Why does my heart hurt so much! Am I wrong? Or am I thinking too much! Alas!

True love is like water, that is the truth after the veil of love has faded and experienced the ups and downs of life, for people who have not paid or have not received true love, true love is a kind of care and care from the heart, there are no gorgeous words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it, love is so plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words. Feel it with your heart.

Love is inclusive rather than indulgent, love is caring rather than pampering, love is blending rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness, love is a lifelong thing...

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

Done, I hope it helps you with your question, if you are satisfied with o(o...Ha ha.

The most important thing is that you have to let go of yourself, it is you who want to think, the more you force yourself to forget, but the more unforgettable it is, but in the face of pain, we often bring a magnifying glass to look at life in just a few decades, don't leave yourself any regrets, laugh if you want to laugh, cry when you want to cry, love when you should love, and learn to give up when you should give up. There is no need to suppress yourself.

Remember what should be remembered and forget what should be forgotten. Change what can be changed, accept what can't be changed. In life, there are constantly people leaving or entering.

In fact, so much is just to comfort you, because you are very serious, you care, you really put your heart into it, there is no way to forget, if you can be a little more selfish, maybe it won't hurt so much, but unfortunately, love is not if this is a process, you must go through the process but you have to cheer yourself up.

So, what is seen, what is not seen; What is remembered, forgotten.

In life, there are constantly gains and losses.

And he that which was not seen, saw it; Forgotten, remembered.

However, what is not seen is the same as not existing?

Remember, is it never going to go away? In fact, many of the injuries in life are not as serious as I imagined. If, not taking it seriously, he wouldn't be in pain.

If you feel pain, it is because you think that the wound is hurting, and you are afraid that the wound is hurting, how do you look at a thing, its mentality is very important, just like the optimist sees the fried doughnut, and the pessimist sees that it is indeed a hole You should learn to let go and say to yourself: What is there? When you dare to face the big deal, you will start to forget because your heart is already calm, and what things do not need to be remembered.

You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!

When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;

The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!

No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?

Love is not possession!

You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.

In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:

Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.

The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!

knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;

Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.

When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".

In love, one thing is said and another is done;

The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......

Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.

Is it a matter of feelings? I'm also often jealous for no reason, it's okay, it's normal, just don't put all your heart on one person!

Happiness will not always wait to answer you, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't found out that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

I sincerely wish you to find true love.

Have a nice day! Thank you o(o

True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think about him (her), you will be excited when you see it, your heart beats faster, you will feel very warm and safe when you are together, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you also get another kind of happiness in the process of this investigation! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).

In contrast, I believe in myself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

Dear landlord.

I've had your question before.

If two people are serious, they are really in love

It is absolutely impossible to be friends after a breakup.

If both of them are just having fun

You may also be friends after the breakup

You can't be friends because you've hurt each other, and you can't be enemies because you've loved each other!

It is precisely because of the past vows that it can only be a stranger!

Even if you are friends, you can't be a real friend anymore, and there is a separation in your heart...

If two people have no feelings for each other because of time, maybe they can be friends in a superficial sense!

If one party still has feelings, the party with feelings will want to continue to be friends, but in fact, even friends are spoiled

And if couples break up due to contradictions, betrayals, etc., it will only be strangers!

What can two people do if they become friends?

Look at the people you once loved

And now you don't love each other anymore

Now that we are friends, how should we get along with each other, how should we deal with it?

That might just remind you of your past.

It only hurts more

Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends.

But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery.

We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back? Keep going until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

A breakup is a breakup, and you must never mention being friends.

If you don't love him (her) anymore, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep him (her) if you still love him/her, and don't ask him (her) to turn back.

When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends.

Just the most familiar strangers.

Let time fade everything that once was

Just let it be a rainbow in memory

I wish you happiness

Maybe I didn't let go, but I still want to be friends.

The landlord is welcome to continue to ask.

Don't text him all the time.

Don't look for him all the time.

You may just want to talk to him.

You think that's normal, it's not demanding.

But maybe he didn't think so.

Remember, your thoughts don't represent his thoughts.

Are you really liking him without expecting anything in return?

Ask yourself.

Are you sure you don't need him to reciprocate anything?

Then why are you sad.

If you really want nothing.

How can you feel sad?

So don't think it's great that you love him so much.

Maybe she doesn't care how you pay for him.

Sometimes the love you give him can be a burden.

This burden will only make him want to get away from you even more.

Because he doesn't want to owe you.

Don't worry about him, do anything for him.

You think he can't do without you.

You feel like others can't be as perfect as you are.

But you have to be clear.

You're not the guy he wants.

No matter how perfect you are, you can't compete with others not doing it.

That position wasn't yours in the first place..

Why do you insist on squeezing in?

Looking forward to your adoption!

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun... Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude.

Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up. Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

In fact, to tell the truth, heartache can only be healed with heart, you can only let yourself hide in the corner and use time to slowly heal, return to nature to heal the wound of the soul, wait for the wound to heal, love the pain, to completely forget how easy it is to say, to really forget how many people can be, that may be absolutely impossible, but also to lie to yourself, some memories can only be buried deep in the heart for eternity, just use time to slowly forget, learn to give up. Some people or some things, inadvertently missed or lost in the years of time, occasionally pick up the memories, will spontaneously give birth to a wisp of romantic feelings recalling the past, it contains a sense of seeing things and thinking about people, the sigh of the past. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go, letting go is a helpless despair, and it hurts my heart.

When the people who once really loved the release of life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized that what they thought was eternally long, in fact, it was just a meeting in Pingshui. I once thought that I could hold hands all the way down like this, but let go to understand that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel lines are still parallel, even if they are not far apart, it is also the end of the world, the price of bravery is to let go of themselves first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, helplessly wish them happiness, from then on, if the heart stops, it is difficult to make waves. In fact, it is impossible to completely forget a person quickly, and it is also deceiving yourself, just keeping the deep affection in the memory and forgetting the pain of the past, because the most beautiful blessing is to remember a person, the best hard work is to think of a person will cry, the greatest satisfaction is what you give, and love will become unforgettable after suffering something.

Love can be a momentary thing or a lifetime thing. Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love?

A person is not lonely, but a person who thinks is lonely. It's only when you care too much about someone that love becomes a burden.