I just fell out of love and met a man who was 9 years older than me, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-08-02
57 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    If you don't mind hurting him in the future, you keep in touch with him, but the more you love him, the more hurt will be in the future. It's better to give up now· Don't play with married men

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Does he love you? Do you feel it? Truly?

    Does he love his wife? Just because he likes you doesn't mean he loves you.

    There is a big difference between love and liking!!

    If he loves his wife more than you, you don't have to contradict it, leaving is the best choice!

    If he is a failure in his marriage, then you might as well go and appease his heart.

    But is that really the case?

    You know best whether he's acting on the spot.

    Shoot your eyes and see who he is.

    If you are worthy of love, you should love, and if you love without an ending, it is better to give up! ·

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Let it go, it's a joy to let go! What doesn't belong to you, don't force it!

    Let it go, it is the best result for each of you and even for her wife to find a man who truly belongs to you, to find a spiritual fit!

    Wishing you happiness!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Don't be stupid, be a third party spurned by others, you have just fallen out of love now, don't be blind to it, you are very fragile psychologically now, don't be blinded by sadness.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If he loves you, then wait for him to divorce, and then you can be with him again, he loves his wife, which means that he is just having fun with you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Oh, it's not easy, if you love him, use this love to cheat him out of money.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Slowly use your sincerity to influence him, and show your attitude with daily bits and pieces.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't be in a hurry, the person has not yet come out of the shadow of broken love, all you have to do is comfort him and accompany him silently until he recovers, and then you can further develop your relationship.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Ask him out and take him out to vent If the expression is still very sad, give him a slap in the face Tell him that it's not just a woman Is it necessary to be like this Good women are more sad for someone who doesn't care about you Is it worth it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Care for him. Take care of him. Accompany him. Let him get out of the shadow of broken love. But don't let him get used to nature.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Care for him, accompany him, comfort him, and find a chance to get him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    During his breakup, you have to help him as much as possible, care for him, and guide him slowly until he walks out of the relationship.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Approach him, comfort his soul, show the good side of everything, and he will fall in love with you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Comfort him, care for him, and slowly enter his psyche.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Boyfriends start as friends.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    On him, the most simple and straightforward.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Be good to him and slowly move him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Comfort him first and be friends with him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I often spend time with him, play with him or something.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    He doesn't love you, he can't.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    After reading your question, in fact, falling out of love is not a bad thing, which means that a new beginning is coming, which proves that the person he met is not a lifelong companion, so let him want to open more, you are sad here, people are accompanying other people, so think about it, don't hurt yourself for some feelings, think more, how to find someone better than him in the future, don't be heartbroken for falling out of love, this is a big mistake for being a man.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You tell him, "You and she have broken up, and although it will be sad now, it will be fine in a while." Moreover, since you have broken up, it is useless to regret it, even if you regret it now, if you return to the original relationship, you will not return to the past, because there are already scars between you.

    If a friend has a relationship problem, he should be comforted. Don't think so much, worry so much. Accompany him, let him talk out, eat some delicious desserts together, can be relieved.

    I don't know the character of the boy you said But when he falls out of love, he must be depressed, especially when two people with deep feelings come to this point, maybe for the time being, this is unacceptable to him, and he is often prone to show low mood and heart-rending discomfort.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Men are not born for women, and men will encounter scenery that only belongs to you in the experience of growing up.

    And the person who really accompanies you to the next part of the journey is still waiting for a better you at the next intersection, if the small canal in front of you can't be crossed, what can you do in the future?

    Cry happily, let everything go with the wind, and have a drink with him.

    Within ten steps there will be grass.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Invite him to go to KTV to go crazy, and he will be in a better mood tomorrow. Don't give up a real garden for a flower.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Long-lasting love is in your heart, just as many people often ask if there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, and eternal love is your love. We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness of the other person.

    And happiness, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

    Believe in yourself only.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Drink with him, listen to his complaints, and play with him.

    Don't get drunk and don't play with him.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Let him be alone quietly, he doesn't need to be comforted if he wants to open it, and it's useless if he can't think of comfort.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    **The best way to fall out of love is to start a new relationship, and the worst way is to fade after a long time.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    will fall out of love, which means that this person is not the person you are looking for in this life, so since it is not the right person, why do you have to keep her and keep her to torture yourself.

    In this life, you will meet more people and more joy, so you must think on the bright side and believe that the arrangement of fate will allow you to meet a more suitable person for you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Accompany him to talk about other topics, downplaying the matter of falling out of love.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Spend more time with him, go out for a walk, and forget about it.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Pretend to be her girlfriend and let him transfer his kindness to his ex-girlfriend to you. Eat and go shopping with him, but don't do what a boyfriend or girlfriend should do. A person who has just fallen out of love is very lonely, so spend more time with him.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Be a listener.

    Or go out to eat and play.

    It's good to vent the discomfort in your heart.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Spend more time with him, just like a lover, and he will have some relief.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Companionship is the best comfort ...

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Where there is no grass in the world, why bother to love a flower

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Invite him to drink and talk about the grass where there is no place.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    In the ninety-fourth round, Guan Shengyi surrendered to three generals, and Li Kui recklessly trapped everyone.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Then I'm love! Because I had a very bad feeling when I saw him approaching another girl! There will be a faint pain in the heart! It hurts why he is not very good with others.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I've had this issue recently as well, I'm 22 and he's 14. Isn't it ridiculous to say. I thought it was unlikely, but I can't control ......it

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Landlord, I feel that the boy really doesn't like you, so he treats you as a good friend, forget it, or he has no regrets when he sleeps, or he just forgets about him.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If you love someone and he's younger than you, what's the problem @!! People don't often say that height is not a problem, and age is not a distance.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I'm an example right now, with a man who is 10 years younger than me. Sometimes he grabbed me very tightly, sometimes far and near, sometimes hot and cold, after all, I have been through too many things myself, I am very insecure about this kind of meeting, and when I want to give up, he is very hot, which makes me want to stop. But I still want to give up, this kind of intergenerational love is immature after all, and he will leave sooner or later, so if it can be launched now, I will quit first......

  44. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    There is no age limit for loving someone.

  45. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    As long as you really like it.

    Don't care about age.

    And of course, don't push yourself.

  46. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    At such an age, it is not easy to usher in a second spring, I hope you cherish it.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Then you can enjoy the joy that young people bring you

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Are you both single from each other?

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    It's time to wake up from a dream.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Talk about your own conditions.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Old women are the most enjoyable, and the people I interact with are all over 50, and I am 38 in Xi'an.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    What lovelorn people need most is comfort, warmth, and let him come out of his last relationship.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Comfort, comfort, comfort, companionship, and go out to play more when you are free.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Like yourself a little more, and naturally others will like you.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Can you really do it without loving him?

    Woman. The true nature of a man, this is just his nature, maybe he will not forget your feelings, take advantage of it, and when love extends to family affection, he will also be inseparable from you, manage it well.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Care more about him, but I think what should be reminded is to see if people like you or not. Often this kind of problem is that the other party is out of love, and someone happens to give him comfort and care, so that person accepts you. But if he accepts it at the moment, it doesn't mean that he likes you and loves you, because he is looking for the "shadow" of his ex-girlfriend.

    It is recommended that you do not rush too much, even if you like him, let him completely come out of this shadow of lovelorn first. Fall in love with him again. Otherwise, you are likely to face a lot of relationship problems in the future.

    There are too many, and some of them suddenly have girlfriends who come back to him ......

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Let him get rid of his last emotion first.

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