After seven years of marriage, the relationship gradually faded, is divorce the final ending?

Divorce is indeed the final ending, I think that since the relationship between two people is almost gone, there is really no need to spend the rest of their lives in such a marriage, otherwise both of them will only become more painful.

It doesn't have to be the end, you both need to make some changes and slowly cultivate the relationship.

No, this is the so-called 7-year itch, at this time, two people should actively manage their marriage, manage their feelings, and get through this dull period.

After three years of marriage, we start to get tired of it, and I think that generally about three or four years, especially after having children, everyone will quickly get tired of married life and tired of each other.

Not long after we got married, I conceived a baby, due to malnutrition, and because I didn't know how to cook, my husband didn't have time to take care of me, so I could only go to my mother-in-law's house for a while, and then I felt that my husband and my husband slowly began to be estranged, I told him many times, his mother is not my mother, it is impossible to treat me like my mother, but he doesn't listen, he always says that his parents are very good, how is it, but I went to my mother-in-law's house, my mother-in-law plays mahjong every day, The cooking is not on time, and my father-in-law smokes at home every day, and it is useless to say it, and at this time he always says that I am not sensible, etc., and slowly finds that he is unwilling to call him to say these things.

Later, I went back to my parents' house, and my mother took care of me, she had a lot of things to do, but she was also taking care of me wholeheartedly, because I was pregnant and vomited too much, my appetite was really not good, and I was very picky, so I could feel the distress of my parents, and then after giving birth, my in-laws did not say to help take care of the confinement, nor did they say to help take care of the child, in short, my confinement was taken care of by my mother, and he felt that his mother's waist was not good, and I had to understand.

Later, we couldn't take the baby alone, and it was true that I wouldn't take care of it alone, so I took the baby back to my parents' house and <>

His parents didn't hit one, at first I and he would have a **, and then slowly I didn't want to pick him up**, and I didn't want to tell him too much, we were separated for about ten months after I went back, I felt that the two of them couldn't feel like when they were in love, at that time we had just been married for three years, and the feeling at that time was that I really wanted to return to a life alone.

Don't be confused by the so-called seven-year itch.

In fact, I think that communication between two people getting married is the most important thing, and they must communicate when they encounter things, don't take it to heart and don't say it, and don't communicate, it will only be a cold war, you must know that the cold war really affects the relationship between two people. Therefore, if you don't want to destroy the relationship, the best way is to solve the conflict, and I really hope that everyone's marriage will be happy, and they can continue to grow old, and there will be no more divorce.

I think people often say that the seven-year itch is past the stage of happiness and sweetness, and the stage of passionate love, so it is fragile, and the slightest bit of unhappiness can ruin one's happiness.

Maybe it's because the distance is too close, familiar with each other's shortcomings, or when you're in love, you just need to fall in love, if it's a marriage, it may be that you have too many responsibilities, and you end up going your separate ways.

Falling in love is not the same as getting married, you can not think about anything when you fall in love, but marriage is different, after marriage, it is vegetables, rice, oil and salt, so marriage tests the feelings of two people more.