I hurt my boyfriend, and now he is determined to break up, why is this attitude? 60

Two people need to be respectful and considerate and tolerant together, if you are too strong it will make your boyfriend feel stressed, and it is natural to propose a breakup, so this aspect needs to be improved.

Some things can't be done too much, not everyone can forgive, even if you forgive once, there will be no next time, people's tolerance is limited, don't always challenge the limit, both sides calm down and give each other a buffer period.

It shows that you hurt him deeply this time, and it broke his heart very much. Otherwise, his attitude would not be so resolute. If you want to really redeem him, you need to show your sincerity, that is, to sincerely apologize.

The person you hurt is the person who loves you the most, and it is impossible to heal the heart that is hurt, his attitude towards you shows how deeply you hurt him, the deep affection of love, he said that he can't stand what you do for yourself, you should also know that you are wrong, the feelings are from mutual respect, slowly heating up to you, nong, I nong, not unilaterally paying, and have been disrecognized and belittled, give him a good chat to give each other a chance.

Because you've crossed his line. I hate you to the core, love is deep and hatred is deep, don't force it.

You let him think alone, be alone for a while, give him a space to relax.

It's too much, I hope you remember this lesson, if your boyfriend can't get it back, be appropriate next time you make new friends, otherwise others won't be able to stand it.

You must have broken his heart, if people hurt their hearts, it is difficult to recover, especially men, men's self-esteem is very strong, and they do not tolerate the fault of others.

Your boyfriend has mental problems, so let's get a doctor.

You're still asking too much why this is the case, but it means that you haven't realized your mistake yet. If you hurt someone, shouldn't someone come and cut off the relationship with you? It's better to stay away from this person as soon as possible.

Don't take your own measures to engage in 511 behaviors, but they have caused not very deep harm to others.

It can only be said that your ex-boyfriend is trying to slowly forget about you, which is why it is like this. It's only a matter of time before I break up with you, it's just not that time yet.

If a boy insists on breaking up with you, I think it can be divided into two situations, one is scum, the other is hurting the boy and rarely mentions breaking up, if he mentions it, it means that he really made up his mind, educated boys will not easily propose to break up, and will also take the initiative to leave the opposite sex in the love between the two of you.

If you feel that your pride doesn't allow you to keep him, then let it go cleanly. If you are a person with emotional cleanliness, and you think that even if you succeed in retaining it this time, you will break up with him because he once mentioned it to you, and you feel that this love cannot make you do your best, then let it go.

If you have had a conflict before and you really want to reconcile, you can have a good chat, for example, you can work together to break bad habits. Of course, the premise of this is that he still loves you, just because he can't stand your bad temper. If you have saved a few days with good words, you still have to break up, young lady, decisively.

If there is no new love, then you need to find problems from your relationship, first of all, you yourself are slowly cold to men because of work, which will reduce the heat of love, of course, there is good communication at ordinary times, and it is also able to make the other party understand and support. But it just so happens that you yourself are not good at communication, and your personality is reserved and introverted. It is inevitable that during this time, the other party will feel left out and depressed, and you will also feel that he is not very important in your heart.

As a result, negative emotions accumulate in the heart, and finally break up.

The boy's mention of breaking up is definitely not a momentary idea, they must have thought about it for a long time. For both men and women, ending an intimate relationship must be very painful for themselves.

However, girls still have to have their own bottom line, and they can't blindly accommodate themselves, and that is not the happiness you originally wanted to pursue. The conclusion is to have your own life, keep yourself busy, and at the same time live up to yourself. Making yourself happy every day is more important than anything else.

If my boyfriend is very resolute in breaking up, in this case, if I still love him, I will definitely try my best to redeem it. No matter how resolute his attitude is, I love him and I will not give up on him. But if I don't love him anymore, either he's resolute, just as I want, and break up.

Why did my boyfriend choose to break up?

When I asked the question, he told me that his personality was not suitable.

Is it suddenly said that the personality is not suitable or there has been a conflict before.

Recently, my boyfriend's words and deeds are abnormal, is there another girl asking us about our junior year He is a student union officer, and he is usually very busy, but I am more clingy, and sometimes I lack company.

Guys think you're too clingy.

He likes independent girls.

If your boyfriend is very resolute in breaking up, I advise you not to insist on breaking up with him, because he is no longer as good as you in his heart, or he is in love with someone else, at this time I advise you to give up.

I will definitely break up with my boyfriend directly, because my boyfriend's attitude towards me is that my boyfriend doesn't love me anymore, and since he doesn't like me anymore, then I won't force my boyfriend to be with me.

I will break up, and the other party's attitude is already very resolute, so no matter what I say, he will choose to separate, and I will agree with his approach at this time.

The boyfriend and girlfriend broke up because of feelings and other reasons, and the boyfriend's attitude was very resolute when they broke up, and there was no room for recovery. In this case, I think we should learn to let go, so as not to cause more harm to ourselves, and believe that as long as you are good enough, you will reap your happiness as soon as possible.

If your boyfriend is more resolute when he breaks up, it means that he has already thought very clearly and doesn't like you anymore, so there is no need to redeem it at this time, let alone start over.

First of all, don't be too noisy, and then analyze the reason why the boy proposed to break up, first of all, find your own reasons, if you are wrong, apologize to the boy, if the boy is still very persistent, you must choose to let go, fulfill the other party, fulfill yourself, and try to accept a new relationship.

Accede to his request. Since he is so resolute, it means that he has figured it out, it means that he must have thought it through, and there is no possibility for the two of them to be together anymore, and it is no longer suitable, so why should he forcibly keep it. If you don't have fate, no matter how hard you try, it will be fruitless!

The fact that your boyfriend is very resolute in breaking up means two things, the first thing is that you have made too many mistakes in this relationship, which has caused a lot of damage to your boyfriend, and the second thing is that your boyfriend has fallen in love with someone else, and no matter what happens, there is no way for your relationship to continue.

will respect her choice, because the twisted melon is not sweet, when he doesn't love you anymore, there is no need for the two of them to be together, because of his love, his care will not be given to you.

Then break up, because this way you can express your attitude and not make yourself more humble.

If my boyfriend is very determined to break up, I will try to keep him first, and if he is still very determined to break up, then I can only let go and say goodbye to this relationship.

may choose to break up, since the boyfriend can break up decisively, it means that his feelings for him have faded, so he will choose to break up.

In love, if my boyfriend is very resolute in breaking up, even if there is a thousand reluctances, I will break up with him decisively, because love is a matter of two people, and humble love will not end well.

In this case, I won't continue to pester, I should wish my boyfriend happiness. Then I'll break up with him.

Of course, I will choose to break up with him, because he doesn't care about my feelings at all, and it is difficult to get along with such a person, and he will only be hurt again and again。I believe that many girls have encountered such a thing, and they have been hurt by their boyfriends again and again in their relationships, although they have chosen to forgive, but their boyfriends have not changed their lives and still hurt you without care. If you don't break up with such a boyfriend, do you keep it for the New Year?

What does it mean to be hurt again and again? It can only mean that the other party doesn't care about your feelings at all, he doesn't think there is a problem with him doing this, and he doesn't have a little self-knowledge, so is there any need to keep such a boyfriend? Maybe the other person does love you, but what can it be, love can't make up for the damage caused to you, these injuries will accumulate more and more, and eventually lead to yourself being unable to bear it, and you may collapse in the hurt.

Some girls always expect that the boy will change, thinking that if they endure the calm for a while, the other party will definitely get better and better in the future, and these girls just forget the phrase "the country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change". Many things are difficult to change, especially after marriage, not only will the other party not change, but will also become worse, if you don't want to be hurt for the rest of your life, the best way is to break up as soon as possible.

Because such a guy usually doesn't care about other people's feelings, he may be very upright in his actions, or he doesn't love you at all. Whatever the reason, it means that the two of you are not suitable together. Boys who really love this girl will not hurt each other easily, they will only care about each other's feelings very much, for fear that the other party will be hurt a little bit.

Don't gamble your youth and time on it, because no one is worth doing it on their own. No matter what the situation, we should focus on our own feelings, and many things should be cut through the mess quickly, instead of procrastinating here, which will only hurt ourselves more and even leave a lifelong shadow.

Of course I will choose to break up with him, a person who really loves you can't bear to hurt you, if he hurts you, it means that he doesn't care about you at all, I think girls must love themselves a little.

If my boyfriend is always hurting me, then I will definitely break up with him, such a boyfriend is not worthy of love. With such a boyfriend, you will only get hurt when you are with him, so you should break up with him as soon as possible. so as not to expose yourself to more harm.

This one will definitely break up wow, because when your boyfriend hurts you, you are not in his heart, obviously, he does not love you that much, because the man who loves you is not willing to hurt you.

That would definitely choose to break up. Because he wantonly hurts you, it means that he doesn't care about you at all, he doesn't care about you at all, pamper you, be considerate of you, and hold you in the palm of his hand. So, if you are with such a man, you will only hurt yourself more!

Yes, how can the person who loves me bear to hurt me, hurt me wantonly, prove that he doesn't love me, why should I hurt myself for someone who doesn't love me, and let the other party hurt me wantonly.

Yes, because such a man is not worthy of nostalgia, he does not love you at all, does not cherish you.

Yes, this is a matter of principle, if the other person does not cherish you, then there is no need to continue to get along with him.

There is no need to hurt me wantonly, as long as he hurts me more than three times, I will choose to break up with him, doing more of the same thing means that he doesn't care at all, so he hurts you means that he doesn't care about you.

This kind of boyfriend directly chooses not to, why do you say that, falling in love is for the purpose of getting along with two people, and falling in love is not to hurt yourself, as long as it hurts you, break up immediately.

If a person is good doesn't mind how you feel. Hurts you often. Then there's really no need to compromise together. Such a boy will not be responsible for you.

Summary. My dear, for this situation, first of all, what is the reason for your breakup, you can solve this reason, and then you can coax your boyfriend, after all, it is not easy for two people to be together, and you still have to cherish each other.

Sooner or later, love you, for this unfortunate situation, first of all, you are a yard for what caused the breakup, you can solve this reason, and then you can coax your boyfriend, after all, it is not easy for two people to be together, and they still have to cherish each other.

He just thinks that our personalities are not suitable Then he is not from the student union, sometimes he is very busy I am more clingy when I am peaceful and auspicious Plus I can't control my emotions well Sometimes he feels very inappropriate He can't give me what I want If we get together, we don't, both parties feel very painful I have kept him, but he is still very resolute.

My dear, what did he say that you could get rid of these problems?

It's still not appropriate, there's no need to waste each other's time, he doesn't think there's any point.

My dear, it is difficult to undo the breakup if the average boy is very resolute. Because men themselves are very rational about feelings. Not casually emotional.

I also know this, and he also said that this is his deliberate decision, and he will not change it easily. So it's really impossible for me to talk to him?

Uh-huh, it's really hard to recover.

But I really can't accept this outcome.

My dear, affection cannot be forced. You're bound to meet someone better than him in the future.

Well, thank you, teacher<>

You're welcome, it's not early, so rest early. You deserve better.