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That's for sure, as long as you're confident enough, and you're good at character, and you're good in all aspects, there's nothing you can't deserve.
Not arguing is compassion, not arguing is wisdom, and not hearing anything is quiet.
Indisputable is a kind of tolerance, ignorance, a kind of wisdom, not explaining, a kind of maturity.
Many times, we don't fight, not because we are incompetent, but because we don't want conflict.
Many times, we ignore it, not because of weakness, but because we have learned to give in.
Many times, we don't explain, not because of cowardice, but because time will tell.
Living in this world, no one says behind anyone's back. No matter how well you do it, some people will accuse you, no matter how true you say, there will be people who are dissatisfied, people who hate you, no matter how hard you try, it will not help, and the people who snub you, no matter how much you dig your heart, you will be indifferent.
We can't be liked by everyone, we can't satisfy everyone, we can't satisfy the insatiable people, and we can't accept the ill-intentioned people. Some people see through it and leave, and some things are downplayed and let go.
A lifetime is not long, please live for yourself. Don't care about other people's opinions, don't care about other people's eyes, just be clear in your heart. Gossip will disperse sooner or later, the more you argue, the more arrogant others will be, misunderstandings and contradictions, and they will eventually be resolved, and the more you explain, the more you can't explain clearly.
Be a man, don't be too stupid, in front of people who don't understand you, no matter how much you say, it's a waste. In the hearts of people who hate you, no matter how good it is, it is in vain. Instead of spending your time and energy on people who don't deserve it, keep it to yourself.
People live for a lifetime, do not argue, ignore, do not explain, show your generosity with indisputable, interpret your calmness with ignorance, and prove your character with no explanation. As long as you are upright, you dare to face it calmly, as long as you have a good heart, you can be worthy of your life!
Academic qualifications can't be confused with matching
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Personally, I feel that the academic background is not a particularly big threshold, not that the higher the quality of the education, the higher the quality, this also depends on the feelings between you. When is it, I still feel that academic qualifications are an obstacle. It's 2020 now, and there is really no big obstacle to this lack of education, and there is still true love.
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In fact, maybe for this kind of question, when you ask it again, you should have rejected it in your heart, right? Psychologically, I can't accept that your girlfriend has a three-book degree, so I hope you can see your innermost thoughts. If you care a lot about his education, then don't bother her, this also proves that you don't love her, because if you love her, you can love so much that you don't care about everything about her, so don't force yourself, and don't delay the girl's youth.
In fact, sometimes the key universities should not feel too good about themselves, Secondly, it is also normal for three universities to be together, two people are together, not because they love his academic qualifications, but because they love him as a person, and whether you can talk about it or not? You also have to recognize yourself, it is not necessarily that your own concept is correct, and you have to recognize yourself whether you talk about it or not. It is not necessarily that your own concept is correct, and your girlfriend's concept is wrong.
Personally, I think that the difference in schools is mainly about the difference in perspective, and if the three views are roughly on the same line of thought, then there is no problemWhat is necessary for two people to be together is not academic qualifications, but the feelings of the two of you about each other, if two people really can't talk, it will affect the development of the relationship, in fact, the two people are slightly different in the school circle of friends, etc., and whether they accept it or not varies from person to person.
In fact, there are many such examples around, boys are key universities, and girls are junior colleges, but both men and women are very good to each other, and the final result is also very happy, in fact, you should put down your body and think about it, 985 classmates are also ordinary people. If two people can go on, these will not be an obstacle for two people, and I hope you can find your own happiness.
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It seems that you are very proud of yourself 985, and you are using your academic qualifications to measure the value of people, and you don't look down on other girls with three books at all, since you can't talk together, of course, you can't go to get married, you still go to 985 to find a bosom friend in the same kind, and people still have to be with the same kind of three views to have a common language.
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What do you mean you can't talk about? Have you looked for the reason? It's worth pondering, if you want to talk about the knowledge you have in college, you don't learn the same thing, so find your own reasons and can't find other people's reasons.
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Since there is no common language, how can we get married? There is no true love, there is no mutual voice to confide in each other, and if you get married, you will get married and leave early, which is just a waste of emotional resources.
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If you feel that the two of you can't talk together, there is no common language and hobbies, such a relationship will be difficult to develop, love also depends on fate, if you have fate, you will become more and more attached to each other, care for each other, love each other, it will come naturally.
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In fact, it doesn't matter if it's three books, what matters is whether the girl is excellent or not, and excellence is not completely judged by the results of the college entrance examination. If the family dares to introduce you, it shows that this girl has her advantages, it may be her personality, it may be her work ability, etc. Don't jump to conclusions, unless your significant other is also 985, but that kind of person may be just as difficult to hold on to as you are.
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Marriage is a lifelong thing, since you can't talk about it, don't force yourself.
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You attach great importance to academic qualifications, so in this case, it is better to stop dating, and continuing to have a relationship will not lead to anything, which will hurt both parties and increase annoyance.
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I don't think I really like someone by looking at her education or anything.
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First of all, you shouldn't follow your own value, feel that you are 985, others are students of Sanben University, you can't talk together, if you can't talk together, then how can you get married with such a relationship?
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Marriage is a matter of two people, if you can't talk about a piece of feelings, how can you have a happy marriage without an emotional foundation, the result is not child's play, or find a suitable one.
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The gap between going to university in the college entrance examination, being admitted to a 985 university and being admitted to three universities is obvious. It is generally believed that the gap between 985 college students and three college students is mainly reflected in the gold content of the diploma. However, in real life, there are many 985 college students who would rather be single than find three students to fall in love.
What is the truth behind this? When you know why, you will definitely feel very heartbroken.
Some 985 college students' "gateway views" are too strong.
Some 985 college students, when they fall in love, pursue the right match. This kind of gateway view does not require the family conditions of the other party, but the university background of the other party. For example, some 985 college students don't look for Sanben college students when they fall in love, because they think that the reputation of Sanben College Student School is too average and does not match them.
In fact, three universities can also cultivate good students, and if a college student does not work hard, after graduation, he may not be as good as a three college students. This kind of view of the door is, to put it bluntly, just a prejudice.
985 college students and three college students have different education levels and can't talk about them together.
The reason why some 985 college students don't fall in love with three college students is that although they all go to college, the education content they receive is different and the knowledge they are exposed to is different, resulting in many of them not being able to talk about it. For example, in 985 University, college students work harder than in high school, everyone catches up with each other, both competition and cooperation, the learning atmosphere is very strong, and they talk about learning all day long. However, in some of the three universities, many college students are just trying to mix diplomas, and the learning atmosphere is very poor.
This situation makes it difficult for 985 college students and Sanben college students to get along.
Some 985 college students are worried that they will be dragged down by the three students.
The reason why some 985 college students will not choose Sanbunsheng as their love object is because 985 college students themselves have good backgrounds and will have a bright future. However, if they choose to fall in love with Sanben college students, they may be dragged down by Sanben college students. For example, many 985 college students have the opportunity to study abroad.
If they are targeting 985 college students, everyone can choose to study in the same country. However, if they are working with three university students, some of them are not good at English and cannot study abroad together at all.
Some 985 college students are afraid of being teased for falling in love with three bunshengs.
There are also 985 college students who refuse to fall in love with Sanbunsheng because they are afraid that this behavior will be made fun of by other 985 college students. This situation, although rare, does exist among some 985 college students.
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Because some 985 college students feel that they are very powerful and feel that Sanbensheng is not worthy of them, some 985 college students would rather be single than find Sanbensheng to fall in love.
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Because they feel that they should also find a 985 object, so that they will have a common topic and feel happy together.
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