How should husband and wife get along, and how should husband and wife get along?

As the saying goes, everything has a time when it has passed its expiration date, let alone a relationship. In the face of time, no relationship can withstand the tempering of time.

In fact, this is also a problem that many couples often face. Most couples are afraid that as time goes on, the relationship between two people will fade like water. Even the mode of getting along between two people has become unfamiliar, and life has to be passed.

In this case, of course, life is boring and boring. 02

The most important thing for husband and wife to get along is to respect each other and love each other. So, if we want to keep two people warm all the time, we need to pay attention to the following three points:

Clause. 1. Put each other at ease.

Putting the other person in mind is the most important point in a relationship. If two people have no other in their hearts, then this relationship and marriage will have no meaning. There is naturally no taste for two people to get along.

How do you call it reassuring? It's not about buying, buying, buying! Rather, you remember my love, and I remember your love. In the festival, in life, give each other a little love and warmth, and always take what each other says to heart.

I think a good way for a friend of mine to get along with his wife. They say I love you to each other every day, which seems to be a very childish behavior, but since they got married, they have maintained it.

Clause. Second, men should love women.

In marriage, the man is always the strong party, and the woman is like water and needs to be cared for. For example, doing housework is something that any man should know.

Not all women are destined to become housewives, this is a wrong idea. At home, we need to support each other. Moreover, two people doing housework together will help to warm up the relationship between husband and wife.

Not long ago, a colleague of mine revealed during a meal that on weekends, he would help his wife with household chores, not to mention how happy his wife was.

When a woman chooses a man, what she needs is to be down-to-earth. Sometimes, it is reflected in the details and life.

Clause. 3. Mutual trust and respect.

Trust and respect are needed in any relationship, let alone between husband and wife. If there is no trust between two people, then this marriage is destined to be tragic and will not last long.

To choose a person, you have to trust wholeheartedly, we can become a person. In order to gain each other's trust, it is necessary not to play ambiguous, not to disappear, and to make each other's whereabouts, friends, and colleagues generously transparent.

The same goes for respect. Respect can make each other's lives easier, more comfortable with each other, and more of their own lives. A person treats each other with an important attitude, words and deeds, and always takes each other's affairs seriously as important things, and the other party will also consider you from your perspective and understand each other.

03 A long-term marriage requires two people to run together and work together. Therefore, husband and wife need to have a good way of getting along in order to get along for a long time.

Don't blame one party for running a marriage, the family, it's each other's!

How to get along with husband and wife, it seems to be a very simple question, but it is the most difficult problem, the first floor says so much about each other is not wrong, but it is not so easy to do, each couple's personality is different, so not so much mutual can be, and people's character is not forever changed. Both husband and wife should also pay attention to gradually overcoming their own shortcomings, and if they are too hasty, they should overcome their impatience with their hearts and be more calm; If the temperament is too slow, you should pay attention to the speed of the work. But it should be noted that it is important not to transform the other person, but to respect the other person and help the other person.

In this way, the husband and wife will be harmonious and happy. As a man should care more about his wife, occasionally call romantically on the holiday, send some small gifts, in fact, women are very satisfied, will not care about what you give, but care about her position in your heart, as a man should also let his wife more, since they have come together, it is good to go through your life hand in hand, I hope you and your wife will always be happy and happy.

Respect for each other, respect for marriage, that is, respect for yourself. Everything is mutual, and in the emotional world, the way to manage marriage boils down to doing these three things well! If you can respect each other in these three areas, you can probably start and end your marriage well!

1. Talk about your needs and feelings.

The most important way of communication between husband and wife is to communicate, to tell each other their needs, so that the other party understands their inner feelings, instead of half-talking and letting the other party work hard to conjecture.

You must know that many times no one will seriously guess the other party's thoughts, that kind of married life is very tiring, and it is easy to have disagreements and different views.

Because, everyone is an independent individual, and the way of thinking is independent, not that the "roundworm" in someone else's stomach can't guess the other person's mind.

Therefore, couples need to be bold enough to speak up about their needs and how they feel in their married life. It's as if a woman wants her husband's concern and just says "I want you to hug it". Simple and straightforward, men don't bother guessing.

2. More trust, less suspicion.

When husband and wife get along, the most important foundation is trust, once trust collapses, the marriage of two people will fall into a mess, and the reason will be continuous, cut and messy.

In fact, in marriage, the biggest thing is to start with suspicion and suspicion, when one of the husband and wife makes small moves behind the other party's back, the other party will inevitably have suspicion.

Once the other party catches the small handle, the trust value of the two people will drop to 0 points, and it will be difficult to ease.

Therefore, when husband and wife get along with each other, they need to be frank and open, not to engage in small actions, to increase each other's trust value, and reduce the harm caused by suspicion.

3. More encouragement and praise, less complaining.

If husband and wife often praise their partners, it will increase the happiness index of the family, and each other will be full of happiness, and the husband and wife get along very well.

If a couple often belittles each other, it will make the other person lose self-confidence, and over time, resentment will arise.

In married life, the wife needs praise, and the husband needs praise, and the praise of each other will make the other person think that everything he has done for the family is worth it.

Husband and wife must first know how to respect each other, no matter how superior the conditions of one of the husband and wife are at present, we must know how to establish an equal relationship between husband and wife, and must not discriminate against each other, because people have the ability to size, family conditions are not the same, or their own professional and advantages are different, and it is impossible to achieve a balance between the conditions of the husband and wife or the ability to make money, this is a very normal thing, of course, this is also a very critical aspect of getting along, please pay attention to the contradictions between husband and wife are many caused by discrimination against each other, I hope you will resolve them.

Husband and wife should trust each other, trust each other is the basis of marriage management, in the workplace, social friends, it is inevitable that there will be work group gatherings or friends gatherings and other aspects of entertainment.

If it is convenient to bring your lover, you can bring your lover to participate, and if it is inconvenient to bring it, you should also explain to your lover what the party is, so as not to make the other party suspicious and think more. Don't go home drunk at the party, which will affect the normal life of the couple.

Husbands and wives should respect each other, understand each other, tolerate each other, and discuss things together. Communicate more and communicate more. The most important thing in the relationship between husband and wife is trust, and they must trust each other.

If there is no mutual trust between husband and wife, then the relationship will slowly change. Because it is easy to produce suspicion, this will affect the relationship between husband and wife, and produce unnecessary troubles and unnecessary contradictions. It is easy for the relationship between husband and wife to become tense, so it is not easy to get along, and some will even go to the demise of the marriage, that is, it is possible to divorce.

Marriage also needs to be cared for by both parties. Take proper care of each other, and give each other appropriate surprises during the New Year's holidays and birthdays.

Husbands and wives are also prone to conflicts, so after conflicts, they must also learn how to deal with contradictions, how to solve contradictions, and how to face contradictions. Life is full of contradictions, and without contradictions, there is no life. Therefore, it is also very important to deal with conflicts between husband and wife.

1. Leave each other some free space, everyone has some secrets in their hearts, and loving too tightly will make each other feel depressed and suffocated, just like sand in your hands, the tighter you grasp it, the easier it is to lose. There is a degree to everything, and beyond this degree, the relationship will deteriorate. Therefore, couples should pay attention to grasp the degree of spatial freedom.

2Learn to respect each otherTo make the other party respect you, you must first learn to respect others. This is especially true between husband and wife. She is not your nanny, he is not your slave, you are two people who love each other as equals. Only by respecting each other can we get along amicably.

3. Think more about each other, learn to be considerate and tolerant of each other. Wives should learn to understand that it is not easy for their husbands to work, and occasionally complain a little when they come home from work, so as a wife, they must learn to tolerate. Husbands need to be more responsible and responsible, a woman was originally the little princess of the family, after following you, she will give birth to children for you, take care of your parents, and do laundry and cook for you.

She can sacrifice like this, what reason do you have not to be good to her.

4. Treat each other's strengths and weaknesses correctlyNo one is perfect, there are always advantages and disadvantages. In life, wives tend to count down their husband's shortcomings, such as not being able to cook, not being able to do housework, if you have these thoughts, you should think of the other person's strengths first. Don't magnify each other's shortcomings, be more tolerant of each other, life will be more sunny, and everything should not be taken seriously.

5. Don't bring your work emotions home.

Home is a harbor of anchorage, a place to perch. Don't take your work emotions home or even vent them on the other person. This is the stupidest thing to do. We need to learn to confide in each other and to give encouragement and comfort to one another.

6. Learn to add interest to life.

No matter how vigorous love is, after years of baptism, it will eventually transform into blandness. Therefore, we must learn to add interest to life, so that life can be nourishing and moisturizing. For example, a kiss in the morning, a hug when you go out, a small surprise, a sentence I love you, these seemingly simple actions can increase the feelings between each other.

The most important thing between husband and wife is communication, which is the most basic, this is very, very important, we must communicate, understand and tolerate each other, only in this way can we get along!

1 Don't snub each other, how should husband and wife get along? Married, have children, life is stressful, there are more things, busy things and tired mess, less communication between husband and wife, each busy life has become dominant, so both husband and wife will slowly feel that the other party is snubbing themselves, there is no time to take care of themselves, gradually will be dissatisfied, quarrels will follow, so, no matter how busy you are, there is still time to talk about it, no matter how tired you are, you still have the strength to care for each other, care more about it, and have more warmth.

2 Don't say sad wordsMany couples will say whatever they say when they quarrel, scold each other, as long as they can scold and win, as long as their scolding is louder than the other party and the other party is powerless to refute it, they will not care about whether their scolding will hurt each other, just want to be happy, so after the two people reconcile, some sad words will occasionally come to mind, so unbearable, sad in my heart, husband and wife are people who have been together for a lifetime, don't hurt each other's hearts.

3 It is very important to discuss something between husband and wife, otherwise unilaterally deciding something without informing the other half will make the other half feel that he is not respected, and he does not even have the right to know.

4 Give each other enough trust Trust between husband and wife is indispensable, any suspicion and suspicion can cause big contradictions, such as a late return can cause the other party's severe questioning, a strange ** can be asked for a long time, such a life is tired, because no one can stand the other party does not trust themselves, every day is interrogated and suspicious like a thief, no matter how good the relationship, it will be worn away, if there is no trust, what are you going to do together.

The relationship between husband and wife does need to be managed, and managing feelings is a process of resolving contradictions and turning hostilities into friendships.

1. Husband and wife respect each other.

To respect each other, no matter how important you are in this home, even if you can't open the pot in your home, you must have a heart of respect for each other; Respect each other in words and deeds. Don't put yourself in a position of superiority.

2 Husbands and wives should be treated equally.

Treat each other equally; Put the other person in the same position as yourself; Every moment you have to think that the other party is the lover you want to get along with for the rest of your life; He or she is as important to himself or herself as he or she is to the family.

3 There is a measure of deliberation in all things between husband and wife.

Husbands and wives discuss everything. Don't be assertive, say nothing at home, no matter what the other person thinks, do whatever you want to do, and completely ignore the other person's feelings.

4 Husbands and wives are to show love for each other in words.

Show love for the other person in words; Don't skimp on your declaration of love; Everyone loves to hear the love words of the people they love.

5 Husbands and wives are to show love for each other in their actions.

To show love for the other person is not only to speak, but also to act; For example, give each other a little surprise from time to time.

6 Husbands and wives should be concerned with each other.

Husbands and wives should care for each other; Be careful in life, and if you find anything uncomfortable with the other person's body, you should find out in time and accompany the other party to see a doctor or take care of them at the bedside. If you find that the other party is in a bad mood or unhappy, you should find out in time and explain the other party; Find a way to make the other person happy.

In short, if husband and wife want to get along well, they must know how to manage their feelings, and both parties must give sincerely.