Talk about how others are, but actually how you are

Buddha Yin said to Su Dongpo: "Guanjun sits in a posture that resembles the Buddha. Su Dongpo was overjoyed in his heart and said to the Buddha: "The Venerable Master sits like a pile of cow dung. Monk Buddha Yin smiled silently.

Buddhist scripture cloud: "The heart has thoughts, the eyes have seen".

Buddha Yin has a Buddha in his heart, so he sees Su Zi as a Buddha, and Su Shi sees him as cow dung, because there is only cow dung in his heart.

The meaning of this sentence is that everyone has their own characteristics, and it is necessary to put other people's opinions correctly and not blindly change yourself in order to cater to others. For example, Xiao Ming is very good at sprinting, and he can run first in the 100-meter race. I'm not as fast as him, but I'm good at drawing.

So, I can't give up my drawing skills just to practice running.

Human abilities are multifaceted, but the various abilities manifest themselves in different forms in each person, and there are differences between people in some specific aspects. Uniqueness is the essential characteristic of each person and the premise of development.

Summary. No one is perfect. No matter how good you are, some people will still say that you are not good, because people have an emotion called jealousy.

No one is perfect. No matter how good you are, some people will still say that you are not good, because people have an emotion called jealousy.

When others say you're bad, as long as you think it's good, don't care too much about what others think.

Some people always say that they are good and others are bad, but in fact, he has a kind of this. It's too confident because everyone has their own characteristics. Well, there are advantages and disadvantages. Perfect.

If a person only sees his own strengths and does not see his weaknesses, then he may not be able to make great progress. And if he can't see the good in others, he may not be particularly good at interpersonal relationships.

Yes, some people only say that they are good and say that others are bad, this is a very narcissistic kind of person, is a kind of person who can't see the shortcomings and mistakes of others, just sees the shortcomings and mistakes of others, such people are people who don't want to make progress Yes, some people just say that they are good and say that others are bad, this is a very narcissistic kind of person, it is a kind of person who can't see the shortcomings and mistakes of the shortcomings and mistakes of not seeing their own shortcomings and mistakes, just seeing the shortcomings and mistakes of others, such people are people who don't want to make progress.

Generally speaking, if a person wants to make an objective evaluation of himself, he should know it from the mouth of others. If you subjectively always think that you are better than others, you may belong to the category of comparing yourself.

First of all, you have to look within yourself to find out what is wrong with what you are doing in your daily life. Because the masses are a ruler that can measure your strengths and weaknesses. If you find your own shortcomings, make up your mind to correct them thoroughly, and turn everyone's criticism into your motivation to move forward, you will gradually become a popular person.

Others say about me. I'm jealous of you.

This has to be analyzed from many aspects, mainly divided into two situations, the first is that you are a great person, others are jealous of you and say that you are not good here or there, in this case, you follow your feelings, don't care what those people say; Second, you are not good enough in some aspects, causing others to be disgusted, so you have to reflect on whether you are not good enough, such as whether you are very tolerant in your personality, whether your words provoke others, there are many people who are not able to make jokes, so you should pay proper attention to the language aspect of this group.

Only by being together and getting along well can we be happy!!

You do things perfectly, but you are far from speaking, and it will also cause others to envy and hate you, saying that you are not good. That's not good.

Go your own way and let others say go. Besides, if others say that you are going to be sad, then you must not die of sadness every day, besides, we ourselves are not RMB, it is impossible for everyone to like themselves, as long as they and the people they care about feel that they are good, it's okay.

<>People who think they are true usually act with sincerity, integrity, and honesty as their norms, they do not dislike or hide their true colors, and they respect and stick to their values and beliefs. This type of person tends to have a high sense of responsibility and stability, willing to take responsibility for themselves and do their best to get the job done, while also giving people a sense of trustworthiness in their relationships. However, some people who think they are real may lack sufficient flexibility and tolerance, and Hyokai may be too opinionated and lack an open mind when it comes to different people and things.

Summary. Actually, if that's the case, my dear, I don't think it's necessary for you to have such thoughts with them, saying that you are like this. When those people say this about you, they actually want to find a sense of existence in you, they want to make you unhappy, so they are jealous of you.

Maybe it's because you're on better terms than they are. I think since you think that you are not that kind of person, you just want to be yourself, and the most important thing is to be happy, in this current society, to be honest, everyone is selfish, and it is impossible for you to do when others are satisfied with you.

When people always talk about how I am, I'm not that kind of person.

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Actually, if that's the case, my dear, I don't think it's necessary for you to have such thoughts with them, saying that you are like this. When those people say this about you, they actually want to find a sense of existence in you, they want to make you unhappy, so they are jealous of you. Maybe it's because you're too late to open your eyes than they are.

I think since you think that you are not that kind of person, you can just do yourself, and it is the most important thing to be happy yourself, and in this current society, to be honest, everyone is selfish, and it is impossible for you to do when others are satisfied with you.

I remember that many male classmates said that I didn't talk much, and this kind of talk didn't seem to be lethal, but for me like me, who is sensitive to my heart and has low self-esteem and appearance anxiety, I hate them saying that. I was a bit introverted and didn't talk much, but I promised that I was very talkative in front of my blind friends, and I tried to talk to them, but I could see that they didn't want to talk to me, so I simply didn't talk about it, and then when I came to high school, there was a boy and a girl who searched and slipped with me, and I was assigned to a class, and I didn't have a good relationship with them, and I found that they told other students a lot of things about me, and I was really overwhelmed.

In fact, I don't think you care what they think of you, being happy is the most important thing to tell Mu Zi, Naina does a good job in your studies, and they will naturally come to your side. Socks.