How to deal with dormitory relationships and university relationships?

For this kind of thing, you can actually choose to keep a little distance from her, because sometimes after you give, they will feel that you owe them, or you can also solemnly say your feelings when you invite her to dinner. As for the person you said who usually looks down on you, if you want to get by, or that sentence, don't pay, if you want to change, then be higher, no one owes anyone, right! In fact, the main thing depends on your own thoughts.

I wish you all the best.

In the process of getting along with classmates and roommates, I was able to fully experience many truths of interpersonal communication, and learned the principles of interpersonal strength first, sincerity in interpersonal interactions, and mutual respect between roommates. 1. Strength determines everything in interpersonal communication. In interpersonal interactions, what determines one's identity and status in interpersonal communication is one's own strength.

Only strong people can occupy an advantageous position in interpersonal communication, so as to effectively safeguard their own interests. This is the first lesson I learned from the relationship between college dormitories. 2. In the interaction with roommates, you must be sincere enough.

Exchanges between people must be based on treating each other sincerely. ......Only when they are sincere enough in their relationship can two people get closer and closer. ......This is a very important lesson that can be learned through college dormitory relationships, 3, roommates must respect each other when interacting.

Roommates treat each other as equals and respect each other in order to get along harmoniously. ......This is one of the most important factors in the relationship between roommates. ......Only by respecting each other can roommates get along in harmony with each other, and only then can friendship be established with each other and become true friends.

The above truths are what must be paid attention to when interacting with college roommates, and only by doing these points well can we maintain the harmony of the relationship between roommates and create a good learning and living environment for ourselves.

1. Be friendly and bring some food to share with them once in a while, but don't be a good person, and consider your own interests when helping others2Learn to say no appropriately! Learn to say no to things you don't like or don't want to do!

Don't be afraid that rejection will make the relationship awkward, after all, the taste of compromise will only make you unhappy. College should still focus on improving itself! 3, who do you think is easy to get along with, you can usually go to class together, buy things or something, and get familiar with it in a few times, but be careful not to casually dig out your heart and lungs with others, others are good to you, you are good to others 4 You must do more things and talk less!

Talking less is not not not not talking, but saying more when you should say what you should say, and not saying what you shouldn't say! You have to know how many dormitory blockbusters start by chewing each other's tongues! And what should be done must be done!

For example, the hygiene of the dormitory, after all, the dormitory is everyone's hygiene, and we should do it together. 5.If you really don't want to socialize, you should exercise well, get good grades, get scholarships, learn more about your major in your free time, take some certificates, and learn English well.

1. Improve self-awareness and improve poor cognition.

When there is interpersonal conflict, we must continue to know ourselves, improve ourselves, find possible problems from ourselves, and take the initiative to improve it, and our self-knowledge and interpersonal skills will continue to improve. In the process of interpersonal communication, it is necessary to understand others, start from the perspective of others, learn to empathize with others, and be considerate of others.

2. Master interpersonal skills, learn from classmates with strong interpersonal skills, and observe how others interact with others. They all do what you like and how you should do it. Learn to praise others, praise is not hypocrisy, but fact-based appreciation, knowing that no one likes to be blamed, and praise may become a motivation for growth, and it will win good relationships.

In interpersonal communication, respect, sincerity, and understanding each other from the perspective of others are the foundation of interpersonal communication, and learning to respect others, treat others with a sincere attitude and put ourselves in the shoes of others requires us to learn hard.

3. Learn to control your emotions, avoid conflicts, and learn not to deal with things with emotions when you have conflicts with other people. When we have emotions, the words we say may be irrational or may not be what we want to express, so it is important to learn to control our emotions and deal with the present situation rationally, and we need to learn it in our daily life.

<> university dormitory is a communal living environment, and students need to take care of and coordinate with each other. To handle interpersonal relationships in the dormitory, you can consider the following:

1.Respect everyone's habits and privacy. In the dormitory, everyone has their own way of life and private space, and they should respect each other and not interfere in the lives of others. For example, don't borrow other people's belongings at will, and don't disturb other people's rest and study.

2.Establish channels of communication and understanding. In the dormitory, students can solve some problems and disagreements through communication and communication. When there is a dissatisfaction or conflict, one should communicate calmly, express one's thoughts and opinions rationally, and try to understand the other person's position and needs.

3.Do a good job in the management of public affairs. In the dormitory, some public affairs need to be coordinated and managed, such as dormitory hygiene, equipment maintenance, water and electricity, etc.

Students can do a good job in the management of these affairs through division of labor and cooperation, formulating rules and regulations, etc., and keep the dormitory clean and safe.

4.Enhance the sense of helping and supporting each other. In the dormitory, students can help and support each other and make progress together. For example, you can borrow books and study materials from each other to help and support each other, and strengthen collective cohesion and friendship.

5.Adjust your mindset and stay positive. In the dormitory, students may encounter some setbacks and difficulties in Mori Wuqin, and at this time, they need to adjust their mentality and stay positive.

By studying hard and working together, you can overcome difficulties and achieve better grades and development. At the same time, it is also necessary to maintain an optimistic and tolerant attitude, and do not bring negative emotions and influences to the dormitory.

In short, the handling of interpersonal relationships in university dormitories requires students to work together to enhance their sense of cooperation and ability to collaborate in order to create a harmonious, safe and warm learning and living environment.

I think that meeting is fate, and we should live in harmony with our roommates in the dormitory. Because when I first came to university, I didn't actually know any friends, and roommates were often the first to know and get acquainted with them. In a sense, the dormitory is home, and roommates are the existence of relatives, and our dormitory roommates have done this, when anyone is sick, we take turns to take care of each other, and people care for each other.

We are an eight-person dormitory, and it is difficult to get along harmoniously in this kind of dormitory, because there are many people and contradictions, but we are not. Each of us regards the dormitory as our own home, and our roommates as relatives, and we will not accumulate conflicts if we say anything, and we understand and tolerate each other, so we get along very well.

Secondly, don't bother when your roommates are resting or busy with something, this time is their own time, if they come back late in the evening, they have already rested, do something light, don't disturb them, go outside and need novelty or delicious food, we will also bring it back for everyone to taste. Don't worry too much about something, if you think too much, you will not get along well with the dormitory. If there's someone in the dorm that you don't really like, stay away from her and don't have too much contact with her.

You can suggest that the head of the dormitory hold a dormitory meeting once a week or month, or it can be called a family meeting, and everyone can bring out some of their thoughts or suggestions at this time, so that there will be no accumulation of problems. You can't be too stingy in the dormitory, you have to learn to share, only if you share with others others will share with you, the rules for getting along with roommates in the dormitory are actually very simple, that is, treat sincerity with sincerity, if anyone is not that kind of sincere person, we can stay away from her, anyway, the dormitory is not just her roommate. The dormitory hygiene should also be taken care of.

After a long time, you can go to team building or watch movies together, and you can also make an appointment to travel together when you come to school after the holiday, which can enhance your relationship. In short, we treat people sincerely, and if they don't treat me, we don't need to get too close to her. If there is a conflict, try to solve it, and if it can't be solved, don't get too entangled.

Don't be mentally exhausted, the most important thing is to be yourself.

When the interpersonal relationships are handled, you will feel that this dormitory is the most welcoming dormitory. We need to learn the ability to interact with people. How should we get along in the dormitory?

First, pay attention to hygiene.

Hygiene includes personal hygiene and dormitory hygiene, the dormitory is small, usually a dormitory has at least four people, if you change the dirty clothes, dirty socks are not cleaned in time, and the garbage of meals and snacks is not thrown away in time, it is easy to have a taste, and it may affect everyone's health for a long time, and it will leave a very sloppy impression on roommates, which is not conducive to everyone's future interactions. Therefore, we should always pay attention to personal hygiene, and dormitory hygiene should also be done by everyone in turn.

Second, don't touch other people's things at will.

The dormitory is a small collective, although everyone lives together, but everyone is still an independent individual, so don't touch Brother Xun's things at will, even if you have a good relationship, you must inform in advance when you use other people's things, otherwise it will seem that you are very disrespectful of other people's privacy, and it is easy to cause disgust among roommates.

Third, control your emotions and don't engage in isolation.

Everyone comes from all over the world, it is a great fate to live in the same dormitory, but everyone's living habits and personalities are different, in the daily process of getting along, we must control our emotions, don't lose your temper, and be more understanding and tolerant of roommates' unsatisfactory places, don't isolate and exclude any roommate, and treat everyone equally to make the dormitory relationship more harmonious.