be a change.
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The ancestral tombs have been destroyed one after another, you can put on surveillance, it will be much better.
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Precautions for moving graves.
Please adopt Thank you, landlord.
The poor changed the door, and the rich moved to the grave.
The traditional ancestor worship solar term "Qingming."
Coming soon.
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The luck of the family should be solemn, pay attention to 1, choose a new blessed land 2, choose a day 3, prepare supplies 4, worship, bury the official 5, worship those who do not want to move the grave, most of them are afraid that the new place is not good.
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What is the importance of moving graves in rural areas? Why move graves?
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When the elderly are dying, the most important thing to pay attention to is:First of all, be mentally prepared; Second, prepare for the funeral; Finally, it is necessary to pay attention to some specific problems before, during, and after the death of the elderly
1. First of all, be mentally prepared.
Most of the elderly die of illness, such as Parkinson's disease, cerebral infarction and other geriatric diseases. As a child, we must pay attention to the condition of the elderly, and if we find that the elderly are unable to eat, have difficulty swallowing, are unconscious, and express themselves unclearly, we must be mentally prepared that the elderly have little time and may leave at any time.
2. Second, prepare for the funeral.
Whether it is an elderly person in the city or an elderly person in the countryside, some farewell ceremonies or funerals will be held after death. As a child, you should learn more about these in advance and discuss the details of the funeral with your siblings and the surviving parent. If you wait until the people are gone to discuss, it will be too late by then, and many things will be difficult to control.
1) Discuss and determine the number of days for the funeral. The customs vary from place to place, with some places holding it for two or three days, and some places for four or five days. If the child is working in a foreign country, it is difficult to ask for leave or it is not easy to take too long leave, it is necessary to discuss and determine the number of days for the funeral.
If the number of days of the local funeral is calculated according to some eight characters, gossip, etc., and must be implemented, then it can only be determined by yourself.
2) Discuss and determine the items to be purchased for the funeral
First, it is necessary for the deceased. Such as coffins, shrouds, etc.
The second is the items required for the sacrifice. Such as paper money, incense candles, firecrackers, etc.
The third is the necessary items for white affairs. Such as tobacco and alcohol, melon seeds and peanuts, candy, meat, vegetables, etc. (the above items can be purchased during the funeral, and there are people who specialize in white affairs in various places, and they can buy according to their requirements.) )
3) Discuss and determine the apportionment method of the funeral expenses. If there is only one child in the family, it is basically up to you to figure it out alone. If there are several siblings in the family, then go straight to the equalization method.
3. Finally, some specific questions about the elderly before, during, and after death.
If you find that the elderly are running out of time, then you must do a good job in the final care of the problem, and you must discuss the specific issues such as taking care of the elderly and taking care of them by those people. There is a tradition in China that when parents die, it is better to have children by their side, the so-called "send-off". In addition, after the old man leaves, it involves a problem such as sending him back to his hometown for burial or pulling him to the funeral home for processing, which must be considered in advance.
For example, the vehicles that transport the dead must be put in place in advance. After the funeral, there are some mountain guards and heads.
7. Returning to the funeral and other customs, which can be discussed and determined after the funeral.
People are inherently dead, and after the death of the elderly, as a junior, they should be loyal and filial to them, after all, it is the last journey for the elderly. Therefore, some specific etiquette must be understood and respected.
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My mother and sister died in a car accident on the second day of the Lunar New Year thirteen years ago. At that time, I didn't believe that she had died, and I still didn't believe it when I saw her body. It was the first time in my life that I started to have insomnia, I didn't sleep for a whole week, I didn't eat or go hungry, and finally my son's little aunt put him in my arms and said a lot of words of persuasion before I started to eat.
In the past few years, when there was no business in the store, I worked hard to wipe things and read books. Don't dare to stop. When she stops, she will stare at the door of the store, and always feel like she will come back suddenly.
When I see her daughter by my side, I always think of the little ...... we had togetherWithout her, she felt that life was not interesting at all. But to make money, you have to laugh, laugh, laugh every day.
Until one day I couldn't laugh anymore, I made up my mind to forget about her and live a good life.
Once, she knew everything about me in this world. Later, when I grieved for me, no one knew; When I was sad, no one knew. I cared.
Now, I don't care. Even those who have sisters in this world are not easy to have the kind of deep affection between our sisters, and I am lucky enough to come to this world and meet her, my mother and sister, who will always make me believe that there are the most beautiful and sincere emotions in the world.
