What should I do if I don t have a good relationship with the people in the dormitory?

I've read what you've written, you're a freshman now, and I hope what I'm saying can help you, and I've had that problem before, and now I'm a sophomore and have a good relationship with the dorm, and we both think of our dorm as our common home.

What I want to tell you is that you are not absolutely wrong, and it is not that the people in your dormitory are wrong, I understand your feelings, and we hope that the relationship between each other can be better. But some things are not what we want to do, for this situation, the most important thing is that you have to understand, not that everyone is in a dormitory, the relationship must be good, no one has such a rule, and besides, the dormitory is just a place for you to sleep, equivalent to your bedroom, you don't spend a lot of time in your own bedroom every day, so even though everyone has a dormitory, it doesn't mean that you have to be friends, if you can't plug in or they don't exist at all, it doesn't matter, we just do ourselvesIn addition, don't try to please others, useless, this will only make others look down on us more, what you have to do is, don't lock yourself in a small dormitory circle and can't get out, of course, we are normal people, we need friends, so it is recommended that you go to the environment outside the dormitory to find friends with common hobbies, and make more friends. Finally, I want to tell you, don't pay too much attention to this matter, it will affect you, put your mind right, what to do, don't care about others, remember that you are very good, and you deserve to be treated sincerely by many people.

Dormitory relationships have always been a delicate issue, so just let it be.

It's hard to say it's your problem, don't just blame yourself and find a way to build a good relationship with them.

First of all, think about whether you have the same interests as them, such as basketball, **, movies, etc., and find a way to start with your interests and communicate with them with your interests.

Second, communicate with them on their studies. I don't know what the learning atmosphere in your dormitory is, but my roommate and I are close to each other in our studies.

Of course, it's more advantageous if you can help them in some way.

As long as there is a sincere heart.

Those stupid people may have been good friends in the past, so they don't want to associate with you.

Patience and patience everyone has their own hearts, and they will go with them as much as they like.

In the university dormitory, everyone is very conscious, and if one of the roommates sleeps, the other roommates will keep themselves quiet.

The four years in college, the four years that made us grow the fastest, and the four years spent with our roommates in the dormitory are our fond memories.

1. Smile welcome: When reporting in the dormitory, you should greet your roommate with a smile, which can leave a good impression on people, and at the same time will make your roommate think that you are particularly easy to get along with and polite.

2. Help your roommates: If your roommates are in trouble in the dormitory, you must do your best to help.

3. Be tolerant of others: Everyone has their own faults, so we can't ask everyone to be perfect, we must have a tolerant heart to tolerate others, so that others can tolerate us, so that we can get along with our roommates more harmoniously.

4. Care about roommates: When we get along with our roommates, we should carefully observe the preferences of our roommates and take the initiative to care about our roommates, which will make the roommates' bedroom life more comfortable, and at the same time, the relationship between us and our roommates will become intimate.

5. Treat people sincerely: We must get along with our roommates from the heart, so that our roommates can feel our sincerity, see our quality, trust us more, and then become real friends with us.

6. Be honest with each other.

Sometimes people in the dormitory don't get along well together.

Because after a long time, you will find the shortcomings of the other party, and sometimes you will not like it.

But the dormitories should be united.

Your sincere actions will impress others to be honest.

Sometimes don't get too intimate because it's going to get tired.

And even if some of the fire is bigger, remember to press it in the dormitory first, or you will be a little cold to your roommates.

I'm sure other people won't be able to stand it when I meet disgusting roommates.

Don't let others affect you too much!

1.College dorms are like opening a blind box, and you don't know what kind of people you're going to be with. This can be seen as a sedan training camp before you officially go out into society. You're going to grow up with several people and learn how to get along quickly when they're immature.

2.Focus on the weaknesses of human nature. Human nature has a lot of weaknesses, and everyone has some.

It's not that someone is bad, but human nature is **. For example, most people will be vain, jealous, disturbed, and so on. You may have a good family, but if you spend lavishly, others will think you're showing off, even though you've lived that way before.

What seems normal to you may be another in the eyes of others. Again, there are grades and so on, it's all the same. Actually, this is normal.

You need to pay proper attention to the feelings of the people around you so that it doesn't hurt too much.

3.If you do have roommates who are difficult to get along with, don't push yourself. To put it bluntly, everyone happens to live together.

It's fate to be able to get along. But after all, there are differences between people. If they don't deal with each other, that's it.

If you push yourself too hard, think about it every day, and be overly sensitive, you will become more and more uncomfortable. Just jump out and don't take it too seriously.

4.The human heart is a bottomless pit. This is true not only for roommates, but for anyone.

You don't want to be kind to others, and others will treat you just as well. Don't try to be honest with everyone, but stick to the bottom line. Only by having the right expectations for people can you not let yourself be disappointed by expecting too much.

5.Try not to get involved in other people's emotional problems. For example, if your roommate comes to you to complain about relationship problems, and you are indignant, the person breaks up. As a result, the next day, the person gets back together, and you are embarrassed. Sometimes people get along with each other, and the other person just needs emotional value.

6.Do you know what you want to do in college? The most important thing is, of course, learning.

Learning includes not only classroom learning, but also various practices, professional areas of interest and so on. You should focus on how to improve your true abilities. Under this premise, nothing else is too big.

If you can be inclusive, you will be inclusive. Don't take it too seriously.

7.Spend more time with students who study hard and study hard. Learning here also includes a variety of learning outside of the classroom and major.

A student who usually actively participates in various practices is also excited to study hard. If you have such classmates in your dormitory, study together and influence each other. Avoid negative interactions with the dorm, such as not studying.

Otherwise, only when you enter the society will you know the truth of the world, and it will be difficult for people with poor learning ability and weak ability to be competitive.

Looking back now, among my roommates in college and graduate school, there are classmates who started my own business together, classmates who are doing well in major companies now, and classmates who are about to go public. Everyone has their own growth. Each classmate, at that time, may have their own personality.

Under one roof, there will inevitably be all kinds of stumbles, but looking back after many years, everyone is actually fine.

Keep a sincere heart, and of course, protect yourself appropriately, so that you can get along well with others.