I want to break up with my boyfriend and don t want to hurt him!

Updated on psychology 2024-05-26
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If it's your fault, I don't think you need to say it, just disappear from his world! Maybe he knew it would be harder to know the truth! If it's his reason, you can say it directly, or even scold him and beat him.

    If it's really as you said, both of you think it's inappropriate, then don't say that this doesn't match what you said. If you unilaterally feel that it is not appropriate, you can talk to him and find a way to solve it together! Maybe there's room for it!

    If you really want to leave him, then you need enough reasons, convincing reasons! If you can't tell you why, you might as well disappear by yourself! Leave a message before you disappear!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you ignore him, he'll be sad, if you talk to someone, he'll be sad, if you secretly find another one, he'll be even more sad, so it's better to tell him directly, I really want to know who has a way to keep him from getting hurt.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You are kind! However, as long as it comes to breaking up, there is nothing that does not hurt people, but the degree is different. I think you know him better than we do.

    Think about it, what method would be better for you to communicate with him? Once you've thought about it, find a time for the two of you to sit down and have a good talk (also while walking). Tell him what you think, and I think he'll understand.

    Boys should have a certain amount of tolerance. good luck!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Tell him. If you don't like him, why do you want to hurt him?

    You will be happy when you are with the people you like.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you don't talk about breaking up, it's really hurting to drag it like this.

    It's true. It's me, I just want to hear it, you say you don't love it.

    I just gave up.

    Although it can't be put down, it won't be entangled.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's all about people being hurt.

    Probably you can only hurt a little if you say no, tactfully.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Better a finger off than always aching!

    Tell him the truth or treat it coldly (don't contact, or say you're busy)!!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is no third party, there are no fierce contradictions, he has no shortcomings.

    It's the same, it's not appropriate.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No matter how you say such a thing, it will hurt him, and the only way to do it directly is to say it directly

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The white knife goes in and the red knife comes out.

    Climb out of the way, and that's the end of our play."

    That way, he will feel that you are not worth being sad about.

    It's clean and neat.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Why don't you think it's appropriate? I think there is no other reason to break up, there are other reasons to hurt people, I think the long pain is better than the short pain, now it's 5 months, in the next he loves you deeper, the deeper the hurt is, the early injury is also the injury and the late injury is also the injury, so you decided to put.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Actually, for men.

    Directly speaking, it is the least harmful.

    It's going to be more painful for you to drag him. It's true.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you want to keep dating without hurting him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Long pain is better than short pain, it is a good way for you ...

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    What is not suitable cannot be expressed in words.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Let's say it tactfully, but still say it to your face, and if he asks for a reason, don't just say it yourself.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Why not fit, reason!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Think about it from another perspective, it's impossible not to hurt.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Summary. There is no Virgin Mary in love, if you want to divide it, it is simple, and procrastination will only make him more sad.

    If you insist on being with the other person because you are afraid of breaking up, you may unconsciously become more and more acerbic towards him, and the other person still does not understand the hint. For a long time he will comfort himself that the two of you are still together and that love will make him ignore everything.

    But your desire to break free from this shackle, if not stated, will cause him more serious harm. It may also make you look for other dating opportunities before you break up. If it is discovered, it will hurt his self-esteem even more.

    If you are very sure that the relationship will only cause you pain, then don't continue to procrastinate, otherwise it will only hurt the other person's self-esteem. Make up your mind that breaking up is the right thing to do. Politely and firmly state, let's break up.

    I want to break up with my boyfriend but don't want to hurt him.

    There is no Virgin Mary in love, if you want to divide it, you can simply shoot it, and procrastination will only make him more sad. If you insist on being with the other person because you are afraid of breaking up, you will unconsciously become more and more acerbic about him, and the other person still does not understand the hint. For a long time he will comfort himself that the two of you are still together and that love will make him ignore everything.

    But your desire to break free from this shackle, if not stated, will cause him more serious harm. It may also make you look for other dating opportunities before you break up. If it is discovered, it will hurt his self-esteem even more.

    If you are very sure that the relationship will only cause you pain, then don't continue to procrastinate, otherwise it will only hurt the other person's self-esteem and counting. Make up your mind that breaking up is the right thing to do. Politely and firmly state, let's break up.

    I hope mine can help you and have a happy life!

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