What moment did you see the gap between imagination and reality?

I want to go and see everywhere, and everything is a fantasy without money.

I felt like I had lost weight, and as a result, I was instantly beaten back to my original shape. In terms of figure, the ideal is very skinny, but the reality is very plump after all.

Your avatar, Edward Scissorhands. Thinking that I love you but can't hug you, even if you are close to me, you are not mine after all.

For example, when I was in junior high school, I thought that I would go to the United States and Tokyo after graduating from university, and so far I have achieved half of it. I went to JD.com Shopping and Gome Overseas Shopping, but I didn't go to college.

When we were about to graduate from college, we thought that we must clean the dormitory on the last day of college to leave a good memory for the future. As a result, by that time, our group went to drink and sing with our luggage, completely forgetting the thoughts of the time.

The moment I graduated from college and stepped into the workplace, I instantly felt that the people in this world were completely different from the good life I had imagined in school.

The so-called inconspicuous heroine in the TV series is actually very beautiful, and in reality, the result of every love will not be as satisfactory as in the TV series.

When I used to smoke, I closed my eyes every night and thought about the future, and when I finished smoking, I opened my eyes and found that I was back in the helpless real world.

When I joined the club in college, I was already planning to do it, but the next second I was disrupted by something suddenly happening in the club.

Many times the reality is far from what we imagined.

Let's take a simple example.

Kobayashi has to pass a school intersection when he gets home from work.

As we all know, the general off-duty time is not far from the end of school, especially when the school is out, there are many parents waiting for students outside the school gate on the road, so that section of the road will cause very congestion and congestion.

After Xiao Lin encountered a few blockages, he thought about whether to go another way.

There happened to be a small road that bypassed the intersection of that school.

Yesterday, when Kobayashi got off work, he passed by the path in a hurry, but halfway through the path, he suddenly moved around and was tightly blocked. There is no gap at all, and you can't even ride a bicycle.

Look at the blocked path that can't be moved. Xiao Lin was really speechless in his heart and asked the sky.

Although there are many people waiting for students on the main road outside, at least there are gaps to pinch through, and once this small road is blocked, there are no gaps, really.

I was thinking of taking a shortcut to bypass the blockage. As a result, he blocked himself even more deadly.

Here's another example.

Xiaoling had a customer ask a question. Xiao Lin thought about it for a long time, and finally held back that question. As a result, the other party came to a sentence. I've done both of them twice. Xiao Lin was speechless as soon as he pointed his head. I don't know how to pick it up.

I thought that he would solve this problem for him, maybe this order can be easily done, at least we can continue to talk.

As a result, he died directly.

So in many cases, thinking and actually thinking are completely different things.

Because when we imagine it, we ignore a lot of objective factors and automatically reduce the difficulty a lot, so we think that it is easy to achieve something in our imagination, but when we actually do it, we find that this is also a problem, that is also a problem, this is also a problem, this can't be passed, that can't be passed.

There is always a gap between the imagination of the mind and reality, is it a reminder that the imagination of the mind needs the support of reality!

Only imagination based on reality is beneficial to our lives. When guests come during the holiday, the first reaction is to resist, because I am not good at jumping out of the stool in my bones, will it not be well entertained, will it be often embarrassing, and will it not make people so satisfied.

But when you calm down and think about it, do I know what others think? I don't know, it's just my imagination, the real picky person is myself, my own inner drama is full of unshakable, but that part comes from fear, part from past experience, all have nothing to do with the current moment, but I just believe it.

After two days of getting along, those worries did not happen, but there were many unexpected surprises. The child and the little brother get along happily, the two play inseparably, so that they don't want to sleep, and when they wake up in the morning, they are the first to find each other, they have to sit together for dinner, climb the mountain together, and everything has to be together, it is completely unimaginable that due to the epidemic, they have not seen each other for two years, this is the power of family affection.

What can never be separated is love and connection, which touches me a little. Yesterday I went to climb the mountain, because I took the small gate to go up the mountain, the road was not good, and it didn't look like the feeling of a scenic spot, but it became interesting under the leadership of two children. When did I lose this and become timid.

Just follow the children of the moment, experience the scenery of the moment, feel the stool cleaner of the moment, everything is so beautiful.

There are no more judgments, more experiences, breaking a lot of obsessions in my heart and seeing a better side of life. I have more curiosity and desire to explore the world, and I look forward to seeing myself through more things.

There are still a lot of fears and worries, but there is a crack in my heart, and I have a small desire to take them to touch this real world!

Because I know that under fear, there is a desire to connect, not only to my family, but also to strange worlds and people!

True love is like water, that is the truth after the veil of love has faded and experienced the ups and downs of life, for people who have not paid or have not received true love, true love is a kind of care and care from the heart, there are no gorgeous words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it, love is so plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words. Feel it with your heart.

Love is inclusive rather than indulgent, love is caring rather than pampering, love is blending rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness, love is a lifelong thing...

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist dream.

Level 32009-10-15Imagine that people use the human brain to mythologize certain things and certain people. Often imagination is beautiful, imagination is also perfect, but this is always only human imagination can do, people can imagine a wide range of things, you can imagine what country you are now, or a movie star in a certain country, these are all imagination can give you, when people imagine to a certain extent, it will become a pathological existence, that is, the so-called paranoia in psychology.

Having said all this, I am not dispelling people's imagination of life, I just want to show that if a person only lives in that boundless imagination, everything is in vain... Time doesn't wait, maybe you miss a lot of the moments you imagined.

When I was young, I always liked to imagine how beautiful and happy it would be to grow up in the future. But time is always the best evidence, and when you see the changes around you, it is often the opposite of that beautiful imagination. Reality is cruel, and imagination is too beautiful, if in my words, God gave mankind the greatest power at that time, some people were optimistic with it, and some people were addicted to it, and they never recovered.

It's useless to talk a lot, at most you think about it in your heart, but you have to remember that if you think more, you will have more worries in your heart, and if you have time to enrich yourself, don't live in the past and fantasy of the future, only strive for it, and only work hard to imagine it will come true. I also wish you, imagination come true More answers.

What you are thinking, bai may be related to your life in reality.

Zhi Department. The more you think about how to go, then you will keep thinking about that inner method, whether you want to or not, you will always think, unless you can know yourself well, why do you have this action, instead of thinking all the time, because people want to understand themselves, then they must understand what they are, because you know how to get along with yourself, and you will not be emotionally overwhelmed by some ordinary problems.

Because thinking can be understood as a dream, and reality can be understood as the bright lights in life are all fought for by their own efforts! The difference between thinking and reality is that thinking is just standing still, while reality is working hard!

Fool, if the imagination is the same as the reality, then this society will not be like this, it will never progress, everyone is imagining what it will be. Instead of relying on your own practical actions to strive for it, then such an idea is not advisable, unscientific, friends, work hard, boldly to practice, how to know the result without trying? ? I wish you a speedy success.

Reality is cruel! God has arranged it for each of us! It's not like we just say what! Our idea is just a dream, and it's hard to get it done.

Imagination is imagination after all, in fact, it is fantasy, reality is real, reality is also the most cruel, sometimes imagination and reality are too different, so it is best to face reality!