Mindset determines the perception of the world, and your perception is determined by mindset

Mindset is the window of the mind, and mindset determines what kind of world we see. If you want to see the world in a more comprehensive way, make the window a little bigger and make your heart wider; If you want to be happy, close the gray windows and let your heart face the light; If you want to be happy, stay away from the troubles of the world and make your heart simple. We have to learn to manage our own lives, not to mess around every day, not to stay up every day, but to enjoy life every day.

An optimistic mindset can survive even in a desperate situation. After all, success always comes to optimistic people. But if you don't want to be motivated, think of everything in a bad way. Even in the most favorable circumstances, he will continue to mourn and fail.

Hello dear, I think you're right! Mindset is a person's attitude and psychological state towards things and people, and it does affect a person's perception of the world. A slag-digging mentality can make a person more optimistic, confident and open-minded, and it is easier to see the beauty and opportunities of the world; A negative state of mind can make a person more depressed, anxious and closed-minded, making it easier to see the gloom and difficulties of the world.

Mentality not only affects a person's own emotions and attitudes, but also affects a person's interactions with others and society. A positive mindset can make it easier for a person to establish good interpersonal relationships with others, and it is easier to be recognized and supported by others; A negative mindset will make a person more prone to friction and conflict with others, and it will be more difficult to get the understanding and support of others. Therefore, we should maintain a positive attitude as much as possible, encourage ourselves to see more of the positive and beautiful sides of things, think and solve problems from our own perspective, and maintain good communication and exchanges with others as much as possible.

At the same time, we must also learn to face setbacks and difficulties, maintain certain coping skills and psychological resilience, and constantly improve our mentality and cognitive level in the process of continuous growth and development.

Every time I go to my child's grandmother's house or my grandmother's house, I will experience the same thing - feeding, whether the child is watching TV or playing with toys at the time, as long as I can eat the food that is fed to my mouth, he is a good child. In the eyes of the elders, children's eating is the first priority, and whether they can do things independently and attentively is a matter of the future.

I'm very depressed that the elders pushed the habits that needed to be formed in time to the time point, and I unconsciously expanded the problems that occurred at the time point to the time period.

Zheng Yuanjie said in his "Zheng Yuanjie Family Education Class" that having a child is equivalent to giving yourself a chance to live again and re-experience your childhood time.

When I used to read this sentence, I thought that reliving means to accompany the child to relive his childhood, play with toys that he has not played with, and see scenery that he has not seen. Later, after listening to Teacher Zhang Ni's parenting class, I had a deeper understanding of the phrase "live again".

Toys, landscapes, etc. are sensory experiences, and the real meaning of reliving is the spiritual experience, through the growth of children to see their own growth process, see themselves, in order to have the ability to understand others.

Before I became a parent, I was also a child, and our parents were also children before they were parents, and each generation has its own concept of raising the next generation, which comes from **? The vast majority of parents raise their children out of instinctive love and personal perception and cognition, commonly known as experience.

Parents' love for their children is essentially the same, but they will form different parenting concepts because of each person's different perceptions and cognitions. Everyone has their own perception and cognition of the world, and we all see the world through our own perspective, and there are controllable and uncontrollable factors in it.

Uncontrollable factors include: age, gender identity, gender, nationality, sexual orientation, mental and physical condition, and ethnicity. Controllable factors include: education, political beliefs, family, organizational responsibilities, language and communication skills, income, beliefs, appearance, and work experience.

Knowing this, my biggest gain is that I can understand the elders feeding their children. There are so many differences between me and my elders, how can I ask them to think the same way as I do. When I let my children eat independently and they feed their children, they are all expressions of love, so why do I think that my way is love, and their way is doting.

The original perception led me into a logical trap and expanded the problem that occurred at the point in time to the time period. I think that if a child goes to Changyuanshan's house once a week, he will lose the ability to eat independently if he is fed once or twice, but in fact, there are many possibilities for the child's growth, and I think of the worst one, and this kind of cognition does nothing for the child except to make me anxious.

Children's growth needs our companionship, encouragement and care, but we don't need our anxiety, and the expansion of cognition can make us more peaceful.

Growing up to a certain extent, there is a deep or shallow cognition of the surrounding world, which is different from people, in the final analysis, people have different perceptions, different realms, different cognitions, and different mentalities.

I like to listen to others talk about some things that I have not been involved in, and I will listen carefully to their thoughts and opinions, because I am very clear about the hail calendar, and at present, only listening will know more, understand more deeply, of course, after listening, I will also recall and comprehend, only to find that in fact, things are really not single, it is created in all aspects, and only at this time do I know that the mentality is really based on their own cognition. I have always been very envious and admire the kind of people who are peaceful and have a strong heart, and I always thought that I was born like this, only to find that I was learning step by step, and cultivating step by step, because I know my own shortcomings clearly, and continue to learn to understand all aspects, to expand my understanding at a deeper level, and over time, the sharp edges and corners have disappeared in the broad heart peace and harmony, and the vast heart will contain everything and become soft.

In terms of cognition, how high do you feel your level of individuality is?

I think that's something that many of us don't think about.

There are four levels of cognition:

I don't know I don't know;

know that you don't know;

Know that you know;

I don't know I know.

At first glance, it's a bit of a mouthful. It's a bit confusing.

Below, let's search one by one.

1. I don't know I don't know.

The situation is ignorance. Most of us have this problem. At this time, we are prone to pride and complacency, or choose to ignore it and simply lie flat. In short, just stop moving.

2. Know that you don't know.

In this case, the awakening begins. I realized that I was not sensitive enough and wanted to improve myself and change the status quo through hard work. At this time, we are humble, diligent and studious, and not ashamed to ask questions. At this level, you are on your way to the strong.

3. Know that you know.

In this case, have a clear understanding of yourself. Knowing your strengths and weaknesses, you will build on your strengths and avoid your weaknesses, choose a goal that suits you, and then work hard to achieve it. At this time, we tend to have clear ideas, clear goals, high efficiency, and are relatively easy to succeed.

4. I don't know I know.

This kind of person is generally an expert and scholar. Their philosophy is that there is no end to learning.

A lifetime of hard work, deep cultivation in their own field. In the eyes of outsiders, their achievements are star-studded, but they themselves feel that there is still a lot to learn and more unknowns to explore.

As ordinary people, most of us stay in the first two realms.

However, the realm can be raised.

You don't have to tell me that you don't have the time, the energy, or the means.

If, you want to do it, there will always be a way; If, you don't want to do it, there will always be an excuse.

The fruit of the skin depends on how determined you are to become stronger.

The so-called "global mentality", which consists of three elements:

1. Intellectual capital, knowledge of international business operations, and the ability to learn.

2. Psychological capital, openness to foreign cultures, and the ability to change.

3. Social capital, the ability to build contacts and unite people, and whether there is the ability to influence stakeholders (colleagues, customers, businessmen, regulators) who are different from your cultural traditions, professional backgrounds or political orientations.

Global Perspective:

Individuals don't just have a global passport, they have a global passport in their heads. This means that he is able to adapt to a variety of environments. Another said that it's a natural curiosity, the curiosity to learn and learn about other cultures, and if you don't have curiosity about other people's ways of thinking, it's hard for you to get along with them.

And one of my favorite definitions I've heard is that a global perspective means being able to stand up in an environment that makes you uncomfortable, when you're uncomfortable, so in this case, you're not in your comfort zone.

Comfort zone means spending time with people who make you comfortable, but other people are different from you, so someone with a global perspective has the attitude that you can handle it even if you are with people from different backgrounds, and even if others may cause you uncomfortable situations, Duan will never understand you.