What are the factors that affect relationships? How to improve

If there is unfriendliness to resist stinginess, it is natural to be a little lighter, and adjust the mentality to plant a good factor.

The factors that affect interpersonal communication are: local cultural differences, life background, personality, three views, dealing with people, psychology, etc.

Local cultural differences. Everyone comes from a different region, and they have some customs and habits of that place to a greater or lesser extent. Some local cultural differences can affect interpersonal interactions.

Life Background. The life background is different, the things you see are different, and you have different attitudes towards interpersonal communication.

Personality aspect. Some people are more extroverted and like to make all kinds of friends. While some people are more introverted, they prefer to seek quality friends over quantity.

Three views. Generally, people with the same three views will play better and better, while some people with different views often tend to lead to quarrels. The three views are also an important factor in determining whether this friendship can go long-term.

In terms of dealing with people. In most cases, people who know how to behave, that is, people with high emotional intelligence, tend to be more popular. Because interpersonal interaction with them tends to be more comfortable and not too burdensome.

Psychological aspects. In the early stage of making friends, they generally judge whether the person is worth dating based on their own psychological activities. If we agree with his actions and opinions, we will continue to socialize.

1. Cultural factors.

This is a factor that influences the formation of interactions due to different cultural backgrounds. It is mainly manifested in the understanding or customs of dealing with people. But it is precisely these that are likely to affect people's attitudes and actions.

Confucius once warned people that when entering other countries, they should first ask about their prohibitions, and when entering the capitals of other countries, they should first ask about their customs, the so-called "entry customs". For example, according to Chinese custom, if a woman invites her boyfriend to visit her home and meet his parents, it means that the woman is satisfied with the man and wants to be engaged to him. In the United States, it is very common to invite good friends to your home, regardless of whether they are the same gender as you.

This is how different cultural contexts understand the same behavior differently.

2. Spatio-temporal factors.

It mainly refers to the proximity of time and space. This is often an objective external condition for everyone to be familiar with each other and deepen their understanding. The so-called "familiarity is a treasure" is this truth.

Proximity in time and space is often manifested in two aspects: the distance between people and the frequency of interaction between people.

3. Social factors.

Human society is a society full of friendship, and everyone lives in an interpersonal relationship with friends and confidants. In real life, we have a certain amount of self-choice about what kind of people we interact with and what kind of people we maintain a relatively close relationship with. But interpersonal attraction is one of the most important factors.

Time attraction mainly refers to the interdependence of time and space, direct and indirect, real and hopeful, which is subjectively felt and experienced by the trotters. It refers to the phenomenon of two parties getting close to each other emotionally, and it is a special form of interpersonal relationship. Interpersonal attraction is like an invisible magnetic field, which "sucks" people together, and makes our lives colorful.

There are many factors that affect interpersonal attraction, the main ones are the following: appearance attraction, a person's body shape and appearance are formed and developed by innate genetic qualities, and it is not transferred by the individual's executive desires. However, when ordinary people judge others, they are often psychologically unable to eliminate the influence caused by their appearance.

In the process of social interaction, foreign trade factors often affect the establishment and development of interpersonal relationships, either tangible or invisible.

1) Cultural factor barriers: language barriers, such as misunderstanding, misinterpretation, prejudice, and discrimination in the process of communication, such as language, writing, and meaningful symbols; the problem of emotional and ideological propensity of the nation or group; Barriers to differences in educational attainment.

2) Social factor barriers: status and role barriers, such as the gap in social status, role, position, age, economy, politics, etc.; Spatial distance barriers, the spatial distance between the two sides is too large, and there are too many links in the middle, which will inevitably hinder the establishment of interpersonal relationships; Communication network disorders, the different communication networks formed by people in a group structure, can affect interpersonal communication due to various factors.

3) Individual factor disorders: personality structure disorders, differences in people's needs, motivations, habits, attitudes, values, outlook on life, etc.; Obstacles to personality traits, such as hypocrisy, apathy, withdrawal, suspicion, etc.

Communication is important: The relationship between people is close, and communication with each other is an essential premise. Mutual remuneration is important:

In getting along with each other, the higher the level of mutual remuneration, the more stable and close the relationship is. Tolerance is very important: the physiological and psychological differences between people are objective, whether this difference can be tolerated is also a manifestation of interpersonal coordination, the higher the level of tolerance, the greater the adaptability to get along with others, and the interpersonal relationship is quite good, and vice versa.