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It's been almost a month since my father died, he left too suddenly, too lonely, there was no one on the edge of his life, if someone was at home, it would not have been treated in time, and we didn't know what the reason was to take Dad's life, Dad is our day, the pillar of a large family, and my spiritual pillar, it can be said that all my efforts are for Dad, he is ...... goneGrandma is so heartbroken, my mother can't sleep and can't eat, my sister is uncomfortable and has been in the hospital several times, and I can't breathe from crying, but what can I do, I hold back my tears and secretly swear that I want to be strong and live well, take care of my family, and let my father feel at ease. It's all selfish thinking ......It's better to leave without pain like this, but my dad is so young, he is only 48 years old, he really can't believe it's true, and he doesn't want to face ......
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When I was 12 years old, she was 15 years old, and she died in the winter of 2000, and it snowed heavily that day, well, it was my sister. It was that year that my younger brother was born, and when he was 8 years old, he had an illness. Well, confirmed, brain tumor.
Mom took him to Zhengzhou, Xi'an, and finally to Beijing, at that time he infused 8 bottles of liquid every day, opened his eyes in the morning until it was completely dark to just end the day, and his arms were full of pinholes. Later, when the doctor in Beijing told her, she was carrying the young man on the street, and it was raining heavily that day, and she turned around and told me that she was lucky to remember the way back. I think at that moment, how helpless she was alone in such a big city Two years ago, I experienced a broken love and a car accident, and my parents didn't know it, but fortunately, I got better.
Time flies so fast, I am almost thirty this year, she has been away from us for more than ten years, and he, after so long, his condition has not deteriorated. I also returned to the city where I grew up, and I could see my parents every day when I went to and from work. Everything seems to be starting to get better.
After so many days of crying and crying, I never felt so sad again. I think that she wants to live a good life in another world.
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At three o'clock in the morning in late December of 03, my grandmother was really dying, I felt in my sleep that someone said that grandma is not good, hurry up, I got up and called grandma Sure enough, her old man opened his mouth and closed his eyes and breathed heavily, no matter how I called grandma, she just had no sound, my tears couldn't stop flowing, and now I still have an inexplicable sadness in my memory!
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My favorite sister, in her thirties, walked for half a month, I still can't believe it, the heartache turned out to be a real pain, I don't know when I can come out, I began to hope that there is another world, ghosts and gods or dimensions, I hope my sister is okay in another world, I hope she will bless her five-year-old daughter in heaven for a safe life!
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Dad was bedridden for four years and left, before belonging to a semi-vegetative state, the day I left, I was not particularly sad, maybe I was relieved for him in my heart, my sadness was gradual, first I felt that no one let me wait, empty, a month later, I began to think about him, and more and more I thought, two years have passed, I finally admit the reality, Dad can never come back, want to reunite, only wait for the next life.
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Dad passed away for 26 days, and there is not a day without tears. That kind of distress cannot be described in words. Since then, there has been no sense of security.
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My daughter is fourteen and a half years old, in the second year of junior high school, 1.65 meters tall, weighs a pound, she has been docile, beautiful, cute and cheerful since she was a child, she is a class flower, a group pet, and she ranks in the top 30 in the grade department. She's gone, I just want to be alone, I don't want to see people, I don't want to talk....
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Dear mother, it's been almost two months since you left us, love your daughter, I miss you all the time, my favorite mother, my daughter will continue to move forward with your hope and care, we will see each other again, you just went to another place, where will you wait for me, because we have never separated.
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Now as long as I mention it, I will shed tears and even cry when I think of my parents! But there are so many times to think of them! When I see something delicious, I think of them; When I see the elderly, I think of them; Take the subway, take the train, I will think that they haven't taken it yet; Listen**, you will think that they like to sing Huangmei!
This kind of heartache, no one can understand!
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Today, my husband left less than 20 days, all of a sudden I feel that time flies so slowly, when there are many people, it is better, when a person, I can't help but think about him, I will involuntarily burst into tears, I don't want others to see, people who have not experienced it can not be experienced, only send time, let everything fade it, I still have children, for children, I can't let myself fall, now I am the child's day, the only reliance, except to be strong, I have no choice!
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You must relax, people can't come back from death, it takes a while to come out of grief, you have to learn to slowly forget, you go to divert your attention, go out for a trip, relax your mood, think about some happy things, and slowly it will get better.
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It's been 16 years since my father passed away, and I cried to death, but my uncle saved me with a clay method. It's only been eight days since my mother passed away, and I'm already crying so much that my throat is hoarse, vomiting and diarrhea are dehydrated, and I'm still getting injections today.
It could be a coincidence, or it could be luck. You can take a look at "Taishang Induction Chapter" and think about it yourself. "The Three Official Classics" and the "Beidou Sutra" are just right to relieve misfortune and eliminate sins.
